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Age: 14
Member Since: November 19, 2005
Answers: 35
Last Update: November 27, 2005
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Hey i have this friend and i now i like him as more then a friend and i wanna noe how i can tell if he likes me back or not...he has been putting up with my friends pranking calling his HOME fone and then whenever they start to annoy him he answers all of the answer nicely...
i really need your help with this!!!
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Well, I'm not good at knowing that stuff :(. What does the prank calling have to do? Well w/e. You should have a distant friend ask him if anyone likes you, and if he likes anyone. If the answer is yes to both, then I guess he might. Keep hanging out w/ him and see what happens.


okay this is going to sound weird and funny okay so i like this guy a lot and there is this other guy which i dont like but i think he likes me or something and like for the past 2 weeks i dream about that 2nd guy like every night does that mean i like him because im pretty sure i like the other guy! im so confused (link)
No, it doesn't mean you like that second guy. You probably just keep wondering whether or not he likes you, and those thoughts end up in your dreams. Trust me, it's fine.


I got some hatemail in my inbox today. What would you say to the jerk who sent it if it was sent to you? The jerk said I was gay and ugly. Can you help me?
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Delete it and block the jerk's address.


hey I just pierced my labia myself and what do I need to do to keep it clean and I want my bellybutton pierced but my mom said no and dont even try for ways to get her to say yes because its not going to happen...should i do tht myself to could my brother sign the paper to get my belly done? 15/f thnx (link)
No, he can't... and I don't think he should. I mean, I know EXACTLY how it feels to not get what you want and I hate it when I can't, but if you hide piercings, they end up getting infected and you'll need to go to a doctor but you won't want to tell your parents b/c you don't want them to find out, and you could get into serious trouble. So, better to wait three years til you're 18 (:-\) instead of getting infections and trying to hide it and all that. Hope I helped.


hey its me u no who i am just saying hi!! hee hee
pok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
rawrrr michali this is 4 advice.... lol.


Hey. I really like this boy. He thinks of me as just a freind. IM always trying to be so nice to him and hes always nice to me back. My freind thought he liked her so i asked him and he gave a negitive answer. So I bet he doeswn't like me at all. Hes really cute but I dont really think i really like him i think i just see him as a friend. How can i tell?

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I hope you don't mind if I talk about myself for just a few seconds (:-[), but, well, I have been going through something w/ my crush a lil like that. I used 2 like him, like OH MY GAWD like him, but I made the stupidest moves and realized that he wasn't into me. But my friends are NOT helping, b/c they keep saying how nice he is and how I really "picked out" a good guy. And I thought I didn't like him anymore, but whenever I see him, I still get that fluttery feeling, and I would get dizzy and my heart would beat really fast, and I always either wanted to talk to him or run away (looong story). So I think that you will know if you just think of him as a friend if there is no weird feelings or anything going on when you're around him, and you'll know that you really do like him if you have that weird feeling. I hate this whole thing that your feelings take over you lol, but yeah that's basically the story. :). Hope I helped! ♥


I am just 13 and I have this urge to smoke. I have never smoked before and I know it is bad for you. I have never did any kind of drugss including weed or coke. My mom would kill me if I did smoke. So I ask my sister how old she was when she started smoking and she said about 13 or 14. And that made it even worse for me! Even people at school smoke! What can I do? I have even thought of stealing them from my mom! I'm a good kid! HELP! (link)
STAY AWAY FROM SMOKES. Also, remind your family, friends, and classmates to stay away from them b/c if you do smoke, you'll wake up every morning not knowing whether you're going to die or not. Try putting up flyers around your school reminding everyone not too. If that's too embarrassing, I know this next suggestion will sound weird, but create an anonymous account and send e-mails to everyone you know in school saying to stay away from it, and that way you won't be so pressured. What my mom did as a kid when she saw my grandfather's cigarettes was flush them down the toilet or throw them away or something, so he couldn't smoke anymore.


hi everyone its me kate! im back! and i need your help! so nikk (u should rm him if you read my last question) is telling me how he feels everyday and its wonderful but a lost love is coming back into my life. chris. he was my first true love and then he and i split up and i told him i never wanted to talk to him again and just recently i realized how i told him everything and ever since i stopped talking to him i became depressed so i told him i wanted to be friends again but now im having feelings for him again. and he keeps telling me how much he missed my beautiful voice and all that jazz. i dont know what to do because all ive ever wanted is him and now im getting him back but i dont want to break nikks heart. what should i do? someone help me im starving for answers!
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Wow... that's one tough sitch. If you love both of them, try to keep going w/ Nikk and see what happens. Try and see which guy would be best for you.


my parents ground me for the stupidest reasons. And im not a immature teenager who disagrees with everything because i KNOW when i mess up and I pay for it and I KNOW its fair. But I seriously cant take this. What can I say to them to make these groundings stop. I am a good kid with good grades and i never get into trouble, yet i get grounded more then anyone i know. (link)
OMG me too. What I did was e-mail my mom and said nicely what I thought about my unfair punishments. Also my mom realized that she was punishing me b/c of my bad memory and that it wasn't my fault so she shouldn't have been punishing me in the first place, and now I am getting tested for learning differences. But deep down inside, we all wish our parents could let us do the stuff they get overprotective about. They like to overabuse their power sometimes, but don't let it stop you. If when they punish you you say, "Isn't that a little harsh?", like nicely, they might stop and think. Good luck to you on it. :-)


i have a feeling that my husband is still fooling around with other girls what should i do to know and find it and to stop him (link)
I think that being w/ any guy that is cheating on you and is low enough to try and ask for forgiveness is not worth going for. Didn't Sienna Miller have this exact same problem recently? Well I remember thinking to myself that she should break up w/ Jude Law. Which is what I think you should do: divorce. I know that it is very weird for you to do this, but if your husband is cheating on you, it's the way to go.


i dont really have any close friends.. i mean i do like 1 or 2 but i dont have any best friends either.. its starting to bother me because alot of other people have close and best friends.. what can i do so i can make my friends and i to be closer friends? i really need help ..easy 5 unless your mean
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Yeah, I have that same situation. But you know what? I am really good friends with this girl, and we are basically realizing that we're best friends and might become them any time now. So just think about who you would definitely hang out w/ the most, and try hanging a little more often. Maybe you will become BFF's w/ them. :)


well i am 13/f and i like 2 boys. ones joey and i've known him for a little while but not really my friend but something about hims really sexy if you know what i mean. and the other guys casey and me and him have been like best friends since 7th grade, we've been REALLY good friends but we've been like "involved" just never went out. they both like me but who should i get more interested in (easy 5's) please help (link)
Well, if you and Casey have been really good friends and have been "involved", I think it's better for you to go w/ him. It's always better to go for the good friend than the mysterious stranger; that way you know what you're going for.


Well I'm a 16 year old girl.

Ok. To be blunt, ever since I was about 6 I have been praying that my parents or someone would abuse me or give me a reason to run away and never come back. I am trying to end this cycle but nothing has helped so far. I guess ever since I was little I never felt good enough for someone to love me. When I was younger I was always causing trouble in order for them to get sick of me and tell me what I already believed was true. Is there something I can do to end this cycle? (link)
Wow...

I think you should accept it: you're loved. Don't try to make someone not love you. :) If people like you, why try to run away from it?


Ok so lets see if you can follow this when you plug in your ipod in the computer you know how its soopposed to show up on itunes so you can put new songs in it or just listen to it... well i pluged in my ipod and it doesnt show up on my itunes anymore at first at first i thought it was my itunes so i deleted and reinstalled it and it still didnt work...it was working yesterday cause i was listening to it and adding more songs to it but now i cant firgure out where the ipod button went... is there an option that i can change to make it show where it did in the beging when u have it plugged in causei cant firgure it out... please help...
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This happened to me. I think it is because your USB cables are just faulty. That was my situation. Find a USB cable that will work when you plug it in. Or take it in for servicing if that doesn't work. Try looking at the support website on www.apple.com also.


Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape

When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?

easy 5's people! (link)
Okay... (b) "How My Private, Personal Journal Became A Bestseller" by Julia DeVillers. It's kind of about peer pressure, if that's what you mean. Like looking like models and stuff. It's really good anyways.
(a) & (c) "Flipped" by Wendelin van Draanen. Really good read. About two people whose views of each other keep changing over a course of seven years... one of my favorite books.


I need some good websites to find myspace layouts!!!! mines boring right now.. thanks for the help

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I only had a MySpace for a week lol, but I know that there is Thomas' Myspace Editor, which you could search for on Google. Or just search for Myspace editors on Google. Editors, not layouts, otherwise you won't get anything.


Hey, does anyone know any good websites where i can get short story summaries, i tried using sparknotes.com but its confusing me.. so if you know any let me know! thanks! (link)
Well there's Spark Notes and there's Cliffs Notes... if you don't understand them, then I don't know what to tell you. I think those are pretty darn clear. :-\


14/f........one of my new friends named kate switches the guys that she likes pretty often. the thing about her is that she likes a guy until she knows that they like her..kinda weird i kno but anyways.....she started liking this one guy named phil...later he liked her and she was over him. then she liked some guy named john...she got over him b/c of a new guy..miles...at this point she still likes miles but here's the thing...i like phil..i mean i dont really know him but i kinda like him. i kno that if i start talking to him and stuff that kate will SERCRETLY be a little defensive...i'm just worried that if i make a move she'll find out and get mad at me either for making a move, not telling her, or w/e..anybody have any ideas about this situation??
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Wow... this is my third question about boys and friends. See, if she was over Phil, it wouldn't really matter. Also, tell her you like Phil. I mean, she did at one point. She could relate. I think that if you tell her, then she will be more aware and she won't get mad.


ok.. heres the thing.. about a year ago.. i met this guy.. and we liked each other so we went out a couple of months but we didnt get to be "boyfriend&girlfriend" by the third month things didnt work out.. so we stopped dating.. and i felt hurt because he just stop calling.. so i didnt want to talk to him again.. so i moved on.. after that.. my best friend that during that year was in another country in her exchange student year.. she knew everything.. i mean i told her, by mail, or by phone (because of the fact that she was too many miles away), soooo.. she wasnt here.. but she knew anyway because I told her.. after that.. in august she came back and they met and they got along very well.. so now they are dating.. but like boyfriend and girlfriend!!!.. i just couldnt believe it.. i got so mad.. i dont talk to her anymore.. because i felt very betrayed.. its like.. according to me.. that;s like a "friends rule" it doesnt matter if u didnt get to be his girlfriend, right? but i dunno what to do.. because like she is my best friend in the whole world.. we've known each other for a long long time.. we've been together through very hard times.. and i really dont want to lose her.. but it really hurt what she didnt.. i think that she didnt care about our friendship enough to stop dating himm.. i dont know what to dooo! please heeeeelp.. should i forgive her? or what should i do?? (link)
Well, think about it from her point of view. She probably met him and they really liked each other, but she didn't want to hurt you, but she really wanted to be w/ a guy she liked. You shouldn't get too worked up about it, b/c if you didn't really get too far w/ this guy and she did, she is obviously the right person for him. I got a question about someone liking their BFF's bf, and he liked her back, and they really wanted to go out, but they both didn't want to hurt the BFF. I think that your situation is kind of like hers, and your BFF and guy friend really do care about you, but it's just a weird situation for them to face b/c you don't like it.


Has anyone here read the Goblet of Fire? I'm about to go see it. I haven't read the book for 2 years, and I need to be refreshed on some things. Why was Ludo Bagman important? Why was Barty Crouch important? Why was Crouch taking PolyJuice Potion in order to look like Moody? And lastly, why were the Death Eaters burning down the place near the beginning of the book?

Thanks

Trinity (link)
Okay, so Ludo Bagman was a referee at the Quidditch match and at the games, and he is a retired Quidditch player. He's not that important, just a suspect in the beginning. Barty Crouch is important because his son was a death eater drinking Polyjuice Potion in order to look like Moddy so he could disguise as a teacher and kill Harry Potter. The Death Eaters were burning down the place (the Quidditch World Cup) at the beginning of the book because that is what Death Eaters do, destory everything. And look to see if they can kill Harry Potter in the meantime. K? :-D




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