Member Since: February 16, 2007
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What are some things girls do that guys find 'cute'? (link)
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When they laugh at something.
cry during a soppy movie
make a mess of themselves when they eat
crack a joke thats lame...but u no they tried.
or even when they make an attempt at something to impress the bf...and fail miserably.
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more likely to be more horny if hes had sex,gotten a blowjob,fingered a girl, etc.
over a guy who hasnt done anything? (link)
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ummm.... I'm gonna guess a yes as a guy who hasn't yet done the deed has no idea exactly wot he's missing out on and a guy who has done it probably would crave that same feeling again.
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okay so ive had sex for the 5th time already. the first time was march the 5th okay. well we did it twice that night. then a day after we did it 3 more times. and it still really hurts and im not getting any pleasure. can u please tell me whats wrong or should i see a doctor i mean what should i do? what could it be? (link)
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Please do not worry as it was like that for me too. It does get better but not until after about the 10th or so time that you've done it. Always make sure you are wet before having sex or use lube so that it wont hurt as much. But I was exactly the same and someone once told me, "It will only get better it just needs to be consistent," So don't keep holding off just coz it hurts coz wen it does feel good for the first time, your bf will be wishing he could hav a break more often!
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does anyone know the REAL reason why hilary duff and joel madden break up?
and who broke up with who? (link)
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from the mags thats I've read about it, I believe that he broke it off with her because she was too boring and too 'virgin-ish' for his liking. He's a wild boy.
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what's the maxium number of hours you can leave a tampon in? Because I'll wear one right before I go to school and I'll leave it on for..6 and a half hours and change when I get home? Because the school washrooms are dirty and I don't go home for lunch (link)
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FOUR hours is the maximum amount of time to leave it in. Not 6 and a half. you can create bacteria and get infections by doing that. You'd only need to change it once at lunch time k? It's a 3 second job but it will save you getting ill.
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So my boyfriend said I could use his computer to edit photos of the two of us. While I was doing so, I threw one away accidently and went to the recycle bin to retrieve it. I found all kinds of porn movies that he had downloaded. It literally made me sick: especially since he and I took dirty pictures and made dirty movies that he has on his computer. Why would he want to watch other girls and not me? It makes me extremely jealous.
My question is: how do I bring this up to him? I was by no means snooping, but I think it might come of that way. I have a feeling he'll get defensive as well. I just need a place to start from. Do I tell him the story of how I found it? Do I just come out and say "You looking at porn is hurtful to me"? Thank you for the advice in advance. (link)
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Id feel jealous too if that was me in your shoes. Tell him exactly how you came across his porn and be ready for when he does get defensive about it. Be stern with him from the beginning as if you come across too soft, he'll stomp all over you and you don't want to lose. Tell him you feel hurt by it.
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Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\ (link)
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think about the fact that everytime you walk down the street, people will look at you in disgust at the fact a 14 yr old has a child of their own at such a young age. Your not going to be able to live a sociable life when you have a child. Friends tend to lose interest when there's a kid involved. If your thin now, you will gain weight and you may not be able to lose it again. Think about the fact that your boyfriend is not ready and that you will risk losing him altogether if you go against his wishes. You will be taking away his freedom. If you love him as you say you do, then put him first. You rchild will grow up and eventually it will work out that you were just a kid yourself when you had him/her. They will be very embarrassed compared to the age of their friend's parents.
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my husband of 5 years is also my boss. 6 months ago he hired an assistant, a stick thin, long haired blonde, who all the guys have been drooling after for the past 6 months. i became her friend and we would all go out for drinks, but the more i got to know her, the less i liked her. she is a self proclaimed 'gold digger', she has cheated on her previous relationships, she uses men for $, she flirts with every single man, has been intimate with a few of our co-workers (already) and has gone out on a few dates w/ another married man. I try not to have anything to do w/ her, but i get so fustrated when she squeals & giggles loudly & i look over to find her and my husband/boss flirting! we have had HUGE arguements @ home about this, he says that i have nothing to worry about (& i know this) but i am still angry about his actions, he tells me that he will tone it down and be more professional @ work but he isn't. he buys her things like lunches, drinks, etc. and then fights w/ me over our finances. for some dumb reason he told her how much i make (which is less then her!) and now she is telling other ppl that we work w/! @ work he barely gives me the time of day, when i ask him for help sometimes he says flat out "no", but then will go help her, or he will start to help me, but then drops whatever he is doing to help her out. he puts more of a workload on me, and expects more from me then her, or his other workers.
i do trust him, really i do, but that is not my problem, my problem is that i can't afford to quit my job for at least another year and a half (because we owe a lot of $ in Credit debt) but it breaks my heart, honestly my heartaches every time i hear, or see them flirting. she follows him around like a puppy dog, she won't leave his side throughout the day, always has some stupid silly little question to ask him, and she even takes lunch breaks w/ us. i am full of so much bitterness and rage, I don't have a problem w/ her working alongside him, if they would only tone it down on the flirting, chit-chatting throughout the day, and if he would stop doing things for her like, buying her stuff, makeing her coffee, etc. our marriage has gone through alot, and i never would have thought that some 21 y/o airhead would be the thing that comes between us. i've tried everything from a calm, reasonable talk, right down to a screaming yelling, tear streaked face as i call him every name in the book, and everytime it is the same: "I would never cheat on you, i would never disrespect my vows, I'm sorry i hurt you, i won't do it again" but he does it over and over and over again.
I know that he isn't cheating on me physically, but I feel betrayed that he seems to be haveing an emotional affair w/ her. right now I am not speaking to him, he tries to get me to talk, but i can't go through ANOTHER fight w/ him on the same subject, when i know that my words will fall on deaf ears, and he will make promises to change, but will never fall through with it... i have accepted his inability to control the flirting situation.... but i am thinking about going to HIS boss and talk about how i feel that i have an unfair amount of work, and how when i ask for help he refuses, or he never finishes helping me out. sorry it was so long, but god it felt good to get that off of my chest. (link)
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wow...well I just had to read this whole thing because even though it was long, it interested me. It hurts me even, to hear that you have been put through such a tight situation. You feel as though you've been made to feel hurt every time you see them together and you feel like no matter what you say to your husband, he always has some answer to defend what he's doing. All it comes down to is that fact that he's not acting professional and he's not acting as a husband to you- as he should be.
I feel bad for you. I fear relationships because of thios kind of thing happening- married or not. It's scary to think about and even far worse to hav to go thru it. Your husband is probably loving the attention that he's getting from her. And the mates that he has at work probably talk about her around him. If it were me, id first, be really depressed and angry about it, but being angry gives you the courage to do what you have to do. Imagine that you found out that she did somthing with your hubby or that she tried to....when you build up all that anger, go up to her when you see her with him again, wait till she's by herself and then tell her to back off of your husband...or you can play it safer and go on about how much you love your husband and that he's your best friend and that you'd be so devesated if something were to break you two up and that if that were the case you'd wanna get back 'physically' at the 'other' woman. Or you can make her feel guilty by saying that you'd physically hurt 'yourself' if you and ur hubby broke up. see wot she says. let me no wot u think of this.
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K well i was seeing this guy for a while and he use to call me everyday when i got home from school he would come to the school to see me we went to the movies but we never chilled alone :S but from the begining i knew he was sleeping with this gurl and all of a sudden hes stoped calling me he never comes to the school to see me . and i heard that the gurl he was sleeping with while he drank one night and the whole night he was constently trying to get a hold of her and was calling her like crazy and freakin out cause he couldnt get a hold of her .. does this mean were done . like should i ask him about it .. but im really shy so i dont think i would be able to ask him about it . but like im so confused should i call him and i told my mom al about him and she wants to meet him and like wow and honestly im soo much prittier then this other gurl .. all his friends are so confused why he picked her over me and all this ... what would you do ? in this situation ??? please help im so desperate . (link)
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i agree with that. He chose her. My boyfriend stopped talking to a much much prettier girl than me who he used to be good friends with because it hurt my feelings that she wanted my boyfriends attention all the time.
he chose me over her and we are still really happy and theres no resentment. she is just another worker to him. (we all work at the same place).
Beauty is nothing when it comes down to it. You should leave him alone. can you imagine how she'd be feeling right now? She obviously cares for her bf and she was probably really shattered over this.
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Well I was talking to the girl im extremely wanting to be with and I know she likes me alot but, we were talking on the phone last night and I joking said "you don't sound to Enthusiastic". I guess 4 other people told her that in the same day which I didn't know about and well I tried calling her back and talking to her online and she just wouldnt talk back to me. I dont know what to do but im just so scared I really screwed up here and that she won't like me anymore after this. I was even going to ask her out on saturday but now idk if she even likes me. Please what can I possible do to prove to her that I really wanna be with her and that im sorry and want her forgivness? (link)
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who cares? I'd say that it just proves how un-enthusiastic she was about you. Let her come to you and if not, don't stress. She aint worth the trouble. If you grovel now, you'll end up looking like a wanker and if by chance she should be with you, she'd step all over you. Be in control.
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I've been having sex with my boyfriend for like a month. We have been using a condom and i got my period like two weeks ago and since then we've had sex like 6 times, 4 in one day. and after we had sex one time my stomach hurt and it happened again the next day. Does anyone know why ? (link)
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I can relate to this problem coz I've had that too. Only my bf has had to stop during sex becoz of it. It happens if we try a position that involves deep penetration. I end up feeling as though I have a really bad stomach cramp and I can't do a damn thing until it goes away. Could it be the position that you two are trying? See your doctor. maybe your bladder has dropped too low.
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okay so i hang out with a lot of guys. but i cant really help it. i just get along better with guys. girls start too much drama and i hate drama. so some girls at my school think im a whore and are startin rumors that im doin stuff with all the guys i hang out with and that im cheatin on my boyfriend. but thats so not true. these guys are like my brothers. i wouldn't do anything with them. and i would never cheat on my boyfriend! he means the world to me. and he understands that i have a lot of guy friends and he's okay with it. he knows i wouldn't do anything with any of them. but i dont want that kind of rumor about me to spread. i mean. everyone at school knows im not like that. and my boyfriend and all my friends were like dont worry about it, they are just jealous that all the guys talk to you and not them. but idk. what do you think? (link)
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It's true. If any of those girls were getting the exact same amount of attention that you are getting, they wouldn't be saying a damn thing! They'd love it! Don't worry. As long as you know that your not doing anything that they think you are, then ignore it. However, if you did at all do something with someone in that group, i'd pretty much guarantee you'd be feeling pretty down about yourself and you'll begin to think that what people are saying is true.
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What does it mean? (link)
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when you put your heart on the line. when you risk getting it broken.
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I dated this guy for like six weeks, feelings got involved mostly on my behalf, but I broke it off because he freaks when he gets close to people and I didnt wanna get hurt, hes too young (17, and I am 21) and I felt like I paid for everything (His train down to see me, cinema, food, clubbing, presents) he only ever got me one thing on valentines day that cost £3.00. It gets worse as I HAVE to see him every week in my youth group, and I still have feelings for him. Mt friends define him as poison, how do I deal with this situation of seeing him every week?
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act like you don't need him or any attention that he gives you. Trust me. Guys hate it when girls ignore them. Avoid eye contact, in fact don't look in his direction at all. Smile alot at other people and act as though not a thing in the world is bothering you.
He's 17 and i'm sorry to say but the fact that he doesn't like getting too close is telling you just how 'immature' he is for anything serious. In which case, give him what he wants...space. I'm not saying that it won't be hard but if he cared at all..then keep your head up and maybe when he grows up a little, he'll see you for something a little more than just a casual or a friend.
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After nearly two years together my boyfriend has decided he doesn’t really love me. Actually he has decided he has never really loved anyone. He said he’s never met anyone who he would do absolutely anything for, whose happiness he would put above his own; he hasn’t had that crazy love.
In my opinion, that is a good thing. If he had experienced that love he’d be insane and delusional. One of the things I love about him is how level-headed he is and how seriously he considers things. So I tried not to get too mad at first about this whole ‘love’ thing (although I think his expectation of real ‘love’ is completely ridiculous and impractical) but now I just can’t shake the feeling that I’m just a place-holder until he meets some girl he thinks he can have that kind of love with. It’s making me insecure with him and really defensive and snappy. When he talks about it now I just want to tear him to shreds, it so unlike him to pick a belief based entirely on his own subjective experience and not research any other opinions or philosophies! How can I deal with his philosophical thoughts on love without personalizing it so much and getting mad at him? (link)
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what do you think would happen if you showed me a little less affection and laughed a little less at the things he says and not pay him as much attention as before. Maybe it's a good idea to give the same opinion. Agree with him (maybe even add something to make him feel not so damn SECURE around you?) I'm thinking that you should make him believe that if a guy had no idea if he was in love after 2 years...then he'll never know! Tell him how you feel...especially about you feeling insecure around him and make it clear to him that by now...he should start thinking about what his priorities are. His thoughts are selfish....Whats a girl supposed to think after hearing that?
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so on the inside of my right cheek, theres like a split down the side of it and the whole area around it is really red. apparently i must've bit it or something and it hurts really really bad! is there anything i can do to ease the pain? preferably nothing i have to buy! (link)
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My only advice for you is to wash out your mouth with water and added salt! Trust me
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I know that I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never cheat on me because he honestly loves me and it's a mutual feeling, but he's been talking to this girl that he said he met about a year ago and she lives about an hour away from where him and i live, but when he visits his dad he visits her, and she is suposidly one of his best friends, but for some reason whenever i'm hanging around with him and a girl calls h sits there and texts her or talks to her, and it bugs me alot, and i said something once and he said that he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm still scared that something will happen. I'm also upset because I was looking at this girls MySpace and it had some comments on there from like almost a year ago him saying on her pictures stuff like "Or you're so sexy.." and stuff like that but he posted those things before him and i started dating, but it bugs me that they are still there and i tried telling him i didn't like it and asked him to delete it but he told me that i shouldn't worry about it and it shouldn't be a problem but for some reason i still don't like it, and he talks about his ex's alot and it bugs me alot and i told him and he said that i had nothing to worry about and i shouldn't worry about, but i really love him but it bugs me so much and i try to ignore it but i can't and whenever i try to talk about it with him he gets pissy and moody and says that i'm not listening to my heart and i'm only thinking about his past.
I'm sorry that this is so long but i needed to get it out. Thank you so much.
-Beanie (link)
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I'm sorry to hear about your problem Beanie. It's a tough question because it's hard to know when we can't see it for ourselves; how he acts around her or when he talks about her or even when he messages her.
I can relate to you in a small sense that my current bf of 8 months knows a girl (who's prettier than me; Blonde, small and petite and skinny and well...has bigger boobs!)
He went to school with her and was best friends with her (if you'd call it that!) for four years before they started liking each other and then started 'fooling around' on just a few occasions (although they never slept together). That was 2 years ago- maybe 3 now?
When she started working at the same place as me and my bf, she then started paying my bf a lot of attention and whenever she passed us, she never acknowledged me at all...she'd look straight at my bf's face as we passed her and she'd smile at him and her eyes would just light up.
That clearly got me jealous. When she started poking her toungue at him playfully, and tugging on his top when she walked passed him and when he made her laugh and he'd come up to me with this 'Glow' upon his face....it broke me on the inside.
Sometimes he gets snappy at me if I bring her up and I guess as much as I'm happy he's with me and no longer goes out of his way to talk to her (and she no longer tries with him anymore), I'll never full accept that he isn't still keen on her.
I think that your problem relates to mine...in a small way. My advice for you is...make him put a stop to seeing her when he's away from you....instead, make him take you along if he wants to see her. That's your right~!
He needs to respect your feelings otherwise lovie, you're gonna risk getting your heart tread on.
How can you put a stop to it? When I caught that blondie tugging on my bf's top, I asked my bf straight out if he thought that it was OK what she did? When he said no, I said that he then needed to set an example if she tries it again...and this of course was to avoid her whenever possible, and no eye contact- until she gets the hint! It worked and you know what Beanie, I realised that my bf loved me enough to do what was right for our relationship to remain at it's best. Other than that..at least get him to show you the messages or...just get yourself a male friend- preferable who's better looking than your bf and make him jealous. Fill me in. Good luck
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