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hey... im 13 and i like this guy that my friend likes. i told her she could go out with him cause i didnt wanna
1.) hurt her feelings or
2.) tell her she couldnt go out with him cause if he asked me then she could say i couldnt too right?
well anyways... my other friend ( a guy.. best friends with the one i like) told him i liked him cause i said he could.... and now my friend ( the girl) and the guy i like are going out and im really sad about it. what do i do????

She doesn't sound like a very good friend.. I mean you TOLD her you liked him and she still went out with him? Hm..I say ditch her! (Unless she is a really good friend..then you should probably just tell her how you feel or whatever..) I don't know about the guy. You could still like him even though she is going out with him and become better friends with him and maybe he'll break up with your friend for you! Ah. That sounded so bad! HeHe.. but that's pretty much the same thing she did to you S0O WHATEVER!!! ;) Good Luck! HOPE I HELPED x3

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yeah, well i really really like this boy, and well, i dont think i have much of a chance, but latly he has been talking to me more and everything, so maybe theres a chance, but the point is, some people say he does drugs, and when i talk to my girlfriends that know him better than me, htey say that he didn it once or twice but then stopped, but alot of people tell me that he does do drugs, and i dont know if i really wanna like ask him, cause i dont talk ot him much, is just like a really really really really big crush so yeah, id ont know what to do, if he ask me out, should i go out with him, or should i say no, i dont think he is a druggie, but other people do, and i dont wanna get the repuatation as the girl who wentout with a pot head, i dont know im just worried that ill make a bad choice and then get my heartbroken, but i really like this guy, and he knows my younger brother, and he is really sweet, help please ?

Sounds like you REALLY like this guy. So I'd say, if he asks you, just go out with him!! You can't not like him just because SOME PEOPLE think he's a druggie. If you go out with him and it turns out he is, well, atleast you got the chance of going out with a guy you reallyy like. And if he does do drugs, just dump him. Especially if he starts acting like a jerk to you or something. Because you can't go by what other people say! (It's a great example of gossip//rumors!!) So don't stop liking him just because of that.. unless of course he DOES do drugs.. then you should probably get over him. HOPE THIS HELPS! x3

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Okay .. Theres this guy and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me a couple of months ago we made out and hooked up like a month later it happend again.. he was a major player but for some reason i think he actually likes me now hes got a girlfriend and she is sorta my friend he purposely kisses her in front of me and touches her and all that stuff. I dont know if he likes her or not but hes been going out with her for like 4 weeks and he hasnt cheated on her yet and thats not usual with him. i dont know if he like me or not what should i do?

if he has already been going out with this other girl for 4 weeks and hasnt cheated on her, he probably likes her (more then you probably) because, unless he is trying to make you jealous??, he would be broken up with her already if he truly liked you. so i'd say just don't do anything, if he breaks up with her, then you make your move =) HOPE THIS HELPS x3

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Hi .. i`m in 9th grade and i like this one guy who is in 12th i know big difference right? lol well i think he might have feelings for me but i`m not sure . I really like him since august probably and i really want to know if he likes me. I mean sometimes he acts like it but i wanna know for sure .. i dont want to ask him cause i`ve asked him before if he liked any one but he would always say i dont know and when my friends ask him if he likes me he says he thinks im cute .. do you understand what that could mean??? well to sum this all up what do you think i should do?

if he says he doesnt like anyone and says that you're "cute", it usually means he isn't THAT interested in you. BUT DONT GIVE UP ON HIM, especially if you really like him. just become better friends with him by talking to him more and just hanging out. then maybe he'll start liking you as more then a friend! HOPE THIS HELPS x3

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hayy .. ii`m loqan .. ii`m 13 .. ii just dumped my boyfriiend about 2 weeksz aqo but ii really lyk thiisz quy named dylan .. and he used to lyk me b4 he qot a qerlfriiend .. then a week aqo hiim and hiisz qerlfriiend broke up .. should ii ask hiim out er just waiit ??

-broken~hearted

you should probably ask him if he likes you first before you do anything else.. if he says yes, i'd say you should wait about another week before you go out with him, just so people can't be like, omg he JUST broke up with his girlfriend and now he's going out with her, ya know?? (cause 2 weeks is enough time, for me anyways!) HOPE THIS HELPS x3

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hey .. im briana and im in 9th grade .. i like this guy who is about 3 years older than me .. my mom thinks is too much of a year spand but i thynk its just a number . well any ways to the point .. i like him alot and i dont know if he likes me some people say he acts like it and i think he does too but sometimes he doesnt i mean he flirts with alot of girls but i he seems like he likes me more than them ( dont meant to seem like im bragging but truthfully ) do you think i should ask him if he likes me or something i mean im not actually nervous to ask him cause i did before but im just nervous about the fact that he might say no .. you know what i mean ? what do you think i should do ?

i say ask him!! if he says no, he's not worthy of your time OR you. but if he says yes, make sure he is saying yes cause he REALLY likes you, not just so he can "take advantage of you" (because of the age difference). i hope it works out! x3

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ok well... im in 7th and this guy i like is in 8th we sit next to each other in study hall well he is the funniest person and all my friends think hes hot.. he flirts w/ me but my friend who knows him very well says he flirts with everyone... EVERYONE tells me he likes me but idk.. my friend asked him who he liked and he said no one which is the biggest lie i ever heard.. im not gonna ask him out myself what should i do?!

-cheer chick

hmm.. i guess just ask your friend to ask him if he likes YOU, not just anyone. *if he says no, just as a friend* get ur friend to atleast ask him if he thinks your pretty or if he likes your personality *mostly personality* cause if he does then you should try to become better friends with him so he'll like you for you!! HOPE THIS HELPS x3

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hi im monica.. yeah i dont know you but one of my friends gave me your sn for quotes.. yeah i didnt take any though lol(: well anyways heres my question: theres this kid in my school whos really cute and i've heard that might he like me.. but one of his friends told me that he sorta has a gf... idk what to do im so confused. hes NEVER online so like i cant ask my friends toask him in school! i hope you can help...

sincerely: just turned 13.. have a guy problem

oOk welll...hmm first off.. how does he SORTA have a girlfriend? he either does or he doesn't. so you should probably just start a nice casual conversation and then ASK HIM whether or not he does. *or get a friend to do this*. if he says he doesnt, then just get to know him more *friend-wise* so you know you rEaLLy like him then tell him you do and then MAYBE he'll ask you out, woohoo!! hehe. I REALLY HOPE IT WORKS OUT IN YOUR FAVOR!!! x3

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ok. homecoming is like so soon and i didnt think i would have a homecoming date so i just had my friends talk to my ex ex boyfriend whose really hot and he asked me and all. i was happy until i went over his house and he tried hooking up with me so bad. and i didnt think of him like that. and that totally turned me off. so now this other kid asked me whose a sophmore and he calls me like twice a day , everyday. although hes one of those druggies. but hes a sweetheart. but how do i tell my first date i dont want to go with him anymore??

i guess just be honest with him. tell him that the way he came on to you wasn't too flattering and you TOTALLY don't like him that way. then tell him you dont want to go to homecoming with him and go with your other guy! there isn't really any other way (that i can think of anyways) of telling him, so good luck and i hope i helped x3

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okayy.. so there's this kidd and i really like him alot. I heard he likes me too, but i dont know if i beleive it. We dont really talk that much, and we just say a little hi in the hallway. I want to start a convorsation with him, but i dont know how to start .. and should i be the one that starts it ? I really want to get to know him, and talk more. I was thinking i was gonna wait for him to start the convorsation, but then i thought, what if he never starts ? How do i start the convorstion ? PLEASE HELP I REALLY LIKE HIM!!
thankss from - so inlove with him x3

if you really want to get to know him better, you start the conversation! if you are more of a shy person.. and you have his screen name.. talk to him online! its much easier to learn stuff about people through AIM. (atleast i think so!) and then once you start having pretty good convos online, try talking to him in school.. more then just HI in the halls! and if you have classes with him, talk to him there too! and if you really want to know if you likes you or not before you do something.. (and you dont want to ask him) get a friend to ask him for you!! i found this works ReAlLy well for me =) HOPE THIS HELPS x3

*IM me if you would like to talk more: ohs0osweetxo

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(( girl - 14 years old )) Okay i just started goin out with somewun on sunday and my brother found out and hes starting to say stuff nd say im nasty .. usually i am the type of person that would let things go thru wun ear nd out the other but hes my brother ya kno ... i lisin to thys stuff in school .. on the bus... online.. and at home!! i jus dont kno what to do .. and on top of that i like another person nd i feel like thys is gettin way over the top .. some people are telling me to deal with it but its hard when i lisin to stuff people are telling me to break it off cuz my family knows whats best for me and they are the ones trying to split us apart... please please tell me what you think i should do ... thank you!!!

P.S. sorry bout the spelling .. i was kind of in a rush

ok so heres the deal..
if you REALLY like this guy you're going out with, stick with him!! i mean, its JUST ur brother thats bothering you about it right?? its not like your parents want you to break up with him or anything..and about the other guy you like.. if that turns into the main reason you'd break up with the guy your with.. MAKE SURE YOU REALLY LIKE HIM!! it would stink to break up with someone you like for some guy that ends up being a total JERK or something. HOPE THIS HELPS x3

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hey.. i dont know you but thats okay haha. So anyways, theres this kid Jarod i reallllly like and im pretty sure he likes me too but i heard he likes one of my bestfriends but she doesnt like him back. i was going to tell him but now im all confussed. But theres also this other kid Timmy. He likes me alot and we've gone out before but i always break up with him cause he does something stupid but he thinks hes different and hes kindof a bad boy which i like but i dont kno if id want to be "with him" i dont even kno what i want its so confussing! Plus ontop of that, theres this guy Sean who is sooo incredibly awesome. i swear i could talk to him for hours. Hes so sweet and so hot but there has to be something wrong with him right? well he's friends with all my girlfriends but he doesnt like hang out with them.. He has older friends like 2 grades ahead which would suck cause then we wouldnt get to hang out as much as i would if i went out with jarod or timmy... OMG!! is my life confused or what!? PLEASE HELPPPP!

Signed,
COMPLETLY boy crazy =/

p.s. if you have a s.n. and wanna talk on their instead its xosweetiipies3 THANKS

dangg 3 guys at once?? playerplayer!! haha just kidding!! umm ok if it were up to me, id definatly pick the last guy. he sounds so totally awesome but the fact that you might never hang out kinda sucks..so if you're looking for a good relationship.. i'd go with the first guy.. the one you actually REALLY like (i think it was jarod??) yeah, him! hehe. because its stupid to keep going out and breaking up with someone (aka. the TIMMY situation) soo hmm.. i guess just tell this jarod guy you like him and see what happens. if he totally doesnt like you at all.. move on to the other sean guy. HOPE THIS HELPS x3 if you want to talk to more, my sn is ohs0osweetxo

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hey im a 13 yr old girl - i weigh about 122 lbs .. i really wanna get down to 110 .. i need help despritly .. is there any help you could give me !! PLEASE HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thankz ..
sincerely,
me

ok first off.. weighing 122 pounds is really good for your age.. unless of course your only like 4 foot or something, then you'd have a problem. hehe but if you REALLY want to lose that extra weight, try dieting RIGHT, none of those no-eating diets, they do nothing for you!! but just eat healthy and that should work. also excersize DAILY if not everyother day. this includes: running, swimming, bike riding, rollerblading, skateboarding pretty much ANYTHING active, just get out there and do it!! and if you dont already play a sport.. why not try signing up for a school sport, you can meet new people and get in shape! unless its too late for that.. (tryouts i mean) but anyways, just stay active and eat healthy and you shud get down to the weight you wana be in no time! HOPE THIS HELPS x3

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okay..

so i have to good friends..one with a karate club and one with a tae kwon do club...well i dont really know the difference between the two so i am not sure which one to go with..I NEED HELP

^^ LMFAOOOOOOO !! hey erin. whats up!
yeah you already know im with the tae kwon do. LOL

-kaytayy

dude, you shouldnt even be JOKING about that.
tae kwon do all the way biznatch! ;) x3

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i like this guy A LOT & he acts like he likes me too. we flirt all the time. people always say why don't you two just go out already! but sometimes he ignores me on aim & won't talk to me until i IM him its so annoying. and we've like each other for a while. we went out in 8th grade and broke up. & we've liked each other ever since..i'm in 10th grade now. idk if hes just to scared to ask me out or what? should i move on or not?

ok so if you like him that much, you should probably just be straight forward and ask him if he likes you. i know i would never do this, lol, so if u dont want to, try getting a friend to ask him. im not sure about him ignoring you though?? maybe thats a sign of him not liking you.. unless he thinks your ignoring him! (if you dont say hi to him right away or something). So i guess if he tells you that he doesnt like you, you should definetly move on..especially cause its been since 8th grade that you've liked him!! (new experiences man!!)but if he says he likes you, definitly go for it and tell him you like him too. HOPE THIS HELPS.. x3

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hi my name is faggito and i was wondering what i should do about burrito...hahaha...

you should probably eat her.

haha love ya faggito

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in class i am fluent in 2 languages ... english and french.. i like to talk in both and prefer french .. what should i speak

well that depends. do the people in your class speak english or french?? if they all speak english then thats the language you should probably speak.. so that they can understand you and so they dont get annoyed! but if your in french class or something or most of the people in your class can speak french too, then i dont see the problem of speaking french!! hope i helped

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