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To like or not to like?
Well here it goes:
I really like this guy we'll call Jason. I told my friend and she claims she likes him too. She keeps telling me she dsen't like him but i fooled ehr on this crush calculator thing and her 1st one was Jason!
Well my friend is in 7th grade and I'm in 8th and the guy is in 7th.
Is he too young for me anyways?
I think he might have a little crush on me though and i want to confront my friend, but i don't know what to say.
Please don't say try to talk to her, i need some other options.
Thanks in advance!
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he is not to young for you. when you are sure this guy likes you then you can maybe tell your friend if shes really your friend then she will understand that you like him and he likes you as long as he dosnt like her then you have nothing to worrie about
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I don't think Jason is too young for you, provided he's not come kind of child prodigy who's in the 7th grade at six years old (I assume not.) ;-)
As for your friend, I don't think it is that big a deal. If she is not going to make a move towards him, that's her problem, not yours, and if you pursue Jason and she gets mad at you, just tell her that: you never tried for him so I'm going to. If she is a good friend she should be cool with that.
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There's really no need to confront her. Just forget that you ever found out about your friend liking him and go about your business pursuing Jason. She can't get mad at you for pursuing him if she would never truly admit to you herself that she liked him, because no one's a mind reader. If you two do end up dating, then you might want to talk to her about it, but until then, there's no need to.
He's not "too young" for you... though if you guys went out and it lasted it would make things harder when he's in middle school and you're in high school next year. Don't let an age year difference stop you if you really like him, regardless.
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Tell her it's not your fault who the guy likes, it's his own decision and you two can't change it unless you know you do something to make him like her better, but anyways it's his choice to like whoever he wants. Not your fault
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I don't think he is too young for you but that's not what matters. Friends should never argue about guys so I hope you don't go into that. It's really not worth it. Don't tell her that he likes you until you know for sure. Talk to him a lot. Flirt with him. There isn't anything wrong with flirting even if a friend likes them. It just comes natrually. If he flirts back with you & gives you some signs that he likes you then you comfort her and tell her. She might be upset but if she is mad at you then she isn't being a very good friend. If eather one of you goes out with him you both should accept that fact and shouldn't do anything stupid about it.
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