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Hello all! it's Jenny here, and im a voice of reason if you ever need one. im happy to offer advice on any situation, and would love to answer any question you might have. leave one whenever and ill try to answer it asap!

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I'm 15, a virgin, I've never had oral sex, I've never even made out with a guy before. Sometimes my vagina has been itchy and sometimes I have alot of clear discharge (or sometimes it's a little yellow) and sometimes it smells a bit funky. I'm not sure what's the matter since I've never had sex before or ANTYHING. If this there is anything wrong with me, does it sound like it could lead to me not being able to have a baby? I've been really worried ever since I've seen a movie like two months ago and that's got me wondering. So as you can see this has been for like three/four months problem. Is it even a problem? PLEASE HELP!

theres nothing wrong with you. its completely normal, especially in the weeks before your period. no need to worry at all

-Jenny

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i want to turn my room into an old hollywood style, kinda hotel room type of thing, but where the stars stayed, and by old i mean like the 20's 30's 40's hollywood theme, breakfast at tiffanys, casablanca, etc. i want it to look like the fancy hotels of that time with the posters from movies of that time, i know where to get the posters, but what, and where do i get the other stuff?????? please help, i rate well!

you should really focus on the walls and furniture in the room. those era's had a very dramatic feel, so play that up. try wallpaper or fabric walls circa that era. with furniture, try rich fabrics in golds, pinks and emerald greens among others. again, keep in mind the dramatic affect that those era's hold. good luck decorating!

-Jenny

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ok...me and my friend
Whitney are doing a social studies fair project and we are doing it on Hershey's, like the history and stuff. we have searched the internet sooooo so so much we have been to like every site there is about hersheys!!....does anyone know any good sites or know anywhere that we could buy Hershey's shirts?
Also if you have any tips on how to do better at the social studies fair...thanks in advance Amy
please answer A.S.A.P

http://www.hersheyshappiness.com/hs/hsStore/cgi-bin/ProdSubEV_Cat_200108_NavRoot_200108.htm

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16/f/California. When I'm at the beach, or when I'm out in the sun for long periods of time, I never wear sunblock (if anything, I use like, a tanning lotion or something)...and I tan easily (I have mostly Dominican in me, and we're able to tan easily), I rarely burn. But lately the whole "skin cancer" thing is freaking me out. I like being tan, and the fact that I tan easily. If I wore sunblock, can I still get a tan? I heard that you can, it just blocks the bad sun rays...is this true? Or does sunblock completely block the sun??

sunblock does just what its name says: blocks sun. it pretty much prevents any sun from getting into your skin. sunscreen is your best bet because it will block out enough sun so that you can get a tan and still have healthy skin. tan tan tan!

-Jenny

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well i have naturally kinda sraight hair, but i straigten it if its now curly, but i really want curly hair, and i already got a perm one time and its just too much so i dont wanna get that again, and so what i do is i get out of the shower and twist my hair up and put it in a clip, then i take it out a few mins after and spray some hair spray on it so it stays and its fine, what are other ways to make your hair curly? and also i have a curling iron but i dont know how to do my hair with it haha, my friend can do it but i just cant seem to get the hang of it! please help *xoOx

i curl my hair fairly often, and i say that that's the best way to do it. if you're really unsure on how the curl with a curling iron, try going to your hair salon. have them curl your hair then explain how they're using the iron. Curl away!

-Jenny

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i need suggestions for the use of self tanner. like, my face and neck, should i do those? i mean... if i dont it will l;ook weird and if i screw up it will look weird, u know? my mom got me this spray gun thing i dono how to use it! o man, i need help right now! please. : )

if you're using the self tanner just for everyday non-beach use, applicate it on all visible parts of your body. do your face and neck, and whatever other parts of your body will be showing. the spray gun sounds like it'll definitley work better than any lotion. be careful and happy uh...self-tanning!

-Jenny

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Hiya,
I like 'vintage' and ethnic-y (peasant, gypsy) clothes and I love having unique stuff...but I'm not sure exactly what to wear. I love all those things like tiered skirts and really, really long necklaces with cool beads but what else is there that would go with a 'vintage' kind of look? This is for every day wear. Thanks!

try just wearing jeans with peasent-y tops. if its too cold out to wear a light top alone, layer it up. pair heavier peices with lighter ones. overall, jeans are the way to go.

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im not sure what catagory to ut this in but here we go, ok im usually always wearin a jacket because i sweat sometimes and i dont know why and i dont want people to see them especially boys armpit stains arent attractive and i have tryed a lot of deoderants like dove, teen spirit, a lot of em can anyone give me any advice on this horror thanks so much

drop the deoderant and go for antipersperant. it helps stop constant sweating, and really works. jacket, no more!

-Jenny

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im looking for a dress for the end of the year dance, which is supposed to be some big thing. we arent supposed to like over do it.. like wear prom dresses and stuff, but we need to wear dresses and look nice. im going shopping to check them out tomorrow. any suggestions?

try a simple black dress that fits well. pair it with some cute shoes and dont go overboard on accessories. youll look great! drop one in my inbox if you have anymore questions.

-Jenny

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hey does anyone know where i can find some good makeup products online? thanks!

i'd try meetmark.com. you sign up, and can buy/trade some cute makeup (Avon) for decent prices. hope it helped!

-Jenny

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i want some truley unique peices for my wordrobe! not too preppy but not to punkish. im a junior size (im 13years) so does ne one no where i can shop for these things?

Try shopping at some vintage stores. They almost always have great unique peices of clothing. vintage is great for anyone, and i highly suggest trying one of the stores out. look up stores in your area online or elsewhere, good luck!

-Jenny

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im REALLY tiny, only 5'1 and 120 lbs. i have HUGE boobs, and they keep getting bigger. im a size 34 DD, and i cant even buy a shaped cup bra cause they dont even fit. my bra rides up my back from my boobs pulling down on it. theyre so big that i have to wear two bras just to keep them up. i dont even know where i can find a bra that will work for me, because the cups kinda cut thru my boobs and give me "bubble boob." im a size 5, and i had to buy a size 12 formal dress just to fit my boobs, and it was WAY too big. my boobs pop open the buttons on button up shirts. SERIOUSLY i know this is a dumb question but what the hell can i do?

Its not a rare thing when a small girl has big boobs. i myself, being 5'10" and having a small chest wouldnt know, but i know a handful of people just like you. try to see a doctor soon to check out your back. bigger boobs can really take a toll on your back and knowing sooner than later is a must. im afraid as of now, the clothing option wont change. its annoying how clothing companies just assume that girls in one size are always built a certain way. its a pain to look for the perfect clothes, but keep trying!

-jenny

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My brother in law is living with me and my husband.
I don't mind that he's staying in our house. What I can't stand is that he is messy. He'll go into the kitchen and get something to eat and not put it away. He'll get a glass of juice and not wash his glass. Not only does he not wash it, but he leaves it on the kitchen table for me to do it.

What do you suggest I do?

definitley sit him down and discuss the whole matter. tell him where both you and he stand in terms of your home. dont come across to hostile though, and instead approach it in a calm but stern way. get the point across clearly, so he knows exactly what you're speaking of. good luck!

-Jenny

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okay well i reall hate living at my house..my mom has told me she dont want me here and my step dad has also i've been cryin for the past two nights and the only comfort i've had was my boyfriend he's the greatest well my friend toni wants to runaway and she one my best friends and she asked if i'd go with her...well i've gave this so much thought and i really want to but the reason i wont is cause of my boyfriend well he asked me to marry him and i said yes.. but he kinda felt bad after he told me cause he said he cant do it right now or anything cause were only 16..well i know were young and everything but my friend toni said we should run off and get married..though bout that also but i dont wanna do that then like get caught and his grandma or my mom can get it undone anyways which i know my mom won't cause she really could care less.. but like can anybody gimma advice on how i can try and stand my parents.. ill rate high if its good.. and i also need advice on if you think i should marry him.. i love him more then anything we been through alot together like his mother's deather me havin a miscarriage me havin my airway disease my mom losing her baby and jus a whole bunch of other stuff and i know he will always be there or atleast i think he will.. he hasnt gave up on me yet in the past year and a lil bit longer..and dont tell me im too young cause i know that but lota people get married young and things work out..much luv and thanks ahead of time for anybody who helps..

first off you should really report your situation to someone of appropriate authority. try getting in touch with a social worker or someone of that nature and discuss it. secondly, i wouldnt suggest marrying your boyfriend. the idea would sound wonderful, but once it happens you might find that you havent come far enough to make such a decision. try your hardest to stay away from your home for as long as you can until you find someone who can help with your problem. i wish you the best in any decision you make!

-Jenny

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Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks.

i know how you feel and no, that isnt sexual harrassment. that is just something he's doing to get a few laughs out of everyone else. sexual harrassment is along the lines of touching someone in an innapropriate way forcefully. no need to worry!

-Jenny

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i just told one of my best friends kelly im bi and now she is acting weird around me. I imed her and shes like ummm hi and im like whats wrong and then she says well idk how to act around u anymore, and im really hurt, she treats me like im not wanted, not intentional, but it still hurts, what do i do be honest

anyone who treats you in that way are just what they claim you are. dont ever listen to negative comments your friends may say about your sexual orientation. if you friend cannot cope with the fact that you do have different sexual views than her, shes no real friend. make sure to tell her how she's making you feel, even if it makes you feel very vulnerable. if she still doesnt accept it, dont waste your time on her anymore. good luck!

-Jenny

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