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friends
ok my best friend is moving and it is realy hard because we have been best friends and neighbors forever what can i do =(
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There's a lot of ways to communicate today and I'm sure you can always talk to each other. The best thing you need to do is to make sure all of his/her contact details. I also suggest to make buy some stationery for your best friend and write all the things that you want to say to her/him before they leave. Try this:
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all you can do is if she has a cell, call her. if she has aim, go on and talk to her all the time. you could also try emailing or writing letters. this recently happened to me, but not with a best friend, so i kinda know how you feel.
hope that helped!
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same thing happened to me 2 with in the past few months , one is just to a diff neighbor hood and the other to a diff state. It really sucks and is hard to handle.
Just make sure you stay in touch. and make sre him/her know they arent going to be replaced. If its far away, make plans to meet over summer break or write alot and call alot. If its just around the city, make plans for the week ends and stuff.
Always keep in touch.
You never wanna loose a bff
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try to make the last moments you know him/her the best ever, that way you can always remember the good times.
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I know this a tough time for you. And for your friend leaving. Just remember that you guys will alwasy be bestfriends forever. You could always talk to her by aim if Your friend and you have it. If not you guys caoul dalso write letters to each other and phone call eachother every day. You might convince your parents to go see her during the summer. This is my advice:)
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same thing happend to me.. but whatever you do, talk all the time and keep your friendship other wise it mite slip away before you know it.. <3
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the best thing to do is to make the most of the situation. spend lots of time together, talk, go shopping, you know just try to have as much fun as you can. this last summer i had to move away from an area i lived in for 16 years, and believe me, spending lots of time with my friends helped and we talk on the phone and email and everything else! it will sure help out your friend that's moving
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Keep in touch with her. Write her,email her, call her, visit her and let her come visit you. Im if you can. Just try as much as you can to stay in touch. :)
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Just because she moved doesn't mean you can't still be best friends. Keep in touch with email/AIM/phone and you can still visit her on weekends, etc. Remember, good friends can't be seperated by distance. ; )
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That happened to me too when I moved. I left all of my best friends, and it was definitely hard. I'm just keeping in touch with them by writing them letters. Because, I hate talking on the phone. =P But anyways. I'm sorry about your friend moving, But seriously, just make sure you keep in touch with her.
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i know how you feel, because my best friend moved really far away from me too. it's a really hard thing to accept and deal with.
you can't stop her from moving or anything, but you two will always be best friends. exchange gifts before she leaves so that you two will have something to remember each other by.
and remember, you can always talk on the phone and talk on e-mail or IM. and she can come visit you, and you can go visit her too.
at first you'll be really sad and depressed, but as time goes by, you'll get used to it and won't be so sad.
if you don't want to stop being friends, then you two need to contact each other often, otherwise, you two will probably slowly drift apart.
but if you two are really really really good friends, then it won't be that hard to stay that way, even though you two live far apart from each other.
there's really not much you can do except to just stay happy and try not to be so sad about it, and learn to accept what's happening.
just keep in touch with her, and you'll be fine.
:.good luck.:
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I had the same problem last year. My best firends ever moved really far away and it is a 3 drive to get there. It was relly hard but we still talk everyday either on aim, the phone and we write letters almost everyday. It has almost been a year sence she has been gone and it still seems like she never left cause were still so close. So the only thing i can say is keep in touch...
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what can you do? You can keep in touch through e-maills, snail mail, call each other once a week or something. If she hasn't left yet, you should make her a 'care package', like a box and put things liek... her favorite candy, a poster or two for her new home, a stuff animal, stationery so she can write to you, and a disposable camera so she can take pictures and mail them to you, and a letter just telling her that you will miss her :)
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i have had many friends move and really far away at that it is really hard at first but it gets easier i promise hope i helped
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