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Best Friend Might Be FLIRTING!
My best friend (A) might or at least I think is flirting with my Ex who I am still in love with. She knows I like him and she has a boyfriend that she likes to. But what got me mad was when I saw them play fighting. So I got mad and left and I 'sorta' got over it today until I saw her around him again play fighting and acting stupid. It broke my heart and I almost cried cause I he might like her!! What can I say to her. Thanks All 5's SWEAR!
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Dear Flirting,
First of all guys who play fight with girls think it's fun and it's a game they don't take it seriously trust me i have tons of guy friends. If they didn't think that it wasn't fun and something to do with FRIENDS then why would guy rough house with their other guy friends so don't worry it's nothing to worry about. If i were you i wouldn't work myself up all over that. Also everytime you think you like him just think back on why you guys broke up in the first place. Your best desicion would be to just move on from that loser and find someone new there are always plenty of other fish in the sea.
much love,
bubblesamin
p.s. and if you need any more advice just find me on here or just send a message publicly and look in your answers for an answer from bubblesamin
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Wow, you need to tell this girl to BACK OFF! lol just kidding. But seriously, if she has a boyfriend who she likes, its not fair to him OR to your ex to be flirting with him. She needs to make up her mind like, SOON! Before she loses both of them and you get totally mad at her. Tell her that. Only, you might want to word it slightly nicer. :) Hope I helped.
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Well that really mean to do I mean she knows u like him. ugh gross. All i can say is if my firned ever did that to me id tell her it was pissing me off. Becasue going around and telling people about it might even make it worse. Just confront her and im sure things will be okay. Hope I helped lyl xoxo if u need more help just put 1 in my mail box!<3 diane
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That god damn back stabber! just tell her straight up, lol no you dont have to do that! Just sit down with her and tlka to her and be like so do you like any one? and she might say him! And just be like "O you do, well i like him to" and of coarse she should know girl rules! But it sounds like she doesnt, because you can never go out w/ a best friends X! Jus talk to her! she'll feal sorry! I really do hope I helped!
maddy!
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I had a similar problem with my ex. Even now that we're going out he still flirts with my friend. I know what you mean about the play fighting. I get so annoyed because any time she comes around, one of them starts something with the other and I'm left out. I think you have the right to be mad at her. I also think it would be good for the two of you to talk, though. (Before you backhand her and get in a fight then wind up with "Loser" written on your head with highlighter. lol!) Just tell her that whether she's flirting or not, it bothers you. One thing that would be nice to know is whether your ex thinks she's flirting. Maybe you can get her to talk to him and find out if he considers it flirting and if he likes her. He might even use this flirting to try and make you jealous. It's hard to know. Just hang in there. Things will hopefully get better because if your friend is a REAL friend, she'll understand how you feel. If you want to be really brave just go up to you ex and tell him you love him and see what happens. But I'm not even brave enough to do that. lol! Anyway... Good luck! I hope I was helpful!
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Well you could ask her why are you playing weith him? I dont have a problem but i wanted to know if i could like hang out with you guys. Thats what you say and Im sure that will work! Hope this advice helped!
Hugs and Kisses...
XSmartieX
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did your best friend know this guy when he was with you? if so, maybe they're just friends... you should try talking to her about it. trying saying something like this...i've seen your around __ lately, anything up with that? don't say it in a mad tone or she won't tell you. then just try outdoing her maybe.. go flirt with your ex yourself if you still like him.. show him what he lost. good luck!!
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chances are your Ex still likes you so don't completely crash. don't get mad at your friend either, because she obviously likes him to. This probably isn't that great if she already has a b/f though. just try to be nice to both your friend and you ex, and might just win his heart back. you're welcome ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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ok well maybe you could be like do u like my ex? be like i wont be mad if you do just tell me and do you no if he likes you!! i mean you two are best friends so you should be able to talk to eachother!! i really hope i helped!//xo stacey
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