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okay so ive had sex for the 5th time already. the first time was march the 5th okay. well we did it twice that night. then a day after we did it 3 more times. and it still really hurts and im not getting any pleasure. can u please tell me whats wrong or should i see a doctor i mean what should i do? what could it be?
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Yea, It will remain uncomfortable as you are still getting used to sex, after about 8 or 9 times it should start feeling more and more pleasant
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hun, try having sex in the shower or tub to help ease the pain if u still want to have sex and make sure he is well lubrated and you should also use a lot of foreplay to help get you "wet" if u have anymore questions feel free to message me
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Please do not worry as it was like that for me too. It does get better but not until after about the 10th or so time that you've done it. Always make sure you are wet before having sex or use lube so that it wont hurt as much. But I was exactly the same and someone once told me, "It will only get better it just needs to be consistent," So don't keep holding off just coz it hurts coz wen it does feel good for the first time, your bf will be wishing he could hav a break more often!
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awh, poor thing, you're probably still sore. wait a while to "heal" and it will feel better.
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it's only your first time don't worry it's normal you don't need to see a doctor you'll be okay =] i promise.
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You need a break. When you first have sex, you should give yourself at least half a week so you won't feel so sore. It'll also get you body to start getting used to the fact that you're going to be sexually active.
After that, when you decide to have sex. Make sure you're relaxed and are turned on so you have enough lubrication going on. Take is slow and be considerate of your body.
I wouldn't be having rough sex until at least two weeks from now. I actually don't know how you can still walk :)
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Your problem is you have been having sex too often in a very short time span. You need to spread things out so that you do it once or twice a week. It's no wonder you feel sore and your vagina hurts you.
The amount of thrusting etc will do that if you're having sex multiple times in a 3 day window. Once or twice a week and (one time each day) is healthy and fine. It will keep you from hurting and getting sore and or bored with it.
The only reason you are not getting pleasure from it now is that you have been doing it much too often. Your ability to feel pleasure from it will return after you guys give it a rest for a couple of days. This will allow your body and vagina to recover.
Another key thing is to tell your boyfriend to be really gentle and not be so vigorious with thrusting. This is one other reason your vulva and vagina will feel sore. Hope this helps you.
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