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14/f........one of my new friends named kate switches the guys that she likes pretty often. the thing about her is that she likes a guy until she knows that they like her..kinda weird i kno but anyways.....she started liking this one guy named phil...later he liked her and she was over him. then she liked some guy named john...she got over him b/c of a new guy..miles...at this point she still likes miles but here's the thing...i like phil..i mean i dont really know him but i kinda like him. i kno that if i start talking to him and stuff that kate will SERCRETLY be a little defensive...i'm just worried that if i make a move she'll find out and get mad at me either for making a move, not telling her, or w/e..anybody have any ideas about this situation??
<3 ELLE
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Wow... this is my third question about boys and friends. See, if she was over Phil, it wouldn't really matter. Also, tell her you like Phil. I mean, she did at one point. She could relate. I think that if you tell her, then she will be more aware and she won't get mad.
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i think you shold go for it i don't see a reason not to if shes keeps switching i think its okay for you to date him even if she does get mad its her fault she left him so that makes him intirley yours.
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Whoa, if you're going to avoid every guy your friend has ever liked, there's going to be nobody left! She's likes everybody! What you should do is flirt with Phil a little first. Make it so that other people would kind of see that you're somewhat interested. Then talk to your friend about it before it gets serious. Tell her that you know that she liked Phil before and you don't want to hurt her feelings, but you really like him are going to try hooking up with him. Be firm and tell her how it is, but say it in a nice way and be sensitive and understanding. It's not like she actually went out with Phil, if that were the case it would be a little different. She didn't make her move and she's liked a few guys since, so there's no reason for you not to go for it. Tell her that you're worried that she'll go after him now since she knows that you like him. Tell her everything. If she's not understanding and doesn't leave Phil to you after that, then she's a pretty awful friend. I hope everything works out for you and good luck!
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Just talk to you frined about it. Tell her that you like him and want to know if she wouldnt mind if you went out with him. She ha her change to have him and she didnt want him so he is free for anyone to take.
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Elle,
Just let her know that you kind of like him. Then ask her if she doesn't mind if you go out with him. If she's over him she shouldn't mind.
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Elle, if she is really your friend she will understand. Its hard to control who you like you just like them...been there. Don't be mean when you tell her just be shy and say well I think I kind of like Phil, but I don't wanna go out with him if it make u feel bad. See what she says. If she says no then seriously think about why you were friends with her. No guy is worth breaking a friendship up though. She will probably say i dont care if you go out with him thats what my friend said to me! dont worry:)
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