me and this boy have been dating on and off for over a year now.we're not going out right now though.He's cheated on me and lied to me and somehow he gets off by calling me a liar and a player and i would never do that to him and on halloween me and my friend went to his house and we we're playing around at first and then he started getting serious and he slapped me and my friend just sat there only becuz he said he would beat the f*** out of her too.he is quite abusive and i still like him.do you think i should still like him or should i tell someone that he slapped me?
greenstarz109 answered Sunday November 6 2005, 10:50 am: well i think if he does 1 more thing to harm you you should call the police. you should only tell the police or some one in youre family.
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bUtTeRfLiEs answered Saturday November 5 2005, 10:02 pm: Tell someone RIGHT NOW. I know this sounds harsh but I know about abuse and shit, so here goes...it's your own damn fault if you get hurt because you decide to take this boy's shit. Tell someone, anyone right now. He won't change, he won't mean it when he says he's sorry, and he WILL do it again! Get some effing help dude.
"he is quite abusive" THINK ABOUT IT.
Hope I helped.
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SoInToYoUx0x answered Saturday November 5 2005, 4:48 pm: this guy is very abusive and doesnt repect you. you need to stya away from him and find soemoen else to poor your heart to not to this guy. he doesnt even seem to care about your feelings. forget about him and find yourself a new guy that will always be by your side and not hurt you in anyway. be careful.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
Don'tWantToChat answered Saturday November 5 2005, 3:30 pm: You should definatly dump this guy and tell that he slapped you and threatened your friend.It not fun being abused and you should know that.Just dump him and get over the abuse.You know you don't like being with him so why do stay anyway? [ Don'tWantToChat's advice column | Ask Don'tWantToChat A Question ]
RockStoleMySoul answered Saturday November 5 2005, 3:29 pm: Oh my goodness sweetheart. You do NOT have to put up with that crap. You may like him, but it is evident that he thinks he can control you because of that factor. You really need to end it.......for good. If ANY guy EVER hits you, you know that it needs to end. That is the first sign of abuse. And if he does it once, he'll do it again.
I dont think you need to tell anyone, since he didn't beat you up or anything like that, but to make sure that never does occur, you need to say goodbye to him.
karenR answered Saturday November 5 2005, 3:06 pm: Never put up with abuse in any form! Ever!
I know you like this guy but things will only get worse. Every time he gets away with it he is going to push it further.
You need to drop him as a boyfriend and if he tries to hurt you again you call the cops. I don't care how old he is.
You deserve better than this creep. Have a little self respect and get rid of him. There is a better guy for you waiting out there. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
daniel answered Saturday November 5 2005, 2:59 pm: you shouldnt tel anybody he hit him but dont go out with him again just move on with your life andd forget all about it and find someone else thats nicer and better. [ daniel's advice column | Ask daniel A Question ]
urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Saturday November 5 2005, 2:53 pm: Stay away from from him!! He sounds like a total ass and if you get involved with him more then he could end up doing more than slapping you! Do tell someone! If you let him get away with that then he'll think he can get away with more! Guys like that are DANGEROUS and can end up seriously hurting you, physically and emotionally. I hope he doesn't hurt you any more. Keep me posted!
SweetxxIntoxication answered Saturday November 5 2005, 2:51 pm: you should tell someone he did this.
if you stop this now, you can help people in the future
no one deserves to be treated like this
you should avoid him, you dont need someone if they are going to treat you badly.
you can find, and deserve, someone a lot better than that. [ SweetxxIntoxication's advice column | Ask SweetxxIntoxication A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Saturday November 5 2005, 2:33 pm: You should really tell some one and stop liking him. By telling some one you are doing the right thing because if he slapped you and you say he is abusive he may be hurting more girls.
Start off by telling your parents and you can not be scared of him.
If you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥ [ t0xicParadiSe's advice column | Ask t0xicParadiSe A Question ]
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