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Hi ya'll. I like to make graphics, i use the gimp! BOOYA it rox. I absolutely love evanescence. I really like, the artwork by Luis Royo, all of his pictures are stunning, bizarre but stunning. (some innaproiate material for ya'll little peeps)I like gothic fantasy artwork also.
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I basically just want to know what people think about this and whether I'm the one with the problem! Last night my male housemate asked me if i wanted to watch a film so i agreed even though it was about 11.30pm as i couldn't think of anything else to do. I started falling asleep in front of it and then waking up and not understanding what was going on so i decided to go to bed and i told him that. So he started saying how the evening had started off really well and now it had been spoilt and how i had agreed to watch it with him and i was breaking my promise. He kept sighing and just acting really unreasonably and going really quiet and pissed off. So i just went upstairs and told my other female housemate that i was not going to be made to feel guilty about not watching a film because its ridiculous. So he came upstairs and started yelling at me so i yelled back and it got totally out of control especially as all this is over a film!! So then he said that no one had ever upset him to this extent before and how he used to feel comfortable living in the house and now he won't anymore. Then i decided to go and talk to him because i dont like going to bed in the middle of an argument. He was just like don't worry i forgive you. So now its my fault!! WTF?? then he went and stayed at his friends house because he didnt want to sleep in the house cos of what happened. Does anyone else think this is strange? Or is it all my fault as he seems to think? I know maybe i shouldnt have yelled back but it really upset me! Thanks guys. (link)
I would have defently yelled back. he shouldn't have been so mad just because you got tired, you can't help that. It defently seems odd that he would get so upset. I honestly wouldn't get to angry with him. Mabye he just was in an odd mood and he just needed to work it out of his system. shouldn't have to forgive someone for getting tired. and why would he be uncomfertable with sleeping there just because you didn't want to watch a movie with him.

sounds odd, i think you were fine on what you did!

~blackstar~


Ok, I like guy, guy likes me. I found out he liked me today from a friend of us both. He told her this exactly (at least from what I know) "I like (my name), but I am going to wait a while so I can make sure she is right." Omg, I like him so much, haha, anyways I was wondering when this would be...? (link)
You can never know when he has found out if you are really the one or not. it is really hard to gues. could be a month could be a week. just hold your breath and hope for the best.

Hope he finds out soon!!! Good luck!
~blackstar~


I am 13 year old boy in the 7th grade and I met this incredible girl over the summer. I had asked her out, but she wasn't allowed to date, yet I got her phone number. I still wasn't sure if she liked me as I liked her. Because as school came around I felt closer to her.I asked her out again during school, yet she still couldn't date!!!!!!! We have our last period together and we sit next to each other. Neither of us are very social at that time. I don't know if she feels the way I feel because I can feel this in no crush... I am in love with her. I need advice on when to ask, her where to ask her, what to ask her to, and if she can go how should I dress and what should I bring. (link)
Now now 13 is an odd age. your body is always messing with your brain. I got this smae thing, i used to dream with making out with him and crap and you know what? It was a crush. And it is a time of change, you never know you may end up growing out of your "love". Oh and don't try too hard to make her like you or she will see right through it. juts act like yourself, as hard as it may be.

~blackstar~


I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :) (link)
Well, i am not christian so it ain't a sin for me, so just know my answer is based on what i beleive in.

Honestly i think it is great if you are truly in love with each other and you think you are ready. You may want to see if your parents are gonna be pissed at you though. And birth control and condoms, though the possibilities are quite slim you could still get pregnant but like i said it is quite slim. You also defently make sure that this isn't a "thing" you are going to grow out of. (if you know what i mean) you don't want to do something that you are going to regret. If you are positivly sure you are ready i would go for it, life dosen't wait for you to catch up and make your mind.

Hope it all works out girl!
~blackstar~


I love Seth Green and his acting, and just about every movie I saw with him in it I liked (such as Without a Paddle, Rat Race, all the Austin Powers movies, etc.), so I was wondering if anyone saw the movie "Can't Hardly Wait". I want to see it, and I'm wondering what all your opinions are about it. I also want to know if it's an appropiate movie, like does it show "anything"? I know it's rated PG-13, but I'm just wondering if it has anything really bad in it, and I dont want to waste my money on a stupid movie.

Thanks so much! I rate fives and give feedback! (link)
I really enjoyed it! I am also a big Seth Green fan, and i thought it was really frickin hillarious!!


ok i totally like this guy and no i no for a fact that he doesnt like me the way i like him but i can NOT stop thinking about him what do i do because it's driving me crazy!! please help me thanks (link)
Ah, i have had that feeling soooo many times. It is defently a hardfeeling to deal with. I used to write it down (the way u feel) and that sort of helped me get it off my chest. Sometimes even though you know he is going to say "no" it can be good to get it off of your chest.

good luck
~blackstar~


13/m/sevy
There is this girl i see a lot in the hallway. Most of the time I see her talking to others and shes like always giggling everytime i see hertalking, and im like whats so damn funny{mentaly that is}.What kinds of things do preteen gals talk about {shes 11 or 12, im 13]. If you answer, please dont talk about dating and stuff like that, that 15 year olds usualy talk about. (link)
um ya well dating is one of the things that preteens talk about. and guys, ugly or cute is pretty big. oh and cliques, who's popular and who's not. what that girl is wearing over there etc.

i am very serious that this is what i overheard a lot of girls talking about. I always talk about my dog or that show i watched last night.

~blackmoon~


Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering about something...
I know its normal and not exactly their fault and everything, but when a girl goes through monthly stuff, what are we, the guys, supposed to do. I really don't mind it, but sometimes I feel like I need to help out my g/f with whatever the problem may be...but I can't. Should I just be there to talk and listen? That's what I've been doing so far. I mean I can't think of any good advice other than lie down, take some medicine, try to relax, and stuff like that. Should I try to help, or just stay out of the way? Is there any way I can help or no? I know I don't or ever will understand what it feels like or anything, but I'd still try to help with anything. Will rate, thanks in advance. (link)
It is hard to help out a girl when they are going through that. Honestly it can make it worse (depending)if you try to help. For your g/f, do little nice gestures like buying her a box of chocolates (or whatever she likes) or flowers, just the little stuff. If she starts crying not at you but just randomly then just let her cry it all out.

hope it helps
~blackstar~


Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!

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um...well you shouldn't have done it to begin with but hey the past is the past. If you have his fone number you should defently call him and tell him the "news". For your parents...have they warned you many times? If they did well that ain't good but you defently tell them ASAP because the longer you wait the worse the outcome. And a good idea is if you don't already work get a job at a store like wallgreens, osco drug or a grocery store because you will get a discount on diapers and that will show your parents that you are trying to make the best of it and that you are trying your hardest. Or think abut adoption.

hope you make it through it
~blackstar~




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