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Scared I ruined it


Question Posted Thursday October 19 2006, 8:08 am

Well I was talking to the girl im extremely wanting to be with and I know she likes me alot but, we were talking on the phone last night and I joking said "you don't sound to Enthusiastic". I guess 4 other people told her that in the same day which I didn't know about and well I tried calling her back and talking to her online and she just wouldnt talk back to me. I dont know what to do but im just so scared I really screwed up here and that she won't like me anymore after this. I was even going to ask her out on saturday but now idk if she even likes me. Please what can I possible do to prove to her that I really wanna be with her and that im sorry and want her forgivness?

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BareBeast answered Sunday February 18 2007, 11:54 am:
who cares? I'd say that it just proves how un-enthusiastic she was about you. Let her come to you and if not, don't stress. She aint worth the trouble. If you grovel now, you'll end up looking like a wanker and if by chance she should be with you, she'd step all over you. Be in control.

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queenhearts answered Thursday October 19 2006, 12:16 pm:
I don't see why she would get mad at you over this.
She was probably having a bad day.
Maybe go out a buy a little teddy bear? I'm pretty sure that would make her smile.

You should ask what you did wrong or if she was having a bad day... and say you're sorry if you had made it worse.
I'm sure she still likes you.
Just try to talk to her when she's ready or in a better mood.
Sometimes when you're upset you do stupid things as.. avoid conversations, yeah? Maybe that's what she's doing.

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BitsandPieces answered Thursday October 19 2006, 12:05 pm:
Did she get mad and hang up or what? I don't have much to go on here, but telling someone that they don't sound enthusiastic is not usually a big deal, even if they have heard it before. Maybe she was having an off day or in a mood? Don't worry that you blew it, because you did not. You can tell her "Hey I hope I did not offend you the other night," or "I hope you did not think I meant it as rude," but don't make more of it then it is. Ask her out and plan on having fun!

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