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well this could be under love life or families..
okay well i reall hate living at my house..my mom has told me she dont want me here and my step dad has also i've been cryin for the past two nights and the only comfort i've had was my boyfriend he's the greatest well my friend toni wants to runaway and she one my best friends and she asked if i'd go with her...well i've gave this so much thought and i really want to but the reason i wont is cause of my boyfriend well he asked me to marry him and i said yes.. but he kinda felt bad after he told me cause he said he cant do it right now or anything cause were only 16..well i know were young and everything but my friend toni said we should run off and get married..though bout that also but i dont wanna do that then like get caught and his grandma or my mom can get it undone anyways which i know my mom won't cause she really could care less.. but like can anybody gimma advice on how i can try and stand my parents.. ill rate high if its good.. and i also need advice on if you think i should marry him.. i love him more then anything we been through alot together like his mother's deather me havin a miscarriage me havin my airway disease my mom losing her baby and jus a whole bunch of other stuff and i know he will always be there or atleast i think he will.. he hasnt gave up on me yet in the past year and a lil bit longer..and dont tell me im too young cause i know that but lota people get married young and things work out..much luv and thanks ahead of time for anybody who helps..
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yeah well don't run away thats stupid. i think you should marry your boyfriend. if your mom doesn't want you there and neither does your step dad then ask your boyfriend if his parents would let you live with him. i mean your old enough too pick where you want to live. and your mom can't stop you and if you take it to court just tell the judge that your mom said she didn't want you there. the judge will do whats best for you just dont' run away and marry that other guy your in love with your boyfriend marry him.
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first off you should really report your situation to someone of appropriate authority. try getting in touch with a social worker or someone of that nature and discuss it. secondly, i wouldnt suggest marrying your boyfriend. the idea would sound wonderful, but once it happens you might find that you havent come far enough to make such a decision. try your hardest to stay away from your home for as long as you can until you find someone who can help with your problem. i wish you the best in any decision you make!
-Jenny
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YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont know what to say about the fam.
maybe live with your BF!!
me and my boyfreind are getting married too!!, i love him more than anything too!!
so totally do it, and we're around your age too!
:)
Hope I Helped-
Always There;
*KeLs*
P.S.= If You Ever Need Advice Leave One In My Inbox. Kels
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well you ask if i think you should marry him. my opinion wont matter there, because you just argued your side so well that i dont thik it matters what i thought because now i feel likeyou really do love him and that you should marry him. :) you should be a lawyer!!! lol. but uh with the running away thing, you should just wait a bit longer and if your mum is as horrible and doesn't care as you said, then just tell her your moving out. that way there is no reason to get the police or anything involved. :)
~ANGE
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You have to think do u realli want to marry this guy and think that was the biggest mistake of my life? You mite think this is crazy but you could go to a therapist and he or she could help u work through some of your family issues because i do that since my mom died i will say it has helped with my family we have gotten a lot closer and learned how to realli get along and live without my mom to help us just try
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You're an idiot thats what you are. Dont even think about running away. Your a discrace.
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Ok well i suggest 3 things one get a job 2 go to a court and become an emancipated teen so you can live wherever you please 3 either get an apartment or stay with a friend or stay with ur boyfriend but this is all i can suggest hope i help
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Um, I'm only 13, so my advice might not be that great to ya, but I think you should at least wait till you graduate high school to get married. Then you'll be 18 or 19 and no one but you and him can undo the marriage. I think that you should not run away, and I don't think your friend Toni should either. As bad as things can be you should stay with your family and your church family and your friends. I should know, I've had a grand total of 6 surgeries, 3 of which were heart, and I'll have to have another heart surgery this summer. I've had a concusion, a ceisur, I have Hypoglosemia (the opposite of Diabeties), I might be anemic, and I didn't know my biological father until last March. It turned out he's the scum of the Earth, but back to your advice. I know it must be hard to not feel wanted, but think about how many other friends you have. Other friends that want to be there for you, and want you to be there for them. This may not seem like much, but I like you even though I don't know you. You seem really nice and sincere. If you don't go to church, or believe in God, I'm not going to try and pressure you, or tell you that you're wrong not to. All I know is despite all the hard times I've gone through, He's always been there for me, and my life is SO much better with God in it. For all I really, factually know, God doesn't exist, but I'd really rather be safe than sorry, and even if for some off chance that He doesn't exist, talking to Him, and praying to Him always makes me feel better, no matter what my problems. I know you might not take my advice, but please, at least try to pray about it. I don't care about ratings, I just hope I helped you. Thanks for taking the time to read a 13 yr old girl's speech. I really hope I helped.
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Wow, what a good boyfriend. Why dont you just move in with him and then marry him when you guys are a bit older? Or you can just move in with someone else until collage or somthing!! 16, as your know is too young, but i mean you can marry him when you are 18+
♥ MIchelle
Hope everything will go well!
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i cant help but sympathise with you. hugs!
well honestly i can say, what youve dscribed with the feelings between you and your boyfriend, it sounds like the real thing. and if it is, congratulations. not many people do find that ever! however marriage is something not to be taken lightly! remember that. you can still be together and still love each other that much!, how about an eternity ring!
as for your family situation. running away is never a good option. i can say this now, because not so long ago, i contemplated it myself, even worse. as ive stressed in many answers, time is a healer!, you need to persevere and your bf can help you, and it sounds like he is anyway. you should try to talk to your friend about running away.
how about talking to your parents, discussing situations, bargaining? you give a little, they give a little? maybe moving out is another option. again not very reccomendable, but it is better than running away.
im guessing your going through a tough time, i jus hope you will be ok! if you need to talk to someone theres always advice groups around, dont be afraid, as there are many people in your situation, or similar.
be brave
x
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