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I think my brother smokes but I can't talk to him about it because that would be wierd and I can't tell anyone because I don't want him to get into troble if he really isn't smoking. What should I do about my brother?
I know you don't won't to talk to him but that could be the best thing to do. think about it if you tell and he really is nto smoking then he coudl get into serious trouble. If you do talk to him and find out he is smoking you might be able to convince him not to. tell him what harm it could do to him. This is my advice:)
ok my best friend is moving and it is realy hard because we have been best friends and neighbors forever what can i do =(
I know this a tough time for you. And for your friend leaving. Just remember that you guys will alwasy be bestfriends forever. You could always talk to her by aim if Your friend and you have it. If not you guys caoul dalso write letters to each other and phone call eachother every day. You might convince your parents to go see her during the summer. This is my advice:)
Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them.
You should talk to them tell them what can happen if they do keep smoking. If they do not listen and keep smoking then you should stop hanging out with them. If you do you could get addicted then what you said could happen to them could happen to you to.This is my advice:)
I was looking through a few questions on religion (Not a darn clue why, I just was) and I was reading a question about a girl who wanted to become Buddist.
An answer she recieved made me a little upset. This person that answered kept saying how she was choosing the wrong religion and that being Buddist is wrong.
I've noticed things like this before, strong Christians (yes, it is mostly Christians) criticizing other religions. They will rant on and on about how it's the wrong religion.
What is so wrong with believing in Buddah? Why do you have to criticize people who do not believe in God? We have the right to choose our religion and the right to choose no religion at all.
Why do you believe that your religion is the only "right" religion? This has been bothering me for a while.
I really don't want any Christians on this site to feel that I am directing this ONLY at you. But what I've seen on this site about 90% of the people criticizing people for their religion are strong Christians. So, I'm just basing my question on the majority.
I'm sorry if this question has offended anyone.
Nothing is wrong at all with beliving in Budah. I do belive that some catholics do do what you are saying think ther religion is the only one. But I think that only about 30 or 40 percent do that. Anyways I do not know why they do that. If they are true catholics then they should be a good catolics to other. They should just say that is neet that you are trying a new religion bu I prefer catholic. I guess just some people think that they are number one and then that there religion is just number one like that. This is my advice:)
Hi!I have a friend. Well, i like this guy, but then i told my friend about this guy and now she likes him to. The guy asked my best friend out. I was crying for like almost an hour. She told me that she still wanted to be friends and every thing but i dont know. It hurts really bad and the only problem i have is should i still be her friend or no? Sould i tell her that i hate that she is going out with the person that i really like? i dont know what to do because i dont want to lose a friend over a guy.
Many things like this happens to alot of grils and guys occasionaly. Anyways I know it is hard to see your bestfriend with the guy. what you should try to do is talk to your friend try to settle somthing. Somthing like We can still be friends and she still can go out with the guy. But put like a rule not to talk about the guy or do things that hurt your feelings infront of you. This is my advice:)
I NEED A HORSE!!!! i love horses and i really want one.my friens tory got a horse last summer. my mom said its a posibility to get one.i was dreaming every night about having a horse after that.they havent said anything about it and win i bring horses up they allways change the subject.im sorry of making this so long but i am in need of your help.
we also need more money.can i get money out of my UGMA account(uniform gift to minor account)?
so my question is, how can i get my mom to buy me a horse?
NOte: i no how much responability they are and how expencive they are so dont mention that please.
One thing you could consider is to rent a horse. If you won't to get some cash for the horse you won't to bye if you are old inof. Then you could babysit of get a minor job like at ace hardware store somthing like that. This is my advice:)
ok my parents were not home so i took there car out to practice my driving.then i took the car to go out to the mall and go shopping.when i came back from shopping there was a huge scratch on the hood of it!please help!!!
What you did i know was very tempting. The rite thing to do know is tell your parents. Becuse if you lie about what happend then they will eventually find out and you will get in worse trouble. Be honest with them. You could also offer to pay for the fixing of the car if you have the money. This is my advice:)
To start off, im 13 female.
i really need your help..
i dont live with either of my parents,i live with my grandparents, because my mom was a addicted to drugs and my dad was addicted to sex ( with other people besides my mom ) well they never got married, it was like a 1 night stand thing. and of course i myself was a mistake. < im over that now... any ways the judge guy said that me and my sister ( who is almost 16 ) are not allowed to live with her or be alone with her ( one time when i was two, my grandmaw was in the back yard playing with me and my sister and i was in the grass a little farther from them and my mom came , she was high, and she came through the gate and took me and i was gone for 2 1/2 months and then my mom went to jail i dont know what for though but then this lady brought me back ). that was like when i was little. any ways i always hang out with my mom now, and she has her life mostly staightened out but she still has her liscense suspended and isnt allowed to drive ( sometimes she still does ) well i have been places with her alot and she was talking on the phone with this guy she lives with and she was like walking away from me when she was talking to him and she was like i need some and i heard him say need some what and she was like you know what i am talking about and then she didnt kno i heard her and so she was through talking to him and she hung up.. well today i spent the night at her house and we went to the gas station at like 8 in the morning, ( she was driving ) and then she called this guy on the phone and her exact words were " i need four" and he was like alright come over and get them and so we went to his house but she made me stay in the car and she went inside and was gone for like 10 minutes... well i think shes into drugs again and i think she is cheating on her boy friend with other guys because when she got back she said " i had to talk to my other boyfriend " and it juss hurt me so bad knowing that she is doing all this.. well do you guys think shes into drugs again? im really worried.. should i juss wait and see where this all takes me or should i confront her, or go to my grandparents.. but i think they might not let me see her again if i do.. im soo lost! please help me.. i rate 5's
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- confused
that is really sad. What you should do is tell your grandparents. If your mom is doing drugs wich i think she is by whata you say. anyways if you do nto tell your grandparents. On day your mom might decide to take alot of drugs then she decide to drive somwhere and gets intoa wreck. Or even worse you could be in the car to. What your mom is doing is not a good example for you.This is my advice:)
Hey,
I currently weight 105 pounds. I used to weight 90 pounds and look perfectly fine but since last xmas I have put on just over a stone. I'm extremely short so it's not like I'm a skeleton. I admit that I was too skinny at 90 pounds, so I want to get down to 100. What are some SAFE, it doesn't matter if they are slow, ways to lose those five pounds? I know excersize and eat healthy but can you give examples? And I don't like many fruit or vegetables so what are other healthy, low-fat foods?
I know I don't really need to lose weight but I'd feel so much more confident at 100 (around 7 stone) pounds and I'm starting to feel fat like this!! I have swimming lessons for seven weeks starting on Friday and by the end of it I would like to be down to 100. Please help!
P.S. Will the swimming help? I am a sucker for sugary foods, how can I stop cravings?
23, female!
some good ways to loose wait would be to excersie. Take a jog every night or ever morning.
You can aslo try to eat the majority of your food healthy. like a salad every day for like a week during luch.Don't go over board either always eating healthy and not wonting to eat sugary stuff ever. I might seguest A diet book. My mom does the South Beach Diet. You do it for two weeks my mom lost 10 pounds the first two weeks. Then you go on if you won't. But that might not be inof time to loose five pounds by swimming. Swimming will probably help you loose weight but I say not much. this is my advice:)
Ok well see I am a 13/f and my dad like hits me all the time with like eather a wooden stick or his hands or whatever he has in reach and it usually leaves bruises.....and like he always tells me when he does it that I could never call the police and get him in trouble because he will just say that it's his way of "punishing me". And like I always ask him why doesnt he just ground me or something else and he always says that he thinks this will work better.....but I really don't think it does. What should I doo?? Is this considered abuse or not??
thanxxx
You need to talk to talk to other adult like a trusted teacher would be best. Tell them what is happening and why. Then the teacher will do what she needs to do. This is considerd child abuse. this is my advice:)
I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!!
That is always a hard decision. But just think you will make new friends just like your others. You could always keep intouch by Aim or phone or even letters. Like you said this school has new opportunities for you go for it. Take the adventure. When you go on to collage and highschool. You will have to leave some of your freinds. then you will now what to do becuse you went trought it. Life is all about adventures. This is my advice:)
I know one of my friends is stealing things from my locker because I saw all of my stuff in her backpack. I don't want to tell. What should I do?
you should talk to youre freind. Nicely ask her why she is doing this. maybe she is mad about somthing or somthing else is happening. If she sayd that seh did never steel. then you will have to tellon her. She can no tkeep doing this to you. if she is a true friend she would have never done this. This is my advice:)
13/f. Alot of my girl friends say that i look pretty and gorgeous and things like that. But i dont think guys find me attractive,...why?
It does not matter how pretty you look for a guy to like you he needs to like you for what you are. When your friend say you are pretty you are. If guys can't see that in you that is there falt. Don't wory you will find a great guy latter on in youre life that likes you for how you are and look. this is my advice:)
Ok, so I kinda like this guy, and he's one of my friends. We aren't that close, but I talk to him when he's around (I couldn't just walk up and start talking to him, but that might be because I'm a bit anti-social). He asked me for my phone number once, but I didn't give it to him becuase I had absolutely no idea why he wanted it; I was in denial that he might have liked me. When he asked that, I did like him then, but I was a little paraniod, and somehow we dropped the subject. I probably gave him the wrong impression. I feel really stupid, and now we don't talk as much as we used to. Is there any way to fix this? Or should I just move on? (Please don't tell me that I'm stupid for doing this, I already am well aware of that)(He's also been dating a few people, which doesn't make me jealous, but I thought I should include that.)
You should start talking to him again like a good friend would do. That would get you more closer to him. After a while you should then tell him. If you still like him then. he will probably react better know because you guys are good friends. He might even like you. That is my advice:)
I chew on my hair alot. will that harm me in any way?
please help!!!
13/f
yes that can harm you but in the long run...
After a while youre hair cells will root and die out. this is my advice:)
omg i think i like the same guy as my friend! i hate this, how do you stop having feelings for somebody? i can't control my feelings anymore and even though i know this is just an infatuation, i want him and at the same time i don't want my friend to be pissed at me! WHAT DO I DO???
Every teenage girl at least once on her life goes through the smae thing. It is a girl thing.If youre friend is a true friend then when she friends out she will understand. Just always remmber that boyfriends and crushes will always come and go but true friend will always be there for you. This boy is not worth the losing the friendship with your friend. that is my advice:)