Question Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 1:01 pm
i dont really have any close friends.. i mean i do like 1 or 2 but i dont have any best friends either.. its starting to bother me because alot of other people have close and best friends.. what can i do so i can make my friends and i to be closer friends? i really need help ..easy 5 unless your mean
xodanixo answered Saturday November 19 2005, 8:28 pm: Who says you need more close friends? I am going through the same thing. I have 2 close friends.. and I see other people have a lot of close friends. It just depends on who you are. And it basically means your unique and your not like every other person walking by. You should be happy with your friends!
JoyToTheWorld14 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 7:47 pm: Close friends and Best friends are the Best! You may have more close friends than you think you do if the things i sugest you do already then you do have close friends and best friends.
I sugest on weekends to go to the movies with a bunch of your friends. Or have a party or sleepover party! Basically Hang out with your friends more and make them closer than before!
Good Luck!!!!
hco_babe answered Saturday November 19 2005, 7:41 pm: throw a party. tell your 1 or 2 friends to invite whoever, that way you can meet new people and make some new friends!! just tell whoever to come, that way you will be able to meet a lot of new people. if i were you i would ask your 2 close friends to help you "plan" or whatever, then when it comes time for invites, they will be part of it too and their friends will come, so you can become friends with them. hope i helped you. [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
pavan answered Saturday November 19 2005, 7:38 pm: just be your self and sonner or later your see that girls will start wanting to be your friends and for all the right reasons . [ pavan's advice column | Ask pavan A Question ]
Becka323 answered Saturday November 19 2005, 4:20 pm: Everyone goes through time periods where they feel they dont have friends, or don't have enough friends. I promise it will pass. Just be yourself dont do anything you dont believe is right to gain friendship. Try to associate yourself with new people maybe take up some new things your interested in!
Good Luck!! [ Becka323's advice column | Ask Becka323 A Question ]
kitkatkate answered Saturday November 19 2005, 3:09 pm: hello ?,
im kate and i want to help you. ok i am in the same situation as you. i have like 4 good friends but i dont know if i can consider them "best" friends. so ive been trying to get us closer by helping them more than allowing them to help me. because i figure if they see im helping them they will appreciate it and appreciate me. so what you should do is go out with them individually. and i repeat individually! if you go out with all of them at once you are just giving them the opertunity to become best friends with each other and not you. take on out at a time and talk with them about secrets or boys. not what movie you want to see or what your nails look like etc. talk about something that is important. like not important but something you could talk on the phone for hours about. like boys, family, secrets, memories, embarressing moments, etc. well thats all i can say. im doing that right now and it helps alot! hope i helped you! good luck! im up to answering any of your questions if you ever need to ask! much love<3kate [ kitkatkate's advice column | Ask kitkatkate A Question ]
LongShinnyHair answered Saturday November 19 2005, 2:37 pm: in the real world you have only 3 or 4 friends, maybe have you and your friends go somewhere you all have in command and do one of those once of month get together. like going out for bowling or going to the mall, movies, maybe ask your freinds do more emailing and updates eacher news going on. plus stay in touch with them, do them favers and maybe slumber party.
hope i help [ LongShinnyHair's advice column | Ask LongShinnyHair A Question ]
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