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Guy talk
hey I'm nearly fifteen, attend a really preppy all girls highschool in dc, and recently ive noticed i just cant talk to guys. like im not afraid of them or nervous around them, i just cant carry on a convo because like i barely know them and we have nothing in common to talk about. ahhh! and it sucks cuz theres this one guy i like but whenever I'm with him its incredibly awkward because we don't talk! help?
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hey...what i always do is i just confront the guy and say hey what`s up. and ask him how his day`s been, the conversation should carry out from there!! good luck. bye [♥]Lej
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Make in non awkward but asking him what he likes to do or ask him about his day... then when u guys start to hang more then ask him to a movie and then slowly get to know him
Ashley Marie*
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mabye you should hang with him more and then find out wat he likes to talk about
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one thing that always works for me is to ask a question and he will probably answer keep saying stuff about that topic or just keep asking questions and while you do this say wow im really random or just keep talking...this is really preppy but it works and you didnt say if you are preppy or not so i hope i helped
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I think everyone goes through a phase like that. Just don't think about it much, don't try to plan a conversation just let things flow. If there's a guy you like that you can't seem to relate to at all it might not be the best relationship to pursue.
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♥ Just be yourself
♥ Try not to act weird around him
♥ Smile and make eye contact
♥ Trust me, you will think of something to talk about
I hope i helped a little...
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When I first started dating guys and hanging around them I was really nervous too. The way I became less nervous is to just hang-out with them. Even if you don't like the guys you hang-out with it will get you more and more used to them. To be honest it isn't as hard as you think it is. Once you hang-out with guys it's almost like hanging-out with you'r girlfriends. Hope I was helpful :) *Elizabeth*
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