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in love, but untrusted
ok. i was going out w/ this guy for about 2 months. we realy liked each other, and everything, but then i realized that i still liked this other guy, and id nevr gotten over. so i dumped him, cuz i thought it wouldnt b fair to go out w/ him wen i liked another guy. well, i immediately regretted it, and i still like him, but he wont talk to me and he says he really hates me. i apologized a million times and tried to talk him into going back out w/ me. he said he still liked me, but he cant trust me, bcuz i dumped him for another guy, and he doesn't want his heart broken again. so wat should i do? i rly rly like him, and i wanna go back out w/ him, but he just dosnt trust me.
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I've been thru that situation PLENTY of times... you should still try talking to him, but if he doesn't come around, GET OVER HIM. Sorry hun, you might not like that but it's the only way. You never know the outcome of these situations. You'll eventually end up finding another guy who is wayyyyy better. If he truly still likes you, he would've given you another chance. Hope I helped!
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I think that you should explain to him the reason that you broke up with him. In all reality, you broke up with him so that you wouldn't hurt him. Just tell him that it was because you didn't think that it was right to be going out with him when you had some interest in another guy. If he forgives you and wants to get with you that would be great, but if he ends up not wanting you just continue to be friends with him. If it ends up not working out just know that that means that there is someone else that is planned for you and that you should just look forward to that new Mr. Right. I Hope I Helped.
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OK this has happened to me a million times. In time he will trust you again you just have to give him time. You have to prove to him that you can be trusted and show him that you really care. He might not go back out with you but at least he will trust you again and it's better then nothing. Hope I helped.
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You should tell him that an untrustworthy person would have just pretended that she didn't like anyone else and let him live a lie. A trustworthy person is honest and you were really trying not to hurt him by waiting to get back with him until you were over this other guy for sure. He's not going to forgive you unless he really wants to, though, so the best you can hope for is that he decides to, and if he doesn't, you don't really have control over it and will either just have to wait until things cool off a little or move on.
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Don't worry, you did the right thing because you didn't want to him to feel hurt that you still have feelings for another guy. Try telling him why you broke up with him and let him know tha you did want him to feel hurt. You were confused and didn't want things to turn worse. Ask him why he can't trust you because its not like you ask the other guy out or anything. Just give him some time and dont worry too much because if he can't believe or trust you for any reason, he isn't the right guy for you. Hope this helps!
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I understand that he's mad, but I don't understand why he can't trust you. I don't think you broke up with him for that other guy, but I think you broke up with him because it was unfair. He got this whole thing misunderstood. You need to talk to him once again and just tell him everyting. Tell him you broke up with him because you were confused and you didn't want to hurt him if he found out. You shouldn't beg him to go back out with you because he's eather getting annoyed & just doesn't want to. It makes you seem desprate which I don't think you really are. Give him some time. He will forgive you & it won't just happen over night or the next day. Just make sure he knows that you still care for him and that you will always be there for him even if you're not together.
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