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E-mail: greenstarz@aim.com
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Location: i am originally from new jersey
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Age: 13
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does any one know were (specific sites are loved!) I can buy a lil red (color can differ) salsa dress? (link)
well i dont know. good day to you to.


This girl and I have been casually dating for a little more than a month. She's only 14 and I'm 17 but I genuinly like her. I'm not using her just to get some, I don't even want to do any more than kiss her. At the beginning of the relationship she told me she had only held hands with a guy before. I was skeptical but went with it. Now, she just told me she's had sex, but it was when she was only 9 years old. I'm not upset that she's not a virgin, I don't want her for that. I'm upset that she lied to me from day one. I'm not even mad, just really disappointed and very hurt. I've told her everything I've done with every girl I've dated. I live by the basic rules: Don't lie and don't cheat. She wants to go out with me know and I don't know if I can. I've been hurt before, and recently, and if she's lied once there's no saying she won't do it again right? I know it might sound like I'm overreacting but I really don't think I can take being hurt again. Please let me know what you think I should do. (link)
well she probably lied about it from day one because she was nervous or she was to embarressed to tell you so now she tells you because she knows you better.


okay I have talked about him on here before and some people told me to hang out with this guy snd see if I like him and so I went to the movies with him and I saw all the snobbie girls there and there were saying OMG are you going out with (his name) and I am like noooo....... which I wasn't I was his friend though and they are like GO TELL HIM THAT YALLL ARE OVER and I am like " NO BECUASE WE WERE NEVER GOING OUT" and there like then I will go get him so they go over there and get him and say "go tell your g/f you srry and he gose why we were never going out" and so they said " bow down to her knees and tell her" and he get real red and walks away and so now we usally go to the internet to talk and he is NEVER on and I think he is MAD @ ME????????? Do u think he is
SRRY IT WAS SO LOOOONNNGGGG (link)
well i dont think he is mad i just think that he thinks u r talking about him or maybe its just a quawincedince that when u sign on he signs off.


ok so i think this weekedend im going on a hot air balloon ride for my birthday...woohoo...and now i am definetly not scared...yet haha...but i was just wondering if there was anything i might need to know...also what type of camera should i bring...i have digital and disposable, sorry if this is stupid! (link)
well u should bring both cameras and well 1 thing not to do is jump over the edge and thats all really.


In my Math class(7th period;last period), I sit in a table of 5 people(including me). There's only 2 girls (including me..) and 3 guys. I usually talk to the guys. But anyways. In the math classroom the teachers have phones that the school can get it touch with the teachers and stuff since the school is so big. But somehow i got the number and me and then 2 guys just call the phone and let it ring and as soon as he answers, we hang up! Lol =). And this is during class,too.With our cell phones. I know its stupid and immature but its soo funny because our teacher just gets soo mad.
I told my sister this and she started laughing. But then shes saying how i should stop because my number can come in the bill because the school gets a bill and they could call up the number(my number) and if they find out its a student then i could get in trouble. Can i really? And will blocking my number be any different? Those are the only 2 questions i have. So thanks! (link)
well i dont know but u should stop it just in case because u probably will maybe i dont know but o well



my friend wants me to get to know this guy that she knows through her boyfriend and i realy dont want to.. because he is totaly not my type
you dont have to read why but ill say any way

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i already know alot about this kid..
he was going out with a girl that i dont get along with for over a year and they would have sex like every day .. he also does drugs.. and besides those reasons he asked me to semi online and i dont even no him(never seen him or talked to him), and he was still going out with his girlfriend ..
he also IMs me all the time and talks to me like he wants to get to know me but guys that think they can get to know somebody online arent my type.. b.c the other day when i saw him it was realy awkward to be around someone i only talked online to..
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so my friend her boyfriend and the boy they are trying to hook me up with are all trying to make plans with me and him and trying to set us up but i dont no wat to say because i dont want to be with him like that and think i would be weird if i just hung out with them as friends... if you have ne opions on what i should do that would be great.. (link)
well if you really dont want to go out with him than dont you shouldnt b unhappy for a long time because you dont want to hurt his feelings tell youre friend that you dont want go out with him.


how can u loose ten lbs fast
if it helps i weigh 110 and i am 5'4". thanx (link)
well you can run every morning for about a mile. you could not eat junk food at all. do some active things like tennis , soccer , football, baseball, basketball, or gymnastics or even cheerleading so pick one of those sports.or something else you know about.

so that is what i want you to do every day i will list it:

run a mile
NO JUNK FOOD!!!! (i know its hard)
and pick a sport.


This may seem a bit random, but I'll ask anyway.

Last year, i transferred from my school to a new school in a new district. I have been going to my old school since elementary school [it has elementary, junior high, and high school]. I spent five years with the same people in my grade, so needless to say, changing schools would seem to be a big deal. But, being the person i am, I adapt easily and made friends. However, this group of friends I made, most of them are guys. Counting them, I would say there are 6 guys and at most two girls [not including me]. While it can be a bit awkward sometimes, it really is fun; we always hang out [even in the summer], watching movies and playing football while hanging out at each others' houses. But I still feel like I'm not "really in the group", because once in a while they make plans without telling me or try to hide it from me.

Getting to the point, my question is, how do I know if I'm really 'accepted' into the group or another question is, how do i become closer to my friends [especially the guys]? Next year, they'll be graduating [the guys are ALL seniors], the girls plus me, are juniors, so I want to be able get closer with them before they and we graduate. Giving me advice such as "talk to them more" or anything like that force me to whack you or give you a low rating.

thanks. (link)
well what you should do is start calling them more and ask to hang out. and stuff like that stay cool.


ok thsi is going to sound really stupid...but i can not for the life of me figure out what that blue chalk stuff does. i mean i know you put it at the end of the stick, but what does it DO? why do you put it there? if i dont use it will it affect my game? i will rate you high if you are able to tell me! (link)
well what it does is it makes the and more smoth and it it will hit the ball farther than it usually would with out the chalk.


me and this boy have been dating on and off for over a year now.we're not going out right now though.He's cheated on me and lied to me and somehow he gets off by calling me a liar and a player and i would never do that to him and on halloween me and my friend went to his house and we we're playing around at first and then he started getting serious and he slapped me and my friend just sat there only becuz he said he would beat the f*** out of her too.he is quite abusive and i still like him.do you think i should still like him or should i tell someone that he slapped me? (link)
well i think if he does 1 more thing to harm you you should call the police. you should only tell the police or some one in youre family.


i am sorry about what happened and if it doesnt work please email me at greenstarz109@aim.com i will really try to help you i am so srry i never hear this story. but plase i want to help or im me at greenstarz109
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sincerely,

im sorry for you


ok my bf just dumped me but he still flirts with me in class. he tells all his friends he likes me but he wont tell me that he likes me. today i even herd him talking to the other guys saying how i have a nice ass and every thing. do u think i should care about it. plz help.
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no you should not care about it. it doesnt matter what they think.


I cannot find a job anywhere. I'm 14 I live in Pittsburgh, and I can't find any jobs fit for my age in my area. I've searched on this site called teens4hire.com and there is no job for me in my area. If anyine has any information please help. I would really appreciate it.

Sincerly,

TweetyBird (link)
well you could go around youre neighbor hood and ask if you coul moe there lawns paint someting like there mailbox and trust me you will get lots of money.


13/F

My best friend is a guy, (ryan). Latley he`s been waiting for me outside of my homeroom class and walking me to 1st period. Then we walk together to 2nd. I catch him looking at me alot and were always together in class. About a month ago he started hugging me goodbye, and latley the hugs are getting more romantic. He talks to me differently, calls me, and always wants to hang out. He has been complementing me on my outfit even when I`m wearing a t-shirt and boy`s bball shorts and his hoodie he loaned me. He says I look beautiful when I just wake up and my hairs a complete mess and I have no make up on. So, as you can see I really think he likes me more then a friend now, I`ve liked him before like this, but for some reason now, I`m enjoying all this attention and flirting he`s givin me, but I just can`t picture myself with him. What do I do ? I don't want to go out with him, we brake up, then lose our 5 years of being BFFs!

sorry for it being so long, i`ll appreciate any help.
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well i think you should go out with him i mean if you were wild you would go out with him and if any people stare than you say "why are you satering at us. you need to take a chance i mean you like him (or like what hes doing to you)
and if you do break up than just ask him if you can be bff's still. but you know i've seen some relationships that lasted for ever like one time some couple they met when they were like 5 and they lasted for ever and got married. not saying you will get marrried to him but im saying that you may ot break up for the longest time.


so i hope it works out and tell youre friends about me please.thank you for asking

sincerely
hopes it works out

greenstarz109@aim.com or greenstarz109


I chew on my hair alot. will that harm me in any way?

please help!!!
13/f (link)
it could


how do i make my myspace private? (link)
well what you do is you dont tell any one youre my space thing except people you know and you can go to safe mode and the only people who can read are you and the people who you let.


I have really bad dark circles under my eyes all the time, i use conceler [or how ever you spell it] but it always wears off pretty quickly. any suggestions? (link)
well i think you should just put alot of it on youre eyes or just get a good night of sleep.


what does it mean WHEN A GIRL SMILES AT ME? when we're walking past each other, and we make eye contact, and she gives me that little smile, you all know the one. does it mean:

1. she thinks i'm cute
2. she thinks i'm hott
3. she wants to talk to me
4. she wants to kiss me
5. she wants to do dirty things to me
6. other

come on ladies, i need to know what you're thinking. i have a pic on my profile, if it helps. (i think it will). (link)
i think all of the above


Same guy here from the "Romantic or Creepy?!" Topic earlier,

LadyGoodman mentioned that she would find it creepy if she made it very clear that she wasn't interested before.
My question is WHEN does a women actually make it very clear that she's not interested,
I mean when they are interested, they play hard to get or they are nice, they're not interested they are nice or they do what, to me, looks like playing hard to get...
Personally I would only take it as very clear when she literally tell's me not to bother her again, or to F%$#-off, and I'd be happy to hear the plain and simple truth, but women have NEVER done that to me, they just keep me on a line till I just stop calling them.

I have kissed this specific girl on at least five seperate occations, I've seen her jeolous at least once, and she has been playing hard to get practically the whole time.
I am as sure that she likes me as I can get, but then again, she's not awnsering her phone at the moment... in fact she turned off her cell, I'll still give her time tho.

Please girls, help a dumbass out, how or when are you saying "not interested"? (link)
well i personally think that she is crazy in love but she just is playing real hard to get well i hope that answers you're quetion dumbass


Right well we got a swimmin pool built in our school last month and when the girls are on their periods they aren't allowed to sit out but are forced to use tampons!!!!!! I haven't been on since it was built but oomg. I am so scared. I have never used a tampon and I'm never GONNA so don't suggest I do. Isn't it like illegal to force us to use tampons or somethin? My friend even got her rents in about it and they still made her use tampons!! What can I do on swimmin days that I am on? I'm not using a tampon but I'm not standin in the changing room arguing bout whether to use one or not with the PE teacher its embarassing!! (link)
well i think you should pretend you are sick.



To be honest A part of me doesnt want a boyfriend right now and another part does. Ive been going out with my bf for two years today.. I'm still young and my boyfriend is two years older. I dont realy know what to do or say right now but ive felt like crap today. Its hard to expalin..When he kisses, hugs me, or anything i dont feel butterflys or somthing special. But.. When this new kid that i just met yesterday (ive hung out with him all day the last two days) if i just think about him i get butterflys and i can feel my heart pounding...


Signed,
Confused



13/f

P.s The new kid is only a year older and is in my grade.. My bf is 15 1/2 and is in 9th.. (link)
well mrs. confused i think if you let him down easy and tell him how you feel well i hope that solves you're problem.




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