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So here's the facts thus far:
1. 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl who I had known just as a passing acquaitence, and I became closer friends.
2. She reveals to me that she really likes me, however, she has a boyfriend, but that boyfriend has been in the Phillipines for the last 1.5 months.
3. This boyfriend and she had been going out since about early August, but he "moved" in right before his trip b/c his apt lease was over and didn't want to resign until he got back.
4. He got back on Tuesday morning. She's called me a couple of times since then about how she's really uncomfortable about him being there, but he's still not getting the idea that she wants him to move and that she doesn't feel the same way as she did before he left for the trip.
5. However, since Tuesday morning they've had romantic "relations"- and she feels about that. (yes, denial i know).
So what do I do? Do I try to forget this girl or not? Is she serious about leaving him? My mind and heart is troubled. What do you think I should do about this situation?
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Well if you really like her, talk to her. But if she's not that close to you then forget about her. Obviously if she's not leaving him, she's not serious about you. Hope I helped! Please rate!
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you should give it time..if she has feelings for you then she will leave him. but maybe at the time shes unsure about who she wants, she could have feelings for both of you...good luck
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I think that you should just kind of back off a little bit until she breaks up with him because honestly you dont want to have to live with the guilt of breaking up a good relationship. I mean I think you should be there for her through this tough time and that will make her like you more but dont pressure her into breaking up with him. Hope I helped.
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i think you should just be her close friend intil they break up...because it seems she likes you and her b/f but she cant decide which one to pick.... sorry but just be her friend and see what happens after he leaves....or just tell her how you feel and tell her that she needs to make up her mind bout who she really wants because you cant wait for her forever... well if you have any more questions drop one in my inbox...XoXDoNnA
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I think in order to preserve your sanity, you tell her you are backing off until she rids herself of the former boyfriend.
If her feelings for you are strong enough she will have to do it. I think she is probably confused. You don't have romantic "relations" with someone you have no feelings for.
If you want to, set a time limit to wait on her. Tell her what it is. You may want to, but you can't wait forever for her to make up her mind.
Best of luck. :)
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