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I'mm a cheerleader, that does not mean I`ma stuck up, preppy, snob. I play volleyball and love to go to the mall. Hollister && Abercrombie are my loves.I x33 being a dork going cracy bein outgoing I`mm sucha nerd :o) but you`ll have to get over that.
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Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape

When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?

easy 5's people!

Gossip Girl ( theres a series ) I haven't read them yet, I`m guessing ABC ?

TTYL= ABC

The Lost Boy and a Child Called it = CD, Its about a boy whose mother is the 3rd worst abuser in California. Its really sad, But an excellent book.

hope I helped :o)

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okay so the other night, my friend told me she likes me, and 2 nights later I asked her out. And she says "I would love too, but I have to bring my grades up and I have Cheer competitions almost every weekend in in January." I really like her and my other friend told me just to give her time. And i don't know if i should give her time or what to do?

Heyy,
I`m sorry to here this! She could just be shy. She could be scared of a relationship. She may not be allowed to date and are using these things as excuses so you won't have to know this. Or she might just not want to let you down, since she wants to concentrate on these things she might not be able to have much time to spend with you and doesn`t want you to have to be with a girl that you never see. Just try to hang out with her alot at school, If you truly like her you could wait until after January ;; you too could become good friends and in time .. who knows ? It could turn out to be something great! ♥

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13/f. Alot of my girl friends say that i look pretty and gorgeous and things like that. But i dont think guys find me attractive,...why?

It could be your friends are lying : some girls do this because they are trying to degrade themselves. Or they are even trying to make themselves sound like a better person by complementing you. Most likely they do think your pretty, only the truly mean girls would lie to you like this.

As for the guys, maybe they do and they just aren`t telling you. Maybe they don`t care for your personality. Love isn`t just about the looks.
If you want to get a guy I have one word for you : Flirt. :o) works every time.

Hope I Helped :) :) :)

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Does anyone know a website where I can make my font on myspace like bold, bigger, smaller, hearts, and different fonts?

hearts = ♥
bold = YOURTEXT
bigger letters = YOURTEXT ( you can replace the 2 to a different) number to make text even bigger or smaller

:) Hope I Helped.

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I just wanted to get this off my chest and I wanted to know if it seems as though I'm going through alot for my age...I'm only 13. Here goes.
I did drugs (cocaine, and pills), I was constantly getting in fights, I've been to court 11 times, arrested 3 times, longest was for 7 months, I've been taken away from my family for a little while because I needed "help", I had a boyfriend for three years,then we got into a fight because he was moving, as soon as he left my house after the arguement he got into a fight with these people, got hit in the back of the head and died before I could say sorry about the fight, I never told my parents, they still don't know about it, after that I started to get into cutting, then I tried to kill myself by doing the following : drown myself, hang myself, stab myself in the stomach, from which I now have a scar on my stomach, had to stay in the hospital for that for a couple of months, then got taken away from the family again, then after I got out I tried to shoot myself but accidently left it on that safety thingy and couldn't get the nerve to do it again, I tried to get an ex whom was the boyfriend at rhe time to shoot me and he almost did 'til his mom walked in, I got taken away from the family again after that and was gone for about a year, he got arrested, and then I got heavier into cutting to the point where I would cut everyday even without a reason. That's when I got into the drugs then I got expelled, got sent to rader, my family now does not mention me to friend's, they tell me to my face that I'm an embarrassment, they all tell eachother they love eachother in front of me but have not once said it to me. Then I became bulimic, then anorexic, then after I stopped I found out my mom was over dosing and was bulimic and still is to this day. My brother might die at any moment because he now has heart problems and he's supposed to take medicine to help him but he doesn't take it, my parents are trying to get me sent away to korea or tennessee so I'll be out of their lives but none of my relatives in either places want me with them, I have no clue what's going on in my life anymore, my family insult me constantly, my dad and brother both hit me and I have serious health problems ( I get headaches at a minimum of 4 times a day, I pass out at least once every other week, and i throw up at least twice a week and I have no idea why) and my parents won't take me to the doctor to find out why, they've told me they hate me, and I do not understand myself whatsoever, and my parents told me pretty soon they plan on kicing me out with out a place to go and I'll just have to find out how to take care of myslef, and are trying to get me sent to a "institute" for help. And I was forced into sex because the person threathened me and I don't know if that is considered rape. Am I going through too much for my age?

Sorry it was so long...

Yes, this is alot for only a thirteen year old. I suggest finding an adult, someone you can absolutley trust or even a friend and spill everything about you life to. ( A journal would be PERFECT, because it won`t tell anyone that shouldn`t hear whats going on with you, plus you`ll get your feelings out. ) Just remember, God loves you, even if your family members won`t admit they love you, they do. They are all just going through a hard time. I suggest seeing a counseler ( maybe at your school ? ) and talking to him/her. Tell her you want to turn your life around and your absolutley serious about it. Remeber: YOU HAVE 80+ YEARS LEFT OF YOUR LIFE, DONT END IT NOW. Stop the cutting, any drugs, or anything bad like that, trust me, using them won`t help you. Suicide = not the answer. I love you, even if I am just a friend over the internet. One life lost to suicide is one too many.


After you get help from you, trying gettin help for your mom. Once she`s seen how much you've imporoved, she`ll want to improve herself. You and her can work through this hard time together. As for your brother, let him know just how much YOU love him even if he doesn`t admit it back. You don`t want to have to feel guilty about never tellin him you love him. Make sure you tell everyone in your family your serious about starting over, you want to bring a new improvment to your life. Tell them how much you love them, and need them in this time of your life.

As for you boyfriend, He`s probably looking down on you right now. Just remember: You`ll see him again someday in Heaven, he could be lookin down on you and he knows exactly how sorry you are. There is nothing you can do to turn back time, you must move forward. Live your life to its best so when you get to Heaven you`ll have a great story to tell to your Boyfriend.

If you are a religious beliver: You can go to church. Everyone there will be more then happy to help you, especially God. Even if you don`t belive in him, He`s there. Trust me, He can get you through anything. Praying works. Church could become your second home, possible someone there may take you in until your family issues are fixed.

Best of luck. I love you. remember: you`ve got all you life ahead of you, don't end it know. There is help, there is hope.

PLEASE inbox me at ANY time if you need anymore help.

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Is it normal to completely lose your appetite when you have the flu? Food makes me feel sick right now.

Yes, it`s normal. Try ( or continue ) to drink lots of fluid. Also, try to have small portions of food ( soup applesauce etc. ) just to boost up your immune system. Hope you feel better =)

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Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__

I`m very sorry you feel this way. What you've said//done cannot be taken back, but maybe if he comes out of acoma you can talk to him, apologize, and maybe he`ll forgive you. ( If you believe in God ) You can pray for his safe recovery. You can let his parents know you are terrible sorry and ready to do anything for their forgivenence (sp?).
Just remember, don't let those losers get you down. If you want to make things right you are going to have to do it on your own. Best of luck, and lots of love. ♥

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