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ok so theres this guy his name is blake. he loves me, i love him.. and i seriously mean love. and we've gone out before, but i broke it off because i didnt want a b/f at the time. but i know he still loves me, and i think he knows i still love him. but the thing is he doesnt understand that i dont want a b/f right now. and im scared to lose him because hes the one for me and im the one for him, but im scared if i dont go out w/him soon then it will all be over and he will end up not wanting to wait for me....so wat should i do??? and i dont want to lose him.
13/f
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OMG! i'm in the very same situation at the very same age... okay first of all, have you talked to him? if you haven't then you definitely need to do that... say im not ready for a b/f at the time but are you willing to be friends w/ benefits maybe... at least until your ready for a b/f... but if he says no or says i dont want to wait... then obviously he isn't in love with you like your in love with him... HOPE I HELPED!!!
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being 13 youre probably feeling a lot of pressure so you should kind of cool it off because youre only 13 and being in love is not easy and im not saying it wont last but just dating one person and not checking other people is not wrong and if you two really love each other then you would take that chance to see who is else there is in the world. and if he really loves you then he wont have no problem respecting your decision about taking some time out. if he doesnt wanna wait for you its his lost and i know you dont wanna lose him and its going to hurt but that happens and you would have to move on and try finding someone new and im not trying to be hard or nothing but i hope this helps a little
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alright i would say be friends with benefits but just be really close and tell him you love him all the time and you should hang out with him a lot but tell him you just dont want to much commitment but you love him
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hey, I know you, lol, ok well the deal with blake go after him quick tell him everything that you just said because he will move on if he doesnt know you want him, because he told me he doesnt think you'd go out with him if he asked you soo its really up to you but i'd move quick, and I wont tell him about any of this lol,
Missy
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Well, if you really loved him, why wouldn't you want to be with him? That makes no sense. Obviously if you don't go out with him, he's going to think you don't love him. I mean, normal people usually go out with people they really love.
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Umm... if you are truly "in love" with him, you should want to be with him, in my opinion. You shouldn't expect him to wait around for you and hang onto your every word. If you make him wait, you might lose him and then you'll regret it. Why not just save the complication and go out with him?
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