Member Since: February 17, 2005
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Last Update: February 17, 2005
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my bf and i have been together for 5 months now, but i am an extremely jealous person. i dont want it to affect our relationship, but im worried it will. wat can i do, i just get so crazy when he talks to other girls. help please (link)
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wow 5 months! thats a long time. im sure what you have with your bf is something special!
after 5 months a certain level of trust should be established in concrete! have you discussed your feelings with your bf? i can tell you care alot for him, as you dont want it to ruin your relationship. put yourself in his shoes for a second, do you think it works the same way? again talk to him about it.
try not to worry so much. just enjoy something special that you have!
hope all goes well
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okay well i reall hate living at my house..my mom has told me she dont want me here and my step dad has also i've been cryin for the past two nights and the only comfort i've had was my boyfriend he's the greatest well my friend toni wants to runaway and she one my best friends and she asked if i'd go with her...well i've gave this so much thought and i really want to but the reason i wont is cause of my boyfriend well he asked me to marry him and i said yes.. but he kinda felt bad after he told me cause he said he cant do it right now or anything cause were only 16..well i know were young and everything but my friend toni said we should run off and get married..though bout that also but i dont wanna do that then like get caught and his grandma or my mom can get it undone anyways which i know my mom won't cause she really could care less.. but like can anybody gimma advice on how i can try and stand my parents.. ill rate high if its good.. and i also need advice on if you think i should marry him.. i love him more then anything we been through alot together like his mother's deather me havin a miscarriage me havin my airway disease my mom losing her baby and jus a whole bunch of other stuff and i know he will always be there or atleast i think he will.. he hasnt gave up on me yet in the past year and a lil bit longer..and dont tell me im too young cause i know that but lota people get married young and things work out..much luv and thanks ahead of time for anybody who helps.. (link)
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i cant help but sympathise with you. hugs!
well honestly i can say, what youve dscribed with the feelings between you and your boyfriend, it sounds like the real thing. and if it is, congratulations. not many people do find that ever! however marriage is something not to be taken lightly! remember that. you can still be together and still love each other that much!, how about an eternity ring!
as for your family situation. running away is never a good option. i can say this now, because not so long ago, i contemplated it myself, even worse. as ive stressed in many answers, time is a healer!, you need to persevere and your bf can help you, and it sounds like he is anyway. you should try to talk to your friend about running away.
how about talking to your parents, discussing situations, bargaining? you give a little, they give a little? maybe moving out is another option. again not very reccomendable, but it is better than running away.
im guessing your going through a tough time, i jus hope you will be ok! if you need to talk to someone theres always advice groups around, dont be afraid, as there are many people in your situation, or similar.
be brave
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Okay, so theres this guy that i really liked and then he asked me out so we're going out. Then there was this other guy that i really liked but then i kinda didnt and now i do and now all these guys are like asking me out and flirting with me and stuff..they dont know i have a boyfriend but yeah its annoying cuz they didnt when i didnt have a bf..why does this always happen that when i actually have a bf THEN the people i like start liking me or whatever..? ugh! (link)
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Girl, for a second i thought you were telling my life story!
Its a shame!, but unfortunately something we dont have control over. Theories suggest we become much more attractive (all rounded) when we are taken.
The key is knowing what you want!, What you really want!
Is your bf making you happy? are you happy?
if the answer is yes, and you would like to make it work, by all means do, and be sure to stick by your decision, it might be hard!, but will definately be worth it in the end. (put yourself in his shoes...think about it)
however if your not feeling happy, then maybe you need to reassess the situation, and find a more suitable solution, that will enable your happniess.
i cant stress enough, that sometimes we just have to be selfish, and look after ourselves. No stressing needed anyway, just know that you are fabulous...i mean after all...your in high demand!
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i started liking this boy right after winterbreak. he started liking me too and we started hanging out alot. we went out for a little bit but then broke up. then he started liking one of my good friends. now he like sme again and im still crazy about him. i dont know what to do. i love him to death. (link)
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tough one there. but have no fear!
just a few points to ponder.. why did you break up initially? was it something major? do you think the posibility of whatever it was that happened might happen again? the feelings you felt when you broke up...would you like to feel them again? ok, it might seem like im being sceptical, but you have to remember you dont want to get hurt. sure everyone deserves a second chance,and well maybe it just might turn out happily in the end, but you have to take care of yourself first and foremost.
the fact that he now likes one of your good friends questions me, as to how much this guy really likes you! are you sure what youre feeling is actually love, and not merely infatuation accompanied with want?
if in all honesty, you see things working out, then by all means go for it. however if you are unsure, take the time to think about it. time is a great helper!
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hey i have my periuod but i dont know how to use a tampon... im afraid im going to get it this weekend and im going to this club for teens. I need to wear a thong so i have to wear a tampon. But how do you use it... is it hard?? Does it hurt? what should i do.. (link)
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having to deal with life is enough hassle...now tampons? well no sweat hun. dont be afraid, in the tampon box, there should be an advice sheet, make sure you read that.
also try talking to someone who might be going through the same thing, and someone who knows what to do. remember dont be afraid as its a natural thing.
have no fear, and hope you have a wicked night
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Hey, okay this is kinda weird for me to ask...but is it wrong for you to have a bf, or well, not a bf..but I mean at my skewl when you say bf, it's someone you just say you're goin out with, and not actually do anything besides hold hands, and im not sure but maybe kiss..at school...thats it..so is it wrong for you to have one without your parents' permission...like,i mean, not the kind where i haven't asked them cause I'm afraid of their answer, I mean I haven't asked them cause I KNOW their answer, because their not American and they have values and all that...but see I was raised in an American or International way, and so at my school...and there's this guy I like on and off..and he flirts with me...and all that. but even for the future..an I asked my sister if it's okay with her anyway coz even though she's not allowed she had 2 before without my parents finding out, but she said no, it's better not to...so is it okay for me to go ahead when they've all said no, because it's not fair, and it's my life..and even though I'm young, I know it has nothing to with age, they will never let me have a bf in their right minds...i dunno...life is pretty horrible for me right now..my parents are really mean besides that too...so i'm confused. Plz help m and answer my question. Thanx. I'm really sorry this was soo long. THX (link)
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well hunny, i can see why your so upset. You dont want to go around doing something that you might think would hurt your parents, but at the same time your torn between new age values, and more importantly your feelings!
Coming from a home with parents that are very traditional and very strict, i can see myself in your position.
With all due respect to your sister, she seems to be a hypocrite, well, she did have her own boyfriends didnt she?
Im not saying go ahead and defy your parents, but you need to understand their values and their way of life. I suggest just casually slipping the subject into a conversation some day, (not that you have one ,or actually want one) but you know, jus test the water a bit.
I know how it feels to be living in someones shadows, and not being able to express who you really are. Sometimes its best for people, when they dont know everything thats going on. At the end of this, you need to make sure that you are doing YOU! everything else will come clear in due time! time is the key!
good luck hun
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My brother in law is living with me and my husband.
I don't mind that he's staying in our house. What I can't stand is that he is messy. He'll go into the kitchen and get something to eat and not put it away. He'll get a glass of juice and not wash his glass. Not only does he not wash it, but he leaves it on the kitchen table for me to do it.
What do you suggest I do? (link)
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Girl, you need to do some busting up...you need to lay down the law. ok ok maybe a bit drastic. but you need to remember, this is Your house, Your space - both you and your husband.
The last thing youd want to do is cause issues, so i suggest a little chat with you husband about the cleanliness in the house, and see what he thinks about it. cleanliness is next to godliness! your husband should know what to do next hun!
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my hair is curly and i am so tired of having to deal with it.. i striaghten it and i am worried if i keep straightening it i will fry it .. i am wondering if any one has gotten a straight perm .. if you have,.. does it fry your hair? is it ok to get one if you have highlights? will is make your hair un-healthy... or softer? pleassee help!!
((((I RATE HIGH))))
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hey hunny, curly hair is gorgeous, ur one lucky lady. but unfortunately it is high maintenance and many cant be bothered at times!
chemical treatments are good, but a bit drastic, so i suggest you trying some serum (anti-frizz) before straightening, and see how that goes. Im pretty sure it should acheive the look your after. If not, then chemically getting it straightned is not gonna kill you hair!, jus dont do it often!(not too sure on the price, over here in the uk its about £50, altho the price does vary), to maintain your sleek sexy look, use some serum before straightening!
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Ok theres this guy.. i really like him BUT him & this grl just ended.. i mean they went out last yr for a week.. & broke up but ever since then they've been like kinda like a couple but not? & newayss well i rly like himmm & like he calls me @ night & sumtimes i call him.. it goes back & forth & we just talk bout nothing rly just i dno.. & he always begs me to go the dances.. & hes always like go 2 the dance & ill dance with u.. i dno if thats just him kidding around? its kinda iffffy.. i dno .. duz it seem like he likes me? or no.. i dno.. he said he likes someone new.. & his profile says the same.. PLZ SOMEONE HELPPPPP! (link)
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ok, some confusions about the air maybe?
this guy seems to be into you, maybe hes just a bit shy. Sometimes ladies, we jus have to take the upper hand and make that first step to get what we really want. I suggest you accept his invite to the dance, go along, enjoy yourself, see what he's like. If the roads looking clear, go for the kill. If not, then well why waste your time. Be fabulous elsewhere, and get an even better guy who wont be afraid to say what he wants!
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