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Best friend = Love ?
13/F
My best friend is a guy, (ryan). Latley he`s been waiting for me outside of my homeroom class and walking me to 1st period. Then we walk together to 2nd. I catch him looking at me alot and were always together in class. About a month ago he started hugging me goodbye, and latley the hugs are getting more romantic. He talks to me differently, calls me, and always wants to hang out. He has been complementing me on my outfit even when I`m wearing a t-shirt and boy`s bball shorts and his hoodie he loaned me. He says I look beautiful when I just wake up and my hairs a complete mess and I have no make up on. So, as you can see I really think he likes me more then a friend now, I`ve liked him before like this, but for some reason now, I`m enjoying all this attention and flirting he`s givin me, but I just can`t picture myself with him. What do I do ? I don't want to go out with him, we brake up, then lose our 5 years of being BFFs!
sorry for it being so long, i`ll appreciate any help.
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Well, I wouldn't flirt with him if you don't like him like that. But I'd give him a chance. And I seriously doubt you'd lose your friendship over a breakup. It might be weird for a month or so, but it should go back to normal. FIVE YEARS after all. You can't just drop that.
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well i think you should go out with him i mean if you were wild you would go out with him and if any people stare than you say "why are you satering at us. you need to take a chance i mean you like him (or like what hes doing to you)
and if you do break up than just ask him if you can be bff's still. but you know i've seen some relationships that lasted for ever like one time some couple they met when they were like 5 and they lasted for ever and got married. not saying you will get marrried to him but im saying that you may ot break up for the longest time.
so i hope it works out and tell youre friends about me please.thank you for asking
sincerely
hopes it works out
greenstarz109@aim.com or greenstarz109
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I think that you should tell him that you just wanna be friends but if i was you id explin y you dont wanna go out with him. Every1 is afraid of loosing a friend. If i was you id stay friends with him but yet have a lil fun. like play with him but dont show that you really like him. you kno what i mean? well any ways yea i think that you should make up your mind if you really like him or not.
~*OpenSecrets*~
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i know what you may be thinking, but if he has been your bff for that long, its hard not for him to start liking you that way, and if you choose to become boyfriend and girlfriend together fine, and if your break up thats ok too, you can still be friends if you break up, one of my best friends is my EX-girlfriend. see if you've been friends that long, your friendship should be able to stand the the test of the break up (wanted to use the test of time but whatever) but i hope this helped :-)
-The Man In The Black Cape
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hmm that's totally up to you. it seems like he really likes you a lot & cares for you, so i doubt if you guys broke up that'd it be weird because it probably wouldn't. if you trust him then go for it. it'll be worth it. my bf is my best friend & we've been together for awhile. it might be good trying it out, but if you really don't want to then talk to him about it & explain all of this to him. he'll understand it & then things will go back to the friendship level & stuff.
-hope that helped!♥
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well sit down and talk to him ask him if he likes you and stuff you are just going to need to sit down and talk to him be like do you like me and if he says yes you should say yes but be like i dont wanna mess up our frind ship and stuff i just want to be friends but you can be friends and like do stuff just tell him how you feel hope i helped thanks cya
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