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Location: Wisconsin
Age: 19
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My best friend is a guy, (ryan). Latley he`s been waiting for me outside of my homeroom class and walking me to 1st period. Then we walk together to 2nd. I catch him looking at me alot and were always together in class. About a month ago he started hugging me goodbye, and latley the hugs are getting more romantic. He talks to me differently, calls me, and always wants to hang out. He has been complementing me on my outfit even when I`m wearing a t-shirt and boy`s bball shorts and his hoodie he loaned me. He says I look beautiful when I just wake up and my hairs a complete mess and I have no make up on. So, as you can see I really think he likes me more then a friend now, I`ve liked him before like this, but for some reason now, I`m enjoying all this attention and flirting he`s givin me, but I just can`t picture myself with him. What do I do ? I don't want to go out with him, we brake up, then lose our 5 years of being BFFs!
sorry for it being so long, i`ll appreciate any help.
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i know what you may be thinking, but if he has been your bff for that long, its hard not for him to start liking you that way, and if you choose to become boyfriend and girlfriend together fine, and if your break up thats ok too, you can still be friends if you break up, one of my best friends is my EX-girlfriend. see if you've been friends that long, your friendship should be able to stand the the test of the break up (wanted to use the test of time but whatever) but i hope this helped :-)
-The Man In The Black Cape
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hi. i read another question on here about heaven and for the Christians out there..what does it take to be in heaven? i go to church, i try to be nice to people, and i pray daily but how do i know if im doing enough? =( (link)
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well if you want you can always check out the book The Inferno, or you can just go to this websitehttp://www.4degreez.com/misc/dante-inferno-test.mv
Dante's Inferno Test - Impurity, Sin, and Damnation
just be honest when taking the test, and you should be fine
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To anyone, but especially to other Wiccans:
Hey,
I'm a Wiccan, and I think it's a beautiful religion and I really love it, but lately I'm finding I just don't have the time. I've read so many things that just say 'MAKE the time!' but that is so impractical when you are fifteen and in the middle of 21 GCSEs and an A Level (I kid you not...if you are English you will appreciate how hard that is lol)! I really desperately want to be a better Wiccan, to learn more about my religion, to be closer to the God and Goddess and nature, but I have no idea how. I walk to school and so I often try and think about and appreciate the nature...but I'm usually half asleep! Does anyone have any ideas?
I know that spellcraft isn't the only element of Wicca, and it is by no means the most important, so please don't suggest that I just 'do some spells'...for one I don't have the time and for another, my faith in this religion isn't quite so superficial that I can make myself believe I am being a better Wiccan by waving an athame through some incense smoke a few times a week. As Scott Cunningham once wrote in an excellent article, the ritual doesn't mean a thing if you don't mean it mentally. True Wiccanism relies on belief, not ritual. (link)
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i am a fellow Wiccan, and basicly in the same boat as you, exept my time is eaten up by school and a job. but what i have done to increase my "time" with god, goddess, and diety is just commune with nature. Sorry i have combined buddhist and wiccanism, but thats beside the point, if you walk to school in the morning meditate before your walk. just go outside, sit down clear your mind of all thought let your mind fill with the sounds of nature and welcome god,goddess, and diety in. anyway thats how i feel most at home with them. oh and even if you dont think your putting enough time twards them, even when you think about them they are their. they are always there no matter what.
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hahah i smoke bout 2 bags of weed a day should i stop?? (link)
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yes... yes you should. I actually stopped about 6 months ago and everything is going right in my life again. I have my entire future planed out, i did better in school and your friends will proud of you. and if they dont like the fact that you stopped, they aren't really your friends.
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i have always been a dancer, and all of my friends were dancers too. but then middle school came and me and my friends did dance and band. i was the only one of my friends who kept doing band because i really enjoyed being in drumline, and now being in high school all my old friends are on the dance team, and i have tons of new friends from drumline. i love hanging out with my old friends but it seems we dont have much in common anymore. i always come home from drumline all happy, or when im hanging out with my drumline friends im always having fun and not worrying about drama or any other crap like that, but then i go back to my other friends and theres all this drama and they talk about stuff that they do and will do right in front of me, even though they dont plan on inviting me. i just get upset and depressed around them. the thing is that weve been friends since elementary school and i cant just dump them, and they get all upset when i dont hang out with them. and im really starting to get sick of it all. please help me! what should i do!? (link)
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... I actually just dealt with this situation in my life. what I did was just totally broke all ties to that group of friends, but they treated me horrably and were talking about me behind my back. so i sugest that you just start haning out with you band friends more and more while still keeping in contact with the dance group, just keep in touch with your best friend in the dance group and thats about it. but ya just keep in contact with your best friend in the dance group and see if she sould want to do stuff with the band friends of yours.
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can anyone give me some tips on how to make my room really funky oh and I can't buy anything what so ever
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well if your a good artist you could always do a self portrat, umm... one of my friends in into mythical things so she has a mural of that type of stuff, just cover your wall in what u like and feel free to be sparatic. oh and having cool quotes on your wall is an awesome idea
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hey i just really want a guy. im attractive and pretty popular but i cant get a guy! im in 7th grade.. ive asked out a couple of guys in 8th and they automatically say no because i think they think its a joke. one time i gave a guy a note saying it wasnt a joke and he never wrote back.. i guess he wasnt interested but idk what to do! idk how to apporach a guy that i dont know, and want to go out. i've had boyfriends before and all but its been real hard lately. could you help me please? i rate 5 on anything that answers. ~thanks~ (link)
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you should really go after a guy you already know but if you want to go after a random guy just start hanging around other guys see what there into and go from there. heres a quote i have found usefull (you dont find love, love finds you)
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