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making out
i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
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well yea i had that problem too. I was pretty scare.d but i have been like that with alot of thingas like flirting and tlaking to guys but i got over that too. i guess what i do is get a guy thathas never made out before and make out with him until u are ready to make out witth someone else. Like with someone u arent very interested. i know that sounds wrong but trust me it will work
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I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ♥
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Tell him the truth. That is the only thing to do. Tell him how you feel about it and if he is as serious as you he will understand and not presure you. Don't let anyone presure you into something you don't want to do or don't think your ready for. Now, for making out I can't help that . That is just something you have to get better at like basket ball ect. I hope that helps.AskBritt:)
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Just let yourself do it if it feels right. If you're nervous about not doing it <h1> RIGHT </h1> there's no RIGHT way! Follow the guy if your nervous at first and it will become natural.
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ok dont worry about it...i went through the same stage when i was like 12 or so but i got out of it quick...find a guy you really like and then if you want to make out with him then go for it dont worry about being bad at it i know thats hard but some guys are bad at it to so just give it a try you'll get use to it believe me...alot of guys are weirded out if you dont want to make out with them...my ex boyfriend lets just say he loved to make out and if i wasnt in the mood or something he would get mad but if you dont want to dont let a guy pressure you do what your heart tells you to do...hope i helped
your friend,
Jess
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Its kinda hard to be bad at kissin.. Do what the person does and then you`ll be more comfortable the next time you do it.. ♥ Dez
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omg i have this same problem i always think im going to be bad, but If the person you make out with likes you enough they will understand!
and i bet there probably websites on Google on How to French Kiss...
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just try. i was like that when i first started dating it took my bf a while to get mwe to kiss him but it just takes a lil effort and then ull get the hang of it and will be fun...trust me
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just do it. follow the other person... its easy!
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get a boy that really likes you and be like im sorry if this is not good but you are my first so please dont laugh at me....that is what i did :)
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i kno how it feels but you shouldnt feel that way. there supposed to like you for who you are not the way you kiss and i think you should practis and tell him your new at this i hope i helpd!
*OpenSecrets*
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It's just a thing you're going to end up doing at least one time in your life, why not start now? I remember when I was so embarrassed by saying that I hadn't made out with anyone, but I wanted to so bad.
Your first kiss:
You want it to be something special and something you'll never forget. Mine wasn't. It was under a tree in my friend's yard. Romantic? No. Weird? Yes. So don't go just kiss any guy, make sure you really like this guy, because the truth of it is; is if you're bad, he wont care the fact that you like and trust him enough to kiss him with pasion like that should be enough to knock him off his feet.
Fact: Everyone's first time they think that they are going to do bad because they've never done something like this before. Just don't think about it. Just do it. Close your eyes and let the boy take the lead. Just remember to not let it turn into a slobber fest.
Just remember you're not as bad as you think you are. I promise you this. It's just a mental thing that everyone goes through. Don't worry, it goes away once you have made out a couple of times. It's probably going to happen with each new guy. It did with me at least. I freaked out thinking 'what if my old boyfriend thought I was a good kisser, but this one doesn't?!' I've learned to just be cool about it. If he doesn't think you're a good kisser; you can only get better with practice. For, practice makes perfect.
-tekcoreht
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theres really no way to practice kissing before you actually kiss.. but umm kissing comes naturally 'seriously' if you do it with someone u really care for youll be just fine *kim*
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Just get over it and make out with someone. That's the only thing you can do. If you wanna be good at it the practice!
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