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Question Posted Tuesday November 22 2005, 8:03 pm

I got some hatemail in my inbox today. What would you say to the jerk who sent it if it was sent to you? The jerk said I was gay and ugly. Can you help me?


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hco_babe answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 10:18 pm:
just say " well thank you!!" and pretend like you don't care. it will only make them more mad. = )

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ImAHustla answered Saturday November 26 2005, 2:46 am:
Get that bitch banned!

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supfoo answered Saturday November 26 2005, 2:22 am:
ppff! Babe, dont let it get to you. just ignore them or put them on your block-list. if you show bad feelings towards them then they'll know they are "winning" so be like thanks, yo :]

or whatever!
lolz, hope i helped!
♥V

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xXMrsMcCartneyXx answered Thursday November 24 2005, 5:40 pm:
Delete it and block the jerk's address.

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Xfoxcutie09X answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 11:02 pm:
well im not gonna cuse because last time i did that i got my account suspended but just tell them to leave you alone and if they have a problem with you then they need to say it to your face and not through the mail. just be as mean as possible.

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ncblondie answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 12:57 pm:
First, I wouldn't respond to it. The person is just trying to get a reaction out of you. By ignoring them, you're taking away their fun.


If it was here on Advicenators, file an abuse report. Just fill out the form and one of the moderators will take care of it.
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If it's on another email site, I would suggest filing an abuse report with the provider. Providers take abuse reports and hatemail very seriously.

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xOViLLYxO answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 12:13 pm:
just ignore it people always try to do stuff to make you feel bad and mad and all that junk dont even waste your time on him just reject it cus he prob doesnt even have room to talk ♥

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xOHunni-2-HelpOx answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 7:03 am:
hey hunni

was the comment based on some advice you gave? if yes...
i'd just say if your not happy with my advice just say so but is there any reason to bring what you think of my looks in to it? this is an advice site not a picture sharing or bitching site.

if no....
ignore it. people like that are not worth your time. They obviously have nothing better to do than to critisise you.

or you could...
send back a sarcastic comment to them

But most of the time when people like that leave a message about looks ETC they are out to hurt your feelings or get you to write back to them.

hope this helped if you want more hel feel free to email me on kirstyxluvsxsum1@hotmail.co.uk

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 1:18 am:
well if you were truly ugly sum1 wouldnt have taken the time to point out the obvious... meaning that they are probably jealous of you... and get pleasure out of putting others done... if i were you i wud just ignore it...

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 11:54 pm:
Hmmm ignore it.. Thats very childish so don`t be mad about it yea it might of hurt your feelings but responding is something they want you to do.. ♥ Dez

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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 11:04 pm:
First, crack a sarcastic, insulting joke in response. Just brush it off. Don't give this asshole the pleasure of thinking that you're angry and/or upset. Then report them. On the sidebar of the homepage, it says "Report Abuse" under Miscellaneous. Write the URL of the question and tell them that you want to get *sender of hatemail* banned.

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malibubarbiie111 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 10:48 pm:
just get them banned && don`t reply. when you don`t let it get to you. its better than going off on them. its show you are mature && you aren`t effected by stupid words [[that are not true]]

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rockergurl36 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 10:43 pm:
just ignore it. the guy will get frusterated when you dont respond and he sees that you're not affected by his words.

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funkymunky817 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 10:01 pm:
wat i always do when people call me things like that is just say "dang(or damn) right, I'm..." and i move on with my life. I take it as if its no big deal even if it is.

~hope i helped
~plez rate

***funkymunky***

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Karen answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 9:28 pm:
You wouldn't say anything. File an abuse report with the link(s) provided and either a L2 or L3 moderator will take care of this. The person will be banned for harassing you. This is not tolerated on here.

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