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Hey everyone! My name is Maegen, I'm 13 years old and in 8th grade. A lot of my friends say I give good advice, but I'm usually in the situations where I need the advice, lol. I've been through a lot of drama in my life, so I can relate to most things. If anyone has any questions just ask and I'll answer them the best I can!
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alrite, well .. me & this kids ( we`ll call him *john ) so, me & *john went out for 5 months & it was the best relationship i`ve had ! he was nice & we always hung out.. then things got bad & he dumped me ( over one of my friends ) then asked me back out & i said yes cuz i really like him .. & then he did the same thing again .. & see he has friends in other towns so he started to like this girl in another town .. & they are now going out =\.. & i just broke up with *john`s new girlfriend`s friend .. but now * john has been calling me & like flirting with me a ton, and people say he likes me again ..& i still like him but i don`t know if i should take him back if he askes me back out or should i just stay away from him ??

please help me. i really need to know ! (link)
okay girl... obviously he's not ready for a serious relationship... i've met TONS of guys who switch from girl to girl and i happen to be in the middle of it... that's the situation ur in... if he truly likes you he would've stayed with you.. i'm not saying he doesnt like you i'm just saying that he might not know what he wants at the time... but maybe you should talk to him and then ask him what he wants and if he doesnt come around then forget him.. HOPE I HELPED!!


ok so theres this guy his name is blake. he loves me, i love him.. and i seriously mean love. and we've gone out before, but i broke it off because i didnt want a b/f at the time. but i know he still loves me, and i think he knows i still love him. but the thing is he doesnt understand that i dont want a b/f right now. and im scared to lose him because hes the one for me and im the one for him, but im scared if i dont go out w/him soon then it will all be over and he will end up not wanting to wait for me....so wat should i do??? and i dont want to lose him.

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OMG! i'm in the very same situation at the very same age... okay first of all, have you talked to him? if you haven't then you definitely need to do that... say im not ready for a b/f at the time but are you willing to be friends w/ benefits maybe... at least until your ready for a b/f... but if he says no or says i dont want to wait... then obviously he isn't in love with you like your in love with him... HOPE I HELPED!!!
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Hoe do I break up with a guy with out hurting him too much? Especially if he's kinda sensitive, because I don't wanna deal with the emotional roller-coaster that I've been riding lately, and I don't think either of us are really mature enough for a relationship at this point, but how do I tell him all this without bruising his ego or breaking his heart or something? (link)
there's no easy way to say it's over... so just come out and say i think we should just be friends and when he says why tell him the truth dont say something like its not u its me.. tell him the truth it will ease the pain a little more... hope i helped


On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

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well first things... don't like be a total prude to your boyfriend, actually do stuff w/ him even if it is in front of his parents... then they'll know that your not afraid to show your love in front of everyone also dont be a stuck up bitch to his parents... be nice and if they ask you questions ask them truthfully but dont make a total fool out of yourself... be nice to his whole family not just his parents... becasue if his parents find out your being mean to his little sister... ohhh hun your screwed big time! well i hope i helped...


me and this boy have been dating on and off for over a year now.we're not going out right now though.He's cheated on me and lied to me and somehow he gets off by calling me a liar and a player and i would never do that to him and on halloween me and my friend went to his house and we we're playing around at first and then he started getting serious and he slapped me and my friend just sat there only becuz he said he would beat the f*** out of her too.he is quite abusive and i still like him.do you think i should still like him or should i tell someone that he slapped me? (link)
i think you should definitely get out of that relationship... i've been in relationships like that and i almost got killed... but seriously get out of there... if he liked you he would have NEVER done taht to you. and if you were smart you should definitely get over that man right away. sorry if it seems a little harsh but thats serious business!


Well, if I were to have a disease..it'd be herpes. Do you know if they would tell my parents about that? (link)
Well it really all depends if you have it. Herpes isn't something that could kill you and it can be treated, but if your not over 18 you have no rights for the doctor not to tell your parents. So your really need to just ask your doctor if he/she could just keep it a secret, and if they say no then just deal w/ the consequences. Hope I helped!


So here's the facts thus far:

1. 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl who I had known just as a passing acquaitence, and I became closer friends.

2. She reveals to me that she really likes me, however, she has a boyfriend, but that boyfriend has been in the Phillipines for the last 1.5 months.

3. This boyfriend and she had been going out since about early August, but he "moved" in right before his trip b/c his apt lease was over and didn't want to resign until he got back.

4. He got back on Tuesday morning. She's called me a couple of times since then about how she's really uncomfortable about him being there, but he's still not getting the idea that she wants him to move and that she doesn't feel the same way as she did before he left for the trip.

5. However, since Tuesday morning they've had romantic "relations"- and she feels about that. (yes, denial i know).

So what do I do? Do I try to forget this girl or not? Is she serious about leaving him? My mind and heart is troubled. What do you think I should do about this situation? (link)
Well if you really like her, talk to her. But if she's not that close to you then forget about her. Obviously if she's not leaving him, she's not serious about you. Hope I helped! Please rate!


Okay so i am in love with the hot pink razor. And i really want it for New Years. The problem is i have sprint =(. Do you think i can buy the phone full price from t-mobil with no insurance obviously and have sprint just connect it. Sprint does that with all their phone so why cant they do it with this one? My friends parents have bluberries but one is cingular and one is t-mobil but they have a cingular plan. So do you think i could have sprint hook it up?


ILL RATE HIGH! (link)
I definitely think you should give it a shot. My dad owns a phone company of some sort and we get new phones all the time. I have the pink razor and my dad has verizon services and I got it connected to my plan. Hope I helped!


ok. i was going out w/ this guy for about 2 months. we realy liked each other, and everything, but then i realized that i still liked this other guy, and id nevr gotten over. so i dumped him, cuz i thought it wouldnt b fair to go out w/ him wen i liked another guy. well, i immediately regretted it, and i still like him, but he wont talk to me and he says he really hates me. i apologized a million times and tried to talk him into going back out w/ me. he said he still liked me, but he cant trust me, bcuz i dumped him for another guy, and he doesn't want his heart broken again. so wat should i do? i rly rly like him, and i wanna go back out w/ him, but he just dosnt trust me. (link)
I've been thru that situation PLENTY of times... you should still try talking to him, but if he doesn't come around, GET OVER HIM. Sorry hun, you might not like that but it's the only way. You never know the outcome of these situations. You'll eventually end up finding another guy who is wayyyyy better. If he truly still likes you, he would've given you another chance. Hope I helped!


Any idea how to get rid of a little unwanted body fat in the stomach? I've tried crunches and everything but no results. Anything would be helpful. NOT pills though. (link)
Do you eat healthy? If not then I DEFINITELY reccomend that, but if you do, then you just need to wait a little while before you get results. Your right pills are NOT the answer. I hope I helped!


15/f

I just had sex for my first time 2 nights ago. I'd like to get checked by the doctor for any diseases. Is it possible for me to ask a doctor and get a test done without my parents knowing anything? Including the results. Even if the results came out positive, I want it to be kept secret. Do you know if doctors tell parents this kind of information? (link)
Okay, I'm a 13 year old girl, and I've already been pregnent twice. I know that you can go to your doctor and ask them not to tell your parents, and they won't. But if you have some kind of disease, that is fatal, or a concern, they will notify your parents. I hope I helped!




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