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can someone help me out why do good things happen to bad people ?
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cuz you may think its good but really its not so in the end its bad
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Because your concept of good and bad is off.
The people who have bad things happen to them are actually bad as well. The people who you percieve as bad are in fact good.
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Good things happen to bad people because they do still have some good in them. Nobody is ever truely lost. And if you believe in a God, he is trying to make them become good again by giving them gifts. Those who are lucky may believe that there is a greater creator that is helping them, and is doing so then.
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Ooh. I notice this is in the Love Life catergory. I think I know what you're talking about. So if I'm wrong and it wasn't supposed to be a Love Life question, feel free to give me a 1 if you please, it would mean I wasn't technically answering your question.
Since you didn't specify a gender, I'll just say you're a girl. Anyway, what you're trying to say is that you (liked, had a crush on, loved) a guy, but so did some (slut, biotch, jackass). That guy went for the (slut, biotch, jackass). Right? Well, he went for her for one reason: he was a jock, I bet. Jocks always go for the preppy, popular sluts & biotches. It's just the way of the stereotypes. If he wasn't a jock, I'd have to say that he wasn't really feeling it with you, but he had feelings with the (slut, biotch, jackass). I'm reallllly sorry. But if he was that cruel, he obviously wasn't good enough for you anyway! He doesn't deserve to get a girl! Keep livin' on. As they said in Bye Bye Birdie, you've "got a lot of livin' to do." Hope I helped, good luck!
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Like you I have also wonder such questions. I spent a great deal of meditation and pondering on such matters. I have researched on the subject for a long time. I could never accept the fact that the good things happen to bad people more and bad things happen to good people more often than bad things to bad people and good things to good people. And after of years of searching and experience it finely hit me, you are only seeing a small part of the picture. The evils of the world would like us to give up hope surrender ourselves to their will, and enslave us to our misery and bind with the wretchedness of our own depression. As I was younger, I saw only what you are seeing right now, Pain misery, unhappiness for those who tried to live a good life while those who enjoyed inflicting such dark gloom on others. As I grew older, my eyes begun to open I started seeing the full picture of life; that those who seem to have it all, actually have very little, those who seem to always get away and get off the hook are in reality enslaved themselves to the very Evils which I spoke of.
And example I have seen kids whose parents would buy them their young heart desires anytime of day/week/year, and it made them very spoiled and jerkish to everyone who wasn’t their friend; they seemed to have it all except one thing. Consider where would the parents get the money to buy such things, they would have to work longs hours and, all to often, in very stressful jobs, so the parents are either always working and rarely ever see their kids, the kids are either raised by a nanny or to fend for themselves. So to have things of the world, they had to pay a terrible price, they never really knew parents, they were treated no differently then the family dog, and worst of all they saw people who had a family, who were happy but did not have the things of the world, and they hated them for it. There were times they thought those who were poorer were the lucky ones. So, out of jealousy they picked on and tormented those kids, who in their eyes were more fortunate that them.
Now tell me who has it better; one who gets all the things of the world; things that will fade with time, or one who have very little of the world but has an unimaginable treasure?
I also know a kid who lived a very charmed life, he got in allsorts of trouble but it was always lesser than his friend that he did it with. He was smart, resourceful, popular, and well admire. But he also paid a very terrible price, he was utterly forgotten by he parents when his younger brother was born, I don’t mean the normal older/ younger relationships, his younger brother always got everything he wanted (just like the kids I mention earlier). Now he basically lost his mind through drugs and misery caused by his parent’s oversight and his younger brother has really no concept of reality.
Sounds wonderful doesn’t, the point I want to make is when you think someone has it all they in all reality do not. So those who do bad things have their share of bad things happen to them and in the end, it is they who are in the losing end of things. It is “The grass is always greener on the other side” thing.
I sincerely hope this helps you out/let me know if it did.
Best of Luck
~Teen Guru~
P.S. sorry if it long but I don't think I could have shorten it that much. also if u has any more questions, please feel free to ask.
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yea i think its cuz they make people view them as "cool" cuz there evil and can do that haha and then people listen to them but truthfully i dont really know and wish i did<33hope that helped
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I think that some events are fate and some are god's way of making us stronger. My husband passed away unexpectedly at 31 yrs old... I'm a good person, and he was even moreso. it made me wiser in ways that i shouldn't have had to deal with until i was a senior citizen and I still wonder what the plan for me is supposed to be. even if we can't understand it, there is a reason somewhere, and that's when the strength of your faith truly comes into play.
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I think the reason for this is because they always do bad things to get what they want in other words manipulate some one and they get away with the things they do.
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Because bad people lie, manipulate and cheat to get good things.
Oh and also, life is unfair and some things are all down to chance.
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Because contrary to popular belief, karma doesn't really hold true. You can be the nicest person in the world, all kinds of people would like you, but your life could still be a living hell. You could lose your job, lose a loved one, etc... The inverse is also true. Some people live wealthy, happy lives and get away with some of the most vicious acts. It's all because the way a lot of people percieve the world is false. The harsh reality is you never know what will happen and often times things don't happen for a good enough reason.
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