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complain
i complain alot.. is there any way were i can stop complaining because ppl say that i complain alot
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Haha. Well try thinking positive. Dont always notice all the bad things first, or not at all. It will take some time to get used to. But before you know it you will not be a complainer! Talk about a lot of good things in your life, everyone can do that.
Hope I helped
♥ Dani
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whenever you think about something not good that happend to you... just remind yourself to ask how the other persons doing and if anythings new in theyre life. that way they will think you care about them and not only urself
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You could stop complaining all the time.
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When you are about to complain, think of how much worse the circumstances that you are in could be.
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Just think twice before you're going to let negativity fill you up. What I usually do when negativity pours in to me is brush it aside, distract yourself, think of something different. Make fun of it in your head if you have to...make a cheery,light situation out of it. It's really an issue dealing with self control. Think before you speak and if you must whine, reason things in your head. Try and revise them so it doesn't come out as a complaint, but possibly a polite comment expressing your slight distress. I could go on forever explaining what to do, but I think you get the picture, not only that but this is a deal between you and your self-control.
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You need to concsiously think about it. A personal example from me is that I tend to jump to conclusions. So when I see something that I might not be okay with, I just get angry and jump to conclusions. Try to slow down and concsiously think "I've already said that" or "I don't NEED to say that".. by thinking about it for a couple seconds, you might stop complaining as much. (=
♥ Melissa
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So now you're complaining about complaining. Gold. You also repeat yourself a lot.
Maybe the best way not to complain is to just be quiet once in a while.
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