Im have a lot of expiriance in my life. like family problems love life problems frienship problems lost of lovedones and many more! so i can relate to almost about anyting!im a really careing person, i love to give advise thats why i started this! lol! every 1 shouldnt be afraid to show their real selvs!, because everyone has problems!
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i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?
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i kno how it feels but you shouldnt feel that way. there supposed to like you for who you are not the way you kiss and i think you should practis and tell him your new at this i hope i helpd!
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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ok how old is this girl? well anyways i think that you should tell her bro. If he really is your friend he should listen to what you have to say. You should tell him that you like his sister but that you would never do anything to hurt her. you should sort things out with your friend. Then after you know how he feels about this you should think about it. do you really whant to go out with your friends sister? First make sure you know what your doing. Then once you sure you should ask the girl out or do what your going to do. im sorry if i wasnt that helpfull but i tried. Im also sorry if i confused you!
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OK I am about 5'0 or 5'1 and I weight about 140 ilbs. Im big and I know. I want to get a flat stamach the fastest I can. I love coke but i am willing to give it up. I just can not stand water. So what is somthing I can drink? I do not like most vegies, but I love all kinds of fruit. I do not own a bike. I would be willing to walk alot each day but it needs to fit in between homework and computer time. I love the computer so like yeah. LOL. How many crunches should i do also? I rate 5's!
Thx! *** Michelle (link)
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you should eat in the morning but not after seven. thats the worst thing you can do. You can still eat junkfood but but 1/3 of what you used to eat. eat fruit, or make your self a salad. Trie to not starv yourself its not worth dieng to get skinny. Then try to excersice. Walk around the park or something like that. You have to sacrifice some of the stuff you do now for example u have to devote yourself to atleast 30min. to exersise EVERY DAY. I hope i could help!
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I just broke up with me boyfriend yesturday. but I still like him and I miss him should I ask him back out or just live with what I did (link)
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i think that it might be to erly to ask him back out! wait for a wile and see how it goes and then if you want you can ask him back out. So just wait a wile!
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My best friend is a guy, (ryan). Latley he`s been waiting for me outside of my homeroom class and walking me to 1st period. Then we walk together to 2nd. I catch him looking at me alot and were always together in class. About a month ago he started hugging me goodbye, and latley the hugs are getting more romantic. He talks to me differently, calls me, and always wants to hang out. He has been complementing me on my outfit even when I`m wearing a t-shirt and boy`s bball shorts and his hoodie he loaned me. He says I look beautiful when I just wake up and my hairs a complete mess and I have no make up on. So, as you can see I really think he likes me more then a friend now, I`ve liked him before like this, but for some reason now, I`m enjoying all this attention and flirting he`s givin me, but I just can`t picture myself with him. What do I do ? I don't want to go out with him, we brake up, then lose our 5 years of being BFFs!
sorry for it being so long, i`ll appreciate any help.
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I think that you should tell him that you just wanna be friends but if i was you id explin y you dont wanna go out with him. Every1 is afraid of loosing a friend. If i was you id stay friends with him but yet have a lil fun. like play with him but dont show that you really like him. you kno what i mean? well any ways yea i think that you should make up your mind if you really like him or not.
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A guy that I'm friends and I know had feelings for me (but is shy) has been acting really strange around me.
For example, when he is alone with me he is sweet, attentive, kind, and likes to tease me. However, he acts totally different around his guy friends. We (me and another friend) planned a suprise birtday party for him. When he showed up at the restaurant he told me to sit a couple of tables down from him and his best friend. They got him some gross gifts from the porn shop and I think he was embarrased. Whenever I tried talking to him he couldnt look me in the eye, and when he did talk to me he wouldnt look me in the face. Do you think he was embarrassed of his friends and he was trying to protect me from being hurt? Or is there another reason for his behavior? (link)
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I think that he might be imberessed by his friends i mean they gave him porn!!!!! in front of you (girls). And he might also be acting this way because maybe he likes you or some1 must of told him you like him. Guys are shy around gurls and maybe he might be imbaressed hangign out with girls infront of his guy friends. everybody acts different around theyr different friends because thats the way they are with eachother. so i hope i could help in someway or another!
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first off: WILL RATE A 5 IF YOU HELP ME OUT! ok i had this dream...let me explain it...
there was this evil being (kinda like soemthign that came out of Charmed...lol) and it kept chasing me around and trying to kill me. but i guess it kinda had a human form. kinda like the guy who had knocked up pheobe. but he was trying to kill me. he would get ahold of me and then like drag me around and stuff, liek torturing me before he killed me. granted, i made alot of escape attempts, many failing fromthe start, many almost suceeding but not quite. then he had gotten me into his truck (dont ask) and was going to drive it off the cliff and dissapear before it hit bottom. He said he would let me live under one codnition. I provided him with an heir. at first i refused, but i guess the fact of knowign my life was on the line scared me so much i gave in. then i remember
thinking "i have to tell steve i can never see him again. for his safety" (see, i even think of you in my dreams!) then the guy, before taking offmy handcuffs, told me that he wanted a daughter b/c he already had a son. the next thing i remember i was outside and i had a son on my knee then somethign came jumping out at me and scared me shitless and i woke from it.
That was the dream. and my boyfreind got upset b.c i told him (online this afternoon...he is out of state on family business...his mom is sick) and he goes "so even in your dreams you would rather cheat on me than die. i would rather die personally. but its a dream and we cant always control our dreams" then he signed off! didnt say good bye or anything. is he mad at me? does my dream mean anything? I WILL RATE A 5 IF YOU HELP ME OUT! (link)
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i think that your bf is just caught up on his mothers sickness and all. You cant help how your dreams turn out. Tell him that you will never cheat on him and that you love him. Im not quite sure what your dream means. Give your bf some time to think. im sure he loves you too hes just over welmd.
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Okay, as childish as this might sound, I needed to ask it anyways. I'm 15 female, and this other girl named; Rachael is 14. Rachael rides my bus & she was my first friend at school. I just recently moved here, she was/still is a loner too! After about a month she really started to annoy me, & I guess you could say I really don't like her AT ALL. But, she still follows me around, talks to me, etc. I'm not mean to her though - Seen as; I'm nothing like that. I'm seriously one of the nicest people alive. I really don't like to yell at people but if it becomes necessary, then I do. Today on the bus she took my purse because stupid me left it in the seat while I went back to my locker to get a book. When I got back she said, "I threw your purse out the window! Your love took the purse I don't have it!" Which really pissed me off. I asked her nicely for about 5 minutes, then I just lost it and totally flipped out, I really wanted my purse back & I knew she had it. She gave it back 10 mins after that and I ignored her the rest of the way home. When she asked if I was mad at her I said no, because I think it might seem childish if I were to say yes because she stole my purse & I defintiely didn't want to be the immature one in the situation. I was wondering, if I did right? Did it seem childish of me not to talk to her, or do you think that I did right? Thanks!!
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Im fourteen and i kno when something is childish or not. trust me ai act like a kid most of the time! but im sure that this wasnt childish. Real friend shouldnt lie or take stuff. You had the right to get mad. I mean its your purse!!!! 1 of girls best friends (i think) lol well she had no right to try and keep it. Just remember to take good care of your stuff.
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Okay, I went out with this guy right, and we broke up and everything and then we went out again and then we broke up again but i still really like him and now he has a g/f and we used to talk all the time and now that he has a g/f we don't talk ne more and i really miss it and everything and i don't know what to do should i just forget about him and move on or should i try talking to him again?
HELP
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i think you shold back of for a wile but you should still talk to him!!!!!!!!!!! see how things turn out as friends. Maybe ull meet some1 else of maybe hell find out that your the 1 for him. You should see how things work out with his new gurl friend.
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ok i totally like this guy and no i no for a fact that he doesnt like me the way i like him but i can NOT stop thinking about him what do i do because it's driving me crazy!! please help me thanks (link)
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I think you should talk to him. tell him how you feel. if he doesnt like u the way you do dont cry. No guy is worth your tears!!! Trust me i say this from experiance! Youl get over it. But Just talk with him and if it turns out bad then remember that there are more guys out there that can treat you better and will love you!
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