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.. and again i turn to you guys for help..
To start off, im 13 female.
i really need your help..
i dont live with either of my parents,i live with my grandparents, because my mom was a addicted to drugs and my dad was addicted to sex ( with other people besides my mom ) well they never got married, it was like a 1 night stand thing. and of course i myself was a mistake. < im over that now... any ways the judge guy said that me and my sister ( who is almost 16 ) are not allowed to live with her or be alone with her ( one time when i was two, my grandmaw was in the back yard playing with me and my sister and i was in the grass a little farther from them and my mom came , she was high, and she came through the gate and took me and i was gone for 2 1/2 months and then my mom went to jail i dont know what for though but then this lady brought me back ). that was like when i was little. any ways i always hang out with my mom now, and she has her life mostly staightened out but she still has her liscense suspended and isnt allowed to drive ( sometimes she still does ) well i have been places with her alot and she was talking on the phone with this guy she lives with and she was like walking away from me when she was talking to him and she was like i need some and i heard him say need some what and she was like you know what i am talking about and then she didnt kno i heard her and so she was through talking to him and she hung up.. well today i spent the night at her house and we went to the gas station at like 8 in the morning, ( she was driving ) and then she called this guy on the phone and her exact words were " i need four" and he was like alright come over and get them and so we went to his house but she made me stay in the car and she went inside and was gone for like 10 minutes... well i think shes into drugs again and i think she is cheating on her boy friend with other guys because when she got back she said " i had to talk to my other boyfriend " and it juss hurt me so bad knowing that she is doing all this.. well do you guys think shes into drugs again? im really worried.. should i juss wait and see where this all takes me or should i confront her, or go to my grandparents.. but i think they might not let me see her again if i do.. im soo lost! please help me.. i rate 5's
signed
- confused
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Aw, I'm really sorry. I think you should confront your grandparents about this. Your mom is probably still on drugs, and cheating on her boyfriend [etc.] Even though it hurts to believe it, your mom is a bad influence on you. Sorry!
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Hunny i am going to be straight forward with you and i know first hand b/c my mom left when i was 2yrs old. I am 27 now. She is on drugs. She is a drug addict and once you are classified as that it dont change. I am telling you this b/c my mom is one and so was my sons dad(i say was b/c he passed away 1 yr ago from drugs) They are harsh-and very addictive and i am going to telly ou this much..it may not be the drug of her choice but she will take wahtever she has to to keep her sane. The thing with drug addicts is say they are off drugs for ohhh 1yr,they are very weak and as soon as it apporaches they will do it;or even if something triggers them as little as stress they will find it and get it. Hunny uour mom needs help for herself and nomatter how much she wants to change its almost nearly next toimpossible if she dont do it for herself. I am sure she loves you but she is an addict. They know what iis best for them and they know they need to change but they dont know how to do it. I havent seen my mom for 10 yrs(actually i seen her about 2 yrs ago and i dont even think of her as my mom uust another person in and out of my life-and eventually i learned to deal witht he fact and i said she can have her drugs and i even tol dher that--and yah know what...she chose her drugs...) You should talk to your grandparents they love you and if they say you shouldnt see your mom you dont realize it now but it is for the better--your grandparents love you and want whats best for you..unfortunetly your mom is not good for you,and i knowit hurts i deal with it tothis day.) If you need anymore advice i am here for youjust hit me up. Hope i could help
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that is really sad. What you should do is tell your grandparents. If your mom is doing drugs wich i think she is by whata you say. anyways if you do nto tell your grandparents. On day your mom might decide to take alot of drugs then she decide to drive somwhere and gets intoa wreck. Or even worse you could be in the car to. What your mom is doing is not a good example for you.This is my advice:)
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That's so sad. Sometimes I think my life is horrible, but whenever people like you write stuff like this, it makes me sad. :/ Anyways, you need to stay away from your mom. It looks like she's getting into drugs, again and she's doing it in front of you, which is not setting a good example at all. You need to go to your grandparents and tell them what your mom has been doing, your own mother is putting you in a bad position, she could be like on drugs whenever she drives you around, and she's driving you around without a license, which is VERY bad. Tell your grandparents - right away.
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