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13/f. Alot of my girl friends say that i look pretty and gorgeous and things like that. But i dont think guys find me attractive,...why?
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lots of ppl don't think they are good looking, pretty, hot etc. its just because ppl are generally critical of themselves; humans are messed up like that =P
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i definatly know what you are saying! i can relate. i bet you are a pretty girl, guys your age are so stupid! they think that going out with a pretty girl is a game! and they are so shy at this age that you dont know what they want! wait a few more years, and you'll find someone special that will definatly think you are gorgeous!
always,
helpingbuddy01
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maybe because you're friends are just trying to be nice. i mean they are your friends. they aren't going to say you look like shit.
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Hey hun,
I'm sure your very pretty! Girls always tend to think that their not attractive enough for guys, but you really are. You just have to think positive thoughts about yourself, and have self confidence. Guys like it when girls are confident. If guys don't think you are attractive and won't go out with you because of that, that's mean as hell. Looks don't count. The personality is what counts! I don't think guys find me attractive at all either, but I'm trying to be more confident about myself, because I know that most guys don't want a girl who has no self confidence! Tell yourself that your beautiful everyday. The guys that care about just looks and nothing else are not even worth going out with. Don't waste your time on them. You'll find a very sweet guy someday who cares about your personality, and how you are on the inside. I hope I helped you out hun! I'm sure your a very pretty girl. If you have any other questions, leave them in my inbox.
<3 KiMmY
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Maybe you're just feeling insecure about yourself. Don't worry it's normal to feel this way.
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It could be your friends are lying : some girls do this because they are trying to degrade themselves. Or they are even trying to make themselves sound like a better person by complementing you. Most likely they do think your pretty, only the truly mean girls would lie to you like this.
As for the guys, maybe they do and they just aren`t telling you. Maybe they don`t care for your personality. Love isn`t just about the looks.
If you want to get a guy I have one word for you : Flirt. :o) works every time.
Hope I Helped :) :) :)
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every person has a different opinion on a how a certain person looks. lots of guys will like you and lots of guys wont. its just their personal opinion--everyone has it. and you never know if guys dont find you attrative...maybe they just havent told you otherwise yet.
hope i helped hun [♥] X0H
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Answer: You are only 13, so don't worry so much about finding a guy just yet. Instead, work on yourself!
Learn how to be comfortable in your own skin. Be at peace with your flaws (everyone has them and worries about them on occassion) and realize that there is so much more to you than what meets the eye. Do not question how attractive you are. There are so many different opinions out there on what makes a certain person attractive, and it's not just all about looks! In my opinion, a guy who has a good sense of humor, confidence, is compassionate, and can easily have meaningful discussions would be attractive to me.
Once you gain confidence in yourself, guys will pick up on that. The more confidence you have, the easier it will be for you to interact with guys, and they will truly get to know who you are. Maybe they do find you attractive, but don't have the guts to tell you yet or think you are not interested, so make the first move!
Don't stress that you haven't found a guy yet. Just do things you love, hang out with your friends, and eventually, when you least expect it, you will find the right guy.
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Every girl don`t find themselfs attractive.. i think its a disease.. ♥ Dez
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hey hun. personaly looks arent everything. i am not sayin you r this but mayb u dont have a good personality. it can be that you are to shy and are scared to show people how you really are and then they dont get to know you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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girls lie and flatter one another
-gunner
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It does not matter how pretty you look for a guy to like you he needs to like you for what you are. When your friend say you are pretty you are. If guys can't see that in you that is there falt. Don't wory you will find a great guy latter on in youre life that likes you for how you are and look. this is my advice:)
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You're friends are probably saying that because you ARE pretty, however some guys dont find pretty girls attractive. They might find hot or sexy or w/e girls attractive.
♥ xO RoXy
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Maybe your friends are nice to say that you look pretty and you probably do, but boys sometimes don't think cute girls look cute.
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Well, how you are feeling is totally common for someone your age. We are our own worst critics. 13 is the age you go through puberty and different kinds of a changes. It can be sometimes akward. But it's something you will grow out of. At the same time, guys you know are going through the exact same thing to them. And usually, it's up to them to make the move but they may find they aren't attractive enough for you. So it's kind of a little cycle. I think you should start believing your friends! The boys will come around. In the mean time, have some self confidence in yourself and go up to a guy and socialize. This will help both you and him get more comfortable. I am sure you are gorgeous just as your friends say! :)
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