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When December comes, it will be 2 years since my first period..however, my flow isn't even...like I get it every 2-3 months...It's unexpected..I don't know what to do because I don't want to tell my mom to take me to a gynocologist...however I don't want to have a fertility problem when I'm older. I don't know what to do..should I just wait a couple more months to see if it straightens out or should I take action now? (link)
That may be normal, but there also could be a problem. I would talk to your mom about it, It happens to the best of us (almost all of us) and I'm sure she will be fine with taking you to see the doctor and getting you checked out. I would take action as soon as possible because most likely its fine just abnormalities can be a sign of a larger problem.


Umm......i am a very parinoid person and this kinda scares away my friends, how can i stop? (link)
You may want to see a doctor or therapist and see if you have something called Panic Disorder, I was diagnosed last year for the same sort of problems and in a few months I learned how to naturalize it and I am totally fine now.


i dont really have any close friends.. i mean i do like 1 or 2 but i dont have any best friends either.. its starting to bother me because alot of other people have close and best friends.. what can i do so i can make my friends and i to be closer friends? i really need help ..easy 5 unless your mean
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Everyone goes through time periods where they feel they dont have friends, or don't have enough friends. I promise it will pass. Just be yourself dont do anything you dont believe is right to gain friendship. Try to associate yourself with new people maybe take up some new things your interested in!
Good Luck!!


18/f. I have a very close guy-friend. Occasionally when he comes over to mine (or I go to his), and he (or I) can't get home (e.g. he comes to my place on his bike, I don't like him to ride home at 3am, it's not too safe around here) then he stays over. He'll sleep in my (single) bed, and we usually end up snuggled up to close each other (e.g. both lying on our sides facing the same way with his arm around me).
My question is - is this ok for our relationship? - I don't want to date him, I don't want our friendship to turn into something further. We are both single. Is it ok to sleep together like this, or will it damage our friendship in the long run? (link)
As long as you feel comfortable and Okay with it I think it is totally fine. It is normal to cuddle with another guy without showing any feelings except friendship, just arms to be in. If he feels the same way he is just showing affection to a good friend. But you may not know his intentions unless you talk to him about it.


Anybody know any new website for 2005, for examples, like teens stuff or 20 and up. i mean like bored.com is so yesterday (link)
have you played around with myspace yet? thatll keep you busy


hey I'm nearly fifteen, attend a really preppy all girls highschool in dc, and recently ive noticed i just cant talk to guys. like im not afraid of them or nervous around them, i just cant carry on a convo because like i barely know them and we have nothing in common to talk about. ahhh! and it sucks cuz theres this one guy i like but whenever I'm with him its incredibly awkward because we don't talk! help? (link)
I think everyone goes through a phase like that. Just don't think about it much, don't try to plan a conversation just let things flow. If there's a guy you like that you can't seem to relate to at all it might not be the best relationship to pursue.


My boyfriend had some acne problems at the beginning of the year, like most 16 year old guys do, but then he started to take some medicine for it. It's starting to look 100% better already! Is it wrong for me to comment that it's looking better? would it offend him? (link)
No! Don't ever hesitate to give someone a compliment! You shouldn't insult how he was before but you can just say "You're skin has gotten so much clearer" I don't think this would offend him at all


i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
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Just let yourself do it if it feels right. If you're nervous about not doing it RIGHT there's no RIGHT way! Follow the guy if your nervous at first and it will become natural.


Hi,

This is Jasmine. I am 24 and 5'4". My weight is 145lbs. I got married in Dec'04 and we had to stay apart for 5months and now we are together. I was 130lbs last summer, I am not sure if I gained this weight over a year or just in the last 6months. I am a Master's in Computer Science student and I am working on the computer for about 10hrs a day on an average. Rice is our staple food with different vegetables (fried or cooked). I am trying to walk 21/2 miles everyday, but haven't been very regular. My HDL cholestrol is very low and the doctor advised me to lose about 20pounds and I am feeling horrible myself. I would really appeciate anybody's suggestions to help me do this. Thank you so much for your help.
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Start excercising more regularly. Watching what you eat can help you lose weight but to tone up and look how you'd like to its very important. I promise it will start feeling good if you get into a regular excercise routine! Try joining a gym and maybe doing some workout classes!


ok so their a BIG looser in my class and i know that some people don't like her but how can i get her to be nice to me (i tried everything, she hates me so much)i need her 2 be nice to me again (i'm so sad she doesn't like me) (link)
Prove to her that you dont care what other people think...She is probably hurting a lot. Maybe you could change your thoughts on her. Remember to not care to much what other people think.


uh, i live a far ways away from my boy freind (juss temp.) and he does not like me drinking. he said that if i want to i can he wont control me, but he doesnt like it. well, about 2 weeks ago i was drinking with my room mate. She and i only had 2 drinks each and no one else was home. so i dont see it as a problem. but the next weekend her boyfreind and 2 of his freinds came over. Now, they are in their late 20's early 30's, and we are 18 and 19. We all got drunk that night...and i know i didn't do anyhting cuz i kept saying i was not gonna betray my boyfreinds trust. my freind even told me i did nothing...she was the least drunk of all of us. she said i kept yeling at them everytime they asked me to dance for them. my question is...did i betray his trust? I haven't told him yet but i feel bad...should i tell him? (link)
I believe you should respect your boyfriends wishes but also do what you think feels right. It is okay to drink and have a good time, but be straight forward and be careful who you are with. If you go past your limit drinking another guy make take advantage of that causing you to betray your boyfriend (a mistake I think we all have made) one way or another. Anyways you did not do anything wrong, just be careful in the future.




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