first off: WILL RATE A 5 IF YOU HELP ME OUT! ok i had this dream...let me explain it...
there was this evil being (kinda like soemthign that came out of Charmed...lol) and it kept chasing me around and trying to kill me. but i guess it kinda had a human form. kinda like the guy who had knocked up pheobe. but he was trying to kill me. he would get ahold of me and then like drag me around and stuff, liek torturing me before he killed me. granted, i made alot of escape attempts, many failing fromthe start, many almost suceeding but not quite. then he had gotten me into his truck (dont ask) and was going to drive it off the cliff and dissapear before it hit bottom. He said he would let me live under one codnition. I provided him with an heir. at first i refused, but i guess the fact of knowign my life was on the line scared me so much i gave in. then i remember
thinking "i have to tell steve i can never see him again. for his safety" (see, i even think of you in my dreams!) then the guy, before taking offmy handcuffs, told me that he wanted a daughter b/c he already had a son. the next thing i remember i was outside and i had a son on my knee then somethign came jumping out at me and scared me shitless and i woke from it.
That was the dream. and my boyfreind got upset b.c i told him (online this afternoon...he is out of state on family business...his mom is sick) and he goes "so even in your dreams you would rather cheat on me than die. i would rather die personally. but its a dream and we cant always control our dreams" then he signed off! didnt say good bye or anything. is he mad at me? does my dream mean anything? I WILL RATE A 5 IF YOU HELP ME OUT!
It's kind of insecure to think just because of a dream that you want to cheat on him.
And the dream, the mood mainly is fear right? So you are most likely fearful of cheating on him, of having to make that choice of hurting him. Perhaps? Explain that to him, that you weren't really cheating on him in the dream, that you really did not want to. But it meant your life, that any sane person would save themselves.
OpenSecrets answered Thursday November 3 2005, 7:46 pm: i think that your bf is just caught up on his mothers sickness and all. You cant help how your dreams turn out. Tell him that you will never cheat on him and that you love him. Im not quite sure what your dream means. Give your bf some time to think. im sure he loves you too hes just over welmd.
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urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Thursday November 3 2005, 7:40 pm: Ha. Your boyfriend is being paranoid. Dreams can be really random (because basically it's just a bunch of randomly picked thoughts that you've had). Explain to him that you would NEVER cheat on him.
You can do things in dreams that you would NEVER even think of doing in real life, and you have absolutly no control of your dreams. Tell him this.
ankeagle14 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 7:06 pm: well, i think your BF will get over it. he is probably having a bad day. umm, weel its hard to say about the dream. sometimes thay mean things sometimes thay dont. maybe one of your worst fears is to be forced to cheat on him. or maybe deep inside your mind can naturally sence somting. maybe not somthing so advious in the dream, like you cheating on you BF. maybe somthing else in the dream. for example, maybe you will move somewhere else, somthing like that. i dont know, just a thought. but i personally beleve that its one of your worst fears. hope i could help, and hope your BF isnt mad!!
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helpachick answered Thursday November 3 2005, 5:52 pm: ok well personally i dont believe your dream MEANS anything. i do think it means that you love your b/f very much though...that you would think of him first. tell him that if that would have happened in real life, you would've (if your REALLY would've) thought of him first. tell him that you love him and you want him to have the best life he can. so if you ever get pregnant, youre going to tell him right away, and also that you would never WANT to cheat on him...tell him he should think of the dream as sort of rape-you could never help being raped...it just happened.
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