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My hearts soar :-(
I dated this guy for like six weeks, feelings got involved mostly on my behalf, but I broke it off because he freaks when he gets close to people and I didnt wanna get hurt, hes too young (17, and I am 21) and I felt like I paid for everything (His train down to see me, cinema, food, clubbing, presents) he only ever got me one thing on valentines day that cost £3.00. It gets worse as I HAVE to see him every week in my youth group, and I still have feelings for him. Mt friends define him as poison, how do I deal with this situation of seeing him every week?
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act like you don't need him or any attention that he gives you. Trust me. Guys hate it when girls ignore them. Avoid eye contact, in fact don't look in his direction at all. Smile alot at other people and act as though not a thing in the world is bothering you.
He's 17 and i'm sorry to say but the fact that he doesn't like getting too close is telling you just how 'immature' he is for anything serious. In which case, give him what he wants...space. I'm not saying that it won't be hard but if he cared at all..then keep your head up and maybe when he grows up a little, he'll see you for something a little more than just a casual or a friend.
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heyy... well if you have to see him each week, then you should really talk to him and set things straight so nothing will be awkward between the both of you. Tell your friends to just leave the situation alone and that the past IS the past. Thanx :)
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