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I hate the ocean, theme parks
&& airplanes
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Cuz Im real
and I cant go on without you.
.I can't stand annoying little kids.
.I know my music.
.Ten things I hate about you is my movie dunneven.
.Yo tengo uno hermana.
.Im really tired 24/7.
.80's movies make me happy.
.ima pearl dimond kinda gal.
.I smile alot.
.Im shy && outgoing.
.my real frineds are in my head.
.clases are lame.
.my head hurts often.
im not overwlemed
&& im not under welmed
im just welmed.
.im insecure but who isnt?.
Oh yeah &&
these r my crazii friends
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advice
Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape
When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?
easy 5's people!
Sarah Dessen writes about these things like crazy I recoment "dreamland" and also theres a book by Julie Ann Peters called "Define Normal" that you might be interested in. Theres also a book called speak but im not so sure who its by. Hope I helped lyl diane
Ok well lest year I had the perfet boyfriend! We loved each other so much, and during the summer we just stopped talking! Now we talk but it just doesnt seem to feel right! I really really liek him still, and i want to ask him if he would ever go out w/ me again i just get scared! please tell me how to ask him please!
Have someone do it for you, i tihnk that works best. Becasue then you know the answer and you can go on without it being akaward cuz he wont know u know. Hope I helped (and im 100% sure that works just in case you doubt it)LYL xoxox MWAA diane ...good luck!!!!
yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help
I know I know chick before dick I always break that rule but go for him i mean friends should always support you if she has that big of a problem with itthen maybe she shouldn't judge people she doesn't know.Go for it..but then again what do I know..haha ave fun good luck lyl !!MWAA
Hey!
I usually don't ask these types of qusetions but this has really worried me. Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. I really like him. Me and him talk ALL THE TIME! Like last night when I went to the basketball game (he plays basketball yay!) he was sitting were I am always at with my friends. (my friends boyfriend is his friend). And anyway. One of my 'so' called friends said "Yeah we know who she likes. She likes Kody!" and he looks back at me and started smiling. My face turned blood red. Theres like some days we dont talk that much and some days we talk alot. He always jokes with me and my friend. I asked him today if he was mad at me and he said no. Soo whats going on? Rate all 5's!
Okay well it seems like he really likes you and i cant tell who broke up with who but apperently if hes acting this way its because hes having second thoughts. I think he likes you he just wants to keep his options open. If you want to get him to like you thats a whole diffrent thing. LYL hope it works out if you need me drop one in my mail box
My best friend (A) might or at least I think is flirting with my Ex who I am still in love with. She knows I like him and she has a boyfriend that she likes to. But what got me mad was when I saw them play fighting. So I got mad and left and I 'sorta' got over it today until I saw her around him again play fighting and acting stupid. It broke my heart and I almost cried cause I he might like her!! What can I say to her. Thanks All 5's SWEAR!
Well that really mean to do I mean she knows u like him. ugh gross. All i can say is if my firned ever did that to me id tell her it was pissing me off. Becasue going around and telling people about it might even make it worse. Just confront her and im sure things will be okay. Hope I helped lyl xoxo if u need more help just put 1 in my mail box!
alright me and my bboyfriend have bbeen getting in a bunch of random little fights latly so i was gunna make him a cd. but like i wanted to get the lyrics to all of the songs and then like on the back or anouther paper i was gunna write like in my words the song and iwanted to know if that was to cheese ... PLEASE HELP me.
i rate 5's
Aww thats a really cute Idea and i don't think its cheesy im sure he will apreciate it alot. Go for it! Hope i helped lyl good luck! diane
Ok their is this guy that goes to my school he is a grade ahead of me but he always sits by me one the bus and he said i was hot and he always flirts w/ me and stuff like that so i totally thought he liked me but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said he didnt wanta go out??? whats going on>?
Its probably an age thing. His friends probably would make fun of him and what not, which makes him dumb and stupid becasue he will miss out. But if you talk to him more and flirt back and what not maybe he will change his mind. But dont change the way you act, dress or anything else for him because it wont be worth it. I hope I helped good luck lyl xoxo diane
There is this guy that I know, and I've been trying to get to know him for a while, but he's unreadable.
He will only talk to me when everyone is around, and even then, he's indirect about it. He'll never actually start up a conversation with -ME-
When I try to talk with him alone, he'll end it promptly.
What can I do to get this guy to open up? I don't know what his deal is, if he likes me, or hates me, or what.
im sure he thinks you're really kewl but is nervous. So what you have to do is talk about something casual, convient. Like what a teacher than you both have said or how so and so are going out. If he ignores you, gets up and walks away, or doesn't really have much of a response hes eaither shy, tired or in a bad mood. But never give up im sure he will get more into conversation if he can relate.Hope i helped good luck
I've recently swithced types of music from gheotto to rock/emo/ skater. I'm a girl and I was wondering how I could dress skater. And what kind of make-up to use maybe some pictures. I dont want to look goth just ummmmm... punk I quess.
So how can I dress and wear punk make-up? Also what kind of skater shoes should I buy?
xo - ox
okay well 1st im against this whole "chaning your everything because its in thing" but if you want advice for it, i have it. First you need bracelets (accesories are key)funky earings and bags make a whole diffrent outfit. Thermo sweaters and jeans are punky alternitive if you want to make a slow change. Layers are good too, like short sleeve over long sleeve. Urban outfitters has everything but there a bit pricey, vitage clothing stores have great stuff too, for cheaper prices. Hope i helped lyl xoxox MWA luv diane
13/f
Ok well i've been really bored lately and i just got of restriction that lasted for ever and i just wanta do something fun with all my friends guys and girls. So i was thinking about throwing a party but like i need a theme and some good ideas like what to do so it wouldnt be so lame and just something we could do from 6:00 pm to 9:30 pm that would be fun and wouldnt get lame and stuff like that and that we could all have fun doin if this helps i have a nice pool in the backyard but its too cold to swim i also have a trampoline and i would want about 25 people at the most so give any good ideas and ill rate u a 5
thx
Okay now its November right so why not throw a fall party. Im 14 and my best friend just threw a party in her backyard. Now I dont know how outgoing your friends are but if you start with thruth or dare the games will get funner and funner like truth or dare the suck and blow (from clueless) then spin the bottle. Also watching a movie in a basment with comfy warm chairs might be fun too and give people a reason to cuddle and what not. But you seem to want to give ur backyard some use, so just let people chill and talk. Im sure no matter what you do you'll have tons of fun. Hope I helped good luck lyl xoxox MWA
How do you naturally just "ask" someone out ot to hmcming?
btw, 13/f
The perfect was is to say r you going with anyone to home comming and then hill say nope and than you say r you gonna ask any1 then hill say no then you say same here but i really wanna go with someone and then hill say o you wanan go with me haha hope this work good luck luv yah!
How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? Is there any kind of physical movement or gestures?
well when i like someone i talk to them alot alot and hit them not hard in a joking kinda way and stil close to them on couches and stuff if thats what you mean..well i hope I helped much luv hope it works out
okay...i'm very depressed. And a guy didnt even break up with me or sumthing. i just dont have a bf right now...and i really like this guy at school...we flirt ALOT..but i still have a feeling he doesnt like me...and ever since i've been really depressed...(plus, homecoming dance is coming up..that doesnt help)
is there anyway for me to get out of this funk?
no offence but i dont think you should ask if ur not prepared but maybe start to get involved with him like mayb itroduce a gave of truth or dare the next time your with all your firneds and get someone to dare him to kiss you or something ...this works cuz it makes him feel more comfertable...i know this from experence
can someone help me out why do good things happen to bad people ?
yea i think its cuz they make people view them as "cool" cuz there evil and can do that haha and then people listen to them but truthfully i dont really know and wish i did
will someone please help me
im quite fat and i go red all the time i mean i get worn out really easly like i will walk down the street and i will go proper red nearly purple and i dont no why i no its probs because of my weight and i really want to be thin but i cant cause i get really anoyed and imbarased wen i do sum exercise and im bright red i would love to be thin and i would be able to do it if i just didnt go so red and get so worn out its horible i dont really like going shoping or when my mates go out of school for lunch i hate it cause im really red and everyone laughs at me / is something wrong woth me and can this be stoped i will rate high
It can be stopped im sure but it would be a smart idea to notify a parent or guardian (depending how old you are) or gonig to a doctor(which is your best bet)hope it gets beter
okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
taylor
Im so sory i didnt answer soom ive been away for a while i think that you should talk to him (if its not too late) and i know it may sound dumb but maybe you should wait to see if things clear up..im pretty sure i understand tho haha. anyway if I didnt help im really sorry
my best best best friend in the whole world since kindergarten is turning into a big JAP! she has so many fricken juicy hollister abercrombie etc clothes its soo annoying. we'll call her sally. so i'm not the most popular girl in the world but i'm not a complete loser. i'm a little ditzy and crazy and dorky but thats who i am. thats how all my firneds are. she doesnt seem to accept us though. all she cares about is being popular so she doesnt even say hi to us anymore. she doesnt care when we leave, and she follows her rly popular friends around. she doesnt hang out with me and my other friends anymore. its like she doesnt care that we exist. but shes so fun and nice when shes not busy being careful about being popular. i want her to be the same sally she used to be. over last summer, she started changing alot and getting much jappier. i didnt say anything--i didn't think it mattered. it's gone too far now-- what should i do?
Okay I know EXACTLY what to do. You make her hang out with Luke Klump and me and Pat and she'll be so cought up in old times she'll act the same again (hopefully) and then she wont hate me and we can all be gangsterz hahaah JK ILYSFM sexy asian hahaah (if you havent cought up Im bestt friends wih the girl who posted this shes my lyfe)
ok so there is this guy..he is my guyfriend and i like him alot, but my other friend likes him too, and i already told her it was cool and that im happy for her because he supposedly likes her back. but really i feel empty and broken and i was wondering if this is normal and what should i do to get over this feeling, its making me feel awful, i just want to be normal again!thnx in advance. i'll rate you high if you are nice.
sincerely,
brokenlover
This is completly normal no worries! You should get a new hobby liek decorating or something to keep your mind off things a little! hope I helped good luck hope you feel better MWAAAA
ohk i have a bad case of ashy elbows ... anyhome remedies to make them less dry ?? thnx
Vasaline helps alot. Hope I helped send feedback mwaa lyl
Tomarrow there is a feild trip! To Canobie Lake Park!! Im afraid of going on the rides!! but i really want to! im only 4"6 would i be tall enough? [please dont make fun of me because im short ]]
Im sure you would be tall enough. And if anyone does make fun of you thats really mean and there jsut insecure about themselves! Hope I helped LYL mwaaa xoxoxo