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Shattered Heart
hi everyone its me kate! im back! and i need your help! so nikk (u should rm him if you read my last question) is telling me how he feels everyday and its wonderful but a lost love is coming back into my life. chris. he was my first true love and then he and i split up and i told him i never wanted to talk to him again and just recently i realized how i told him everything and ever since i stopped talking to him i became depressed so i told him i wanted to be friends again but now im having feelings for him again. and he keeps telling me how much he missed my beautiful voice and all that jazz. i dont know what to do because all ive ever wanted is him and now im getting him back but i dont want to break nikks heart. what should i do? someone help me im starving for answers!
much love<3kate
PS.anyone who tries will get a 4 or a 5! thanks
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Wow... that's one tough sitch. If you love both of them, try to keep going w/ Nikk and see what happens. Try and see which guy would be best for you.
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ok, this is a tough one, I can't lie, so i'll have to say pick one or the other, oddly enough i'm in the exact same situation right now,I would have to say, tell the guy that you don't pick, that you still like him and always will but that right now is not a good time for your realtionship with him, you should see if he loves you enough to wait, i would pick whoever you have a stronger bond with , or who you see more, long distance makes things harder, sry i can't help more, i really hope this helps you!! good luck!! hope everything works out ok
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I didn't read your question you asked previously, but I still see where this is going, and I can totally relate. The solution is simple, but the process is not. I'm not going to lie to you, it's going to hurt nikk. You can't change that, but you can change how much it hurts him. The longer you try to pretend you no longer have feelings for Chris and hang with nikk, the harder it will be in the end for both you can nikk. I suggest telling nikk asap (as long as your sure you still like chris) and just say hey, I can't change the way I feel and I just am not feeling it anymore. I understand it's my fault, and I'm sorry, but we can still be friends because I like you. He's not going to be happy, but if you waste time denying yourself chris and you really like him, you're going to want him and want him till you have him, so you might as well get him soon. The only other solution would be to tell Chirs you have a bf and separate yourself from him. You have to decide Chris or Nikk, and then go from there by either letting nikk loose, or pulling him close and letting chris loose. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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