my friend wants me to get to know this guy that she knows through her boyfriend and i realy dont want to.. because he is totaly not my type
you dont have to read why but ill say any way
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i already know alot about this kid..
he was going out with a girl that i dont get along with for over a year and they would have sex like every day .. he also does drugs.. and besides those reasons he asked me to semi online and i dont even no him(never seen him or talked to him), and he was still going out with his girlfriend ..
he also IMs me all the time and talks to me like he wants to get to know me but guys that think they can get to know somebody online arent my type.. b.c the other day when i saw him it was realy awkward to be around someone i only talked online to..
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so my friend her boyfriend and the boy they are trying to hook me up with are all trying to make plans with me and him and trying to set us up but i dont no wat to say because i dont want to be with him like that and think i would be weird if i just hung out with them as friends... if you have ne opions on what i should do that would be great..
greenstarz109 answered Monday November 7 2005, 8:46 pm: well if you really dont want to go out with him than dont you shouldnt b unhappy for a long time because you dont want to hurt his feelings tell youre friend that you dont want go out with him. [ greenstarz109's advice column | Ask greenstarz109 A Question ]
ilovepink101 answered Monday November 7 2005, 7:58 pm: well you dont need a guy that does drugs and he is practally cheating on his girlfriend hes with now..well im sure you deserve much better..but maybe you and him can be friends..when you see him you shouild tell him that you dont want to be nothing more of friends..becasue you dont want a horn dog that wants to screw you everyday..and this sounds really weird becasue he doesnt even know you..its jsut sad that some boys just want girls because they sound really hot..because you said that he never meant you and he trys to talk to you on the internet..wel he sounds like a jerk..so you just try to stay friends with him..and you sound like a way better person then that!!you deserve alot better..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101>Bridgette [ ilovepink101's advice column | Ask ilovepink101 A Question ]
Altruistic answered Sunday November 6 2005, 9:23 pm: Tell them that you don't want to go along with their matchmaking plans. My friends tried to do it to me till i told them firmly that no way was i going to go out with a guy i really didn't know or like. You just have to get it through them that you'd prefer to find your own guy WITHOUT their help. As for making plans with both of you guys, decline politely and them that you wont hang out with them if they keep trying to set you guys up. Make sure they know that theres a line between what friends should do and should not do. Setting you up with someone you really dont want to be with would be pass that line. [ Altruistic's advice column | Ask Altruistic A Question ]
karenR answered Sunday November 6 2005, 9:07 pm: Just tell her you don't mean any offense by it but you really want to choose your own guy friends.
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