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New Kid Vs. Year Long Relationship?
To be honest A part of me doesnt want a boyfriend right now and another part does. Ive been going out with my bf for two years today.. I'm still young and my boyfriend is two years older. I dont realy know what to do or say right now but ive felt like crap today. Its hard to expalin..When he kisses, hugs me, or anything i dont feel butterflys or somthing special. But.. When this new kid that i just met yesterday (ive hung out with him all day the last two days) if i just think about him i get butterflys and i can feel my heart pounding...
Signed,
Confused
13/f
P.s The new kid is only a year older and is in my grade.. My bf is 15 1/2 and is in 9th..
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well Confused, you should deffinatly get to kno this new kid and still spend time with your boy friends as absourd as it is i think that u should give yuor boyfreind now a chance n if theres still no connection then you should dump him and ask teh new kid out on a date to the movies !
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Your boyfriend is two years and two grades older then you and that is a little far away. The new kid that you met might be the one. If you still really do seriously like your boyfriend then stay with him. What I would do is hang out with this new boy, and then see how everything goes. If you do decide that he is the one [and that is your personal choice] then you should break up with the other boy. I hope that everything works out. Write me a feedback and let me know how everything goes.
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hey well i think you might have feelings for the
new kid or it could jus be because he is new you
might get over that feeling fast you realy never
know !!
well hope i helped at all ♥♥♥
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I believe the same thing happened to me. Sometimes we feel that we should stay with a person because we've been together with him/her for such a long time. But truth be told, nothing lasts forever, specially when we are young, love comes and goes. If you dont feel that there is chemistry between your current boyfriend and you then I think it is better to let him go then to be miserable yourself, who knows you might get a chance with that other kid. Dont be afraid to take a leap sometimes (as long as it isn't into something bad) later it might be sad to think about the "could have been".
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hey...well ok i think that you and your b/f now have had a probably pretty good relationship; however maybe it just wasnt meant to be. I would break it off with him and move on. if you like this other guy that much better than your b/f, somethings not right about that. so be a g/f to the guy who you like the most...(new kid most likely;)
xoxohelpachick
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well mrs. confused i think if you let him down easy and tell him how you feel well i hope that solves you're problem.
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Well you have to make a decision between the two. You pick whichever one you have the most fun with. The one you like to just be with and do nothing.
One thing though. The butterflies generally go away once you become familiar with someone. They are not what makes a relationship special. Once you get to know the new guy...they will go away with him too. :)
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Nice topic choice lol.
You shouldn't just ditch your boyfriend just because the sparks aren't there anymore. It's natural, I guess, for the "butterflies" to go away, since you're so used to being with him. If you really want to go out with this new guy, then go for it. Just make sure that you're making the right decision before you ruin your current relationship. You could regret it for a LONG time. Good luck!!
!~*becca*~!
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What you're feeling for other guys is normal. You feel butterflies, and all of that when you think of other guys because it's new, it's different, it's exciting. It doesn't mean that you are no longer into your boyfriend. It's just what happens when you are with someone for that long. Does it mean that you should dump your boyfriend because you don't feel anything for a while? No, you might find yourself full of regret for that, because things will likely change back with your boyfriend. I agree with you that you're very young to have a long term relationship at that age, but the only way you'll discover the truth is if you try something new with your boyfriend. Something over the weekend that you've never done, something fun. A little romance, no not sex. Get outside with your boyfriend a little, you'll probably notice thats why. It's the same thing over and over. Go to the movies over the weekend, come over, go to school, and thats the end. Try things new instead of sitting around and cuddeling. I think after that, you'll know what's right.
-TheTeenGirl
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dont keep leading your boyfriend on. if you dont feel the sparks anymore just let him know. just tell him things arnt the same anymore and you feel that hes more of a friend then a boyfriend. but dont go after this new guy right away cause that could really hurt your currant boyfriend. just take it slow and dont rush into things. tell your current boyfriend your young and you want to experience with others too and you think now is the time! good luck hun.
michelle;<3
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