Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:44 pm
ok i totally like this guy and no i no for a fact that he doesnt like me the way i like him but i can NOT stop thinking about him what do i do because it's driving me crazy!! please help me thanks
thinkpink03 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 4:23 pm: just talk to him or talk to somebody. i would recommend though to talk to him and to just get closer so if he ever did like you, you'd be right there. good luck
TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 1:26 am: Actually, I think you can still like him, but don't push it beyond a friendship. If you push it, then he'll avoid you because he doesn't like you "that way." And don't act all dramatic and/or show that your feelings were hurt, because he'll resent the pressure it puts on him. Plus, you look helpless which is a Minus. The reason why you don't have to give up on him yet is because you can't predict the future. Who knows, maybe one day he'll suddenly see you as a great girlfriend, and you've given up on him? But then again, he might never like you. Then, I guess you'll just have to accept the fact that it wasn't meant to be. Just don't get your hopes up and stay open-minded. In the meantime, try and befriend him in some way. Relationships often start out as friendships. [ TheHeadHonchoPoncho57's advice column | Ask TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 A Question ]
Marko answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 11:27 pm: Hey,
You should definitely talk to him and tell him how you feel, whilst it may tend to make things a little awkward between the two of you it's better than not telling him. If you don't like his answer don't cry, don't worry, and don't forget because you will learn a very important lesson from the situation. Besides there are plenty of other fish in the city and although you will never find a guy just like him chaces are you will find some one that wants you for you.
daddydiva answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 11:23 pm: hey
i'm going to try and answer your quesstion the best i can! don't waste your time liking a boy that is so stupid to not like YOU!!! i know that there is other guys out there...maybe even better!? try going for one of them so you will forget about this loser! you should be having fun with your life! so have fun
hitler_the_goat answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 11:17 pm: lets see what your options are
1. find a new dude
2. keep thinking about him, and change his name and face to the dude that sits next to him at lunch
3. give me your phone number
4. your im...
5. your home address.......
just go with it, kid. you'll find another guy to obsess over soon.
-gunner [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
OpenSecrets answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:57 pm: I think you should talk to him. tell him how you feel. if he doesnt like u the way you do dont cry. No guy is worth your tears!!! Trust me i say this from experiance! Youl get over it. But Just talk with him and if it turns out bad then remember that there are more guys out there that can treat you better and will love you!
~* Open Secrets *~ [ OpenSecrets's advice column | Ask OpenSecrets A Question ]
oOlovetohelpOo answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:47 pm: i have had the same problem before it sucks i know but what helped me was to write a note to him and tell them how i felt maybe you should do the same, but even if he still doesn't like you that way than he isn't worth it. i hope i helped. [ oOlovetohelpOo's advice column | Ask oOlovetohelpOo A Question ]
blackstar answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:19 pm: Ah, i have had that feeling soooo many times. It is defently a hardfeeling to deal with. I used to write it down (the way u feel) and that sort of helped me get it off my chest. Sometimes even though you know he is going to say "no" it can be good to get it off of your chest.
GDROB2 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:16 pm: If he does not like you in that way you cannot continue hoping he will. It is a real time waster to be honest and fair with you. For now, relax and if possible make him a friend. If he will not do that then he's a jerk who loses out on your charm, intellect, and well just everything that is roled into you.
Take the effort here you had with him and settle down for a while with the hormones and ooh he looks nice I want to date him idea. Nice looking guys or girls can be awful jerks. See around you who you would be compatible with by knowing all you can about them then let the hormones out and pounce. It's better that way then allowing this or any other guy to break your heart in two. [ GDROB2's advice column | Ask GDROB2 A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:03 pm: Sorry to say, but there really isn't anything you can do about it. He should get to know you better though. Talk to him. If things don't work out, you know it wasn't meant to be and I know it's hard to accept that... but you will find a guy that really likes you. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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