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How much do you guys think look really matter? i think I have to be attracted to the person I'm dating so it's always been about 40% for me. BUT, sometimes if the person isn't the hottest but has a killer personality, it kind of pushes their hottness up, you know? So what do you guys think? (link)
well i have a guy i like right? i must admit, he is not the hottest. he is cute and very adorable, but not incredibly hott like the other guys i am interested in. the reason i like him, is for his HEART. some of my friends even tell me "eww he is UGLY why do youu like that kid?" he is THE SWEETEST and THE NICEST/MOST POLITE boy EVER. that makes him, in my eyes, THE MOST ATTRACTIVE/THE HOTTEST BOY IN THE WORLD. what i am saying is, the inside really DOES make youu beautiful. everyone says it, but i mean it. it is true.


okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people (link)
aww. i am sorry to tell youu, but this seems like a girl who is just hanging around youu to bring youu down. maybe she feels insecure about herself or she has problems at home/with friends. seems like she might be one of those "if i go down, youu come down with me" kind of people. it would NOT be smart to sit and tolerate that, because she really CAN bring youu down. this really is not fair, but it is true. hun, i hope everything works out and that youu find some really good friends. maybe if youu don`t talk to her for a while, she will realize what she is doing. if she doesn`t, i don`t think youu will have a hard time getting over youur lost friendship.


What are some great ways to exercise your arms, thighs, and abs? (stomach) (link)
i do this crapp all the time;;
-arms- DUMBBELLS
-thighs- WEIGHTED MACHINES (try a health club)
-abs- crunches *there are many CHEAP little machines like 6 second abs and ab lounge (well ab lounge is 100 dollars w/e)

for further fitness help on excercises, stop by a health club (or even dare to ask youur gym teacher) for better ways that won`t be so expensive as top of the line equipment.


do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious (link)
OMG YOUU SHOULD NOT CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK!!!!!!!! if youu like orchestra eff the people who call youu a nerd. youu enjoy it. don`t let people interfere with what youu like to do, mayeb even lovee. ok darling?


Kaye so im 5'3 and i weigh 93 pounds and in 8th grade.
In opinions Do you think average or what?
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you must be really skinny.luckyy


Ok there is this dance on the 10 and I want to ask my Ex Boyfriend if he wanted to go with me. He has a MAJOR thing for me. Cause I asked a question on here and everyone said he did when I explaned it to them. So Whats A Good way to ask him and what do I do if he turns me down??? THANK YOU! (link)
A good way to ask is THE PHONE. It isn't as confrontational as asking him in the flesh and this helps you BOTH be more comfortable. If he turns you down, shrug it off your shoulders and find someone else. It's not to big of a deal, though it could hurt a little. I hope I am some-what helpful =]


okay so my boyfriend && i have been going out for 9 months now... he's a great boyfriend .. he has his days but i guess my dad doesnt think he respects me *thats just my dad trying to be protective* but anyways he wants me to give him head.. ive told him that im not ready bc i am only 14 but like he keeps on trying to get me to do it- i know that if he respects me he will understand but a part of me wants to && feels its the right time... number 1 i dont know how.. && number 2 i dont know if i should. am i too young and what would you do.. no smart ass comments either please keep them to yourself but i rate high (link)
If he is forcing you to do anything, this guy is definetly someone you need to get away from. Believe it or not, your dad is right. If he DID respect you, he wouldn't put you in that awkward of a position. Fourteen is VERY YOUNG and if you're not ready, it shouldn't matter. DO it when you're ready and you'll be very glad.


okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!! (link)
Sometimes, friends grow apart. Seems like your friend isn't exactly the greatest thing for you anyways. Just try to make new friends. If she only hangs around you when she has no one else, she is using you. If she is using you, she isn't worth your time anyways. There are millions more people that could be a better friend and I am sure you will meet some. =]goodluckk


ok sorry its long but... i have a lot of problems and i dont know whats wrong with me. there are just so many things...here are just a few:
1-i cut myself...like really deep to the point where i pass out and wake up with blood all over

2-i pull the ends of my hair on urdge

3-i feel tension and stress about everything bad

4-i over analyze EVERYTHING makeing it scary and bad

5-i think about suicide all the time

6-my mood can change in an instant-one minute ill be all happy and something will happen or someone will say something and ill go all depressed

7-i burn myself on occasion

8-i find it really hard to express my feelings and what imthinking b/c ik that noone will understand...they will try but they just dont get what im going through unless they r goin through it too

9-i am always tired all the time b/c i dont sleep much...i havent in like a week

10-i have lost a lot of weight b/c i refuse to eat and when some one makes me eat i throw it back up

11-at times i will find my self sitting in my room and all of a sudden i will just like start crying and i will cry for hours

12-for the past year i have been trying so hard to make it sound like i am happy and im so good to the point where my parents think that i am a "happy delightful young lady who is fun to be around"



you see? there are so many things wrong with me and like i have tried sooo many different ways to cope with the stress in my life but like nothing that i have tried works! its just realy hard and idk what to do.


ill rate high for good answers...nothing cocky plz


♥ rrenef ♥ (link)
I know it is really hard to make friends, so I am not going to just recommend that. Try to take up poetry. It is a PERFECT way to pour out your feelings. If this doesn't work, try and talk to someone. Yes, everyone says that, but it really does help. It is one of the HARDEST things to do, but once you do, you'll be glad.


Well there are these girls(my friends) who have major crushes on my best buds, and all they do is just pester them and just like hang out at their lockers. and so now like i can't ever like talk to them b/c all they do is just blow me off so they can talk to the guys or the guys are just too busy to care. wht do i doo!!!

~obssesed friends and in the middle~
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My suggestion is to call up your friends. I know it's not the easiest thing to do, but talk to them. If they argue or say something to offend you, they really aren't true friends. Try explaining to them that you would like to talk to them ALONE more and not just be around guys. Probably the reason for blowing you off is that girls act different around guys and do whatever it takes to date them if they like them. Pretty vicious but yes, it's true.


hey ok...well i am a person who likes to run, but now that its getting into fall weather, i get kinda lazy and i dont ever want to go out. its a weird thing b/c i like running and if i do get myself out there i enjoy it, but i dont do it much anymore b/c i'm like that:P what can i do to make myself get up and go run everday-something i love (link)
A good idea for you, would be to join a gym. You could get easy excerise more often. Take along a close friend or family member to keep it entertaining. Plan ahead and have a friend or family member call you up to get you off the couch. An easy fix is just to have someone to help you.




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