ok so there is this guy..he is my guyfriend and i like him alot, but my other friend likes him too, and i already told her it was cool and that im happy for her because he supposedly likes her back. but really i feel empty and broken and i was wondering if this is normal and what should i do to get over this feeling, its making me feel awful, i just want to be normal again!thnx in advance. i'll rate you high if you are nice.
FantastaWoman answered Saturday June 4 2005, 5:16 am: Dear Broken,
The way you are feeling is completely normal. I'm sorry that you feel this way though. I have been in the same position as you. I suggest that you talk with your friend and tell her your feelings. If she's your true friend, she'll listen. I don't promise that everything will turn out perfectly, but I do know that you'll feel much better once she knows how you feel. Take luck and keep in touch! [ FantastaWoman's advice column | Ask FantastaWoman A Question ]
soccerandhockey!!! answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 9:38 pm: hi, your problem is hard to answer but i will try! ok so maybe if it's possible to try and like some other guys. i know it sounds hard but if your friend likes this guy and he supposedly likes her, she might take it the wrong way if you talk wit her, thiugh it might help. If this a guy that you can talk to and share your feelings with, talk to him. i really hope i helped! good luck!!! [ soccerandhockey!!!'s advice column | Ask soccerandhockey!!! A Question ]
xxfilmingfrenzyxx answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 8:46 pm: You know what, i have had the exact same thing happen to me! I know how your feeling and it is perfectly normal to feel this way. What happened to me was i was like best friends with this guy and then all of the sudden i started smiling at him more and trying to find was to be around him. But he liked my best friend and she liked him back, what made it worse was that he asked me to hook them up. Now i know what your going through so, lemme give you some tips...for one any guy that doesn't like you for you isn't worth it. if you dwell on your feelings for this guy and he doesn't show them back then your just hurting yourself more. I know it is hard to move on and it might not happen right away but all effort helps. You just need to believe in yourself and even though it hurts that he doesn't like you, it means that he isn't the one for you, most likely because of the way the universe works when you show him that your not interested anymore then he will come to you and you will probably have a guy that totally loves you for you buy then.
Hope i helped. Send me a message if you have any other questions.
karenR answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 8:01 pm: I think you're having a normal reaction. Could it be that thinking of him with your friend stirs up a little jealousy? I think you may be realizing you like him a little more than you may have thought. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xoxo*london answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:48 pm: aww..that is perfectly understandable and normal! dont worry the feeling WILL pass! In the mean time just do anything that you enjoy to get your mind off of the subject..dont seclude yourself and spend hours at a time thinking. This will only make it worse and make you depressed most likely. You should try to focus on the things in life that make you happy! Hope this helps! :)
xXtashmahottieOo answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:47 pm: This is completly normal no worries! You should get a new hobby liek decorating or something to keep your mind off things a little! hope I helped good luck hope you feel better MWAAAA <3 diane (plz send feed back) [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
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