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Ok, so I kinda like this guy, and he's one of my friends. We aren't that close, but I talk to him when he's around (I couldn't just walk up and start talking to him, but that might be because I'm a bit anti-social). He asked me for my phone number once, but I didn't give it to him becuase I had absolutely no idea why he wanted it; I was in denial that he might have liked me. When he asked that, I did like him then, but I was a little paraniod, and somehow we dropped the subject. I probably gave him the wrong impression. I feel really stupid, and now we don't talk as much as we used to. Is there any way to fix this? Or should I just move on? (Please don't tell me that I'm stupid for doing this, I already am well aware of that)(He's also been dating a few people, which doesn't make me jealous, but I thought I should include that.)
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You should start talking to him again like a good friend would do. That would get you more closer to him. After a while you should then tell him. If you still like him then. he will probably react better know because you guys are good friends. He might even like you. That is my advice:)
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This is what I would do in your situation.
Write your telephone number down on a piece of paper with a note saying:
Hey, call me. Don't be a stranger! :)
Then sign it.
Then leave it at that. This gives him the chance to call you like he wanted to. You can drop the letter in his coat pocket, back pocket of his jeans or if you go to school together, in his locker.
Dropping it in his jeans requires you getting close enough to grab his belt loop and put it in his pocket. This is a bold move and may to bold for you being anti-social and everything. BUT it will get his attention.
The bottom line is that he get your phone number. Put it in his hand if you have to. This does not require any conversation either. Just pass by him and slip it in his hand and keep walking. Let him make the next move.
Sorry it isn't more, but I hope it helps.
Stay Honest. GOOD LUCK
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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You should start talking to him more often. Even if you are anti-social, just try to work past that and just walk up to him some time and talk to him. You not doing this may be sending him the message that you don't like him that much. Also, if ya'll get to talking enough, ask him for his phone number so ya'll can chat outside of school sometime and get together.
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i think you should talk to him about it.. maybe just say "hey its been a while... we should talk more" or maybe something like that. try to flirt with him (if you wanna talk and go out with him) i think if you like him, you should give it a try, girls usualy think the guy should ask them, but thats nit awlays how it works... the girl can ask the guy too, i dont see anything wrong with that. so maybe you shoudl talk to him and tell him how you are feeling... try to get as close to him as possible..
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