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okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!!
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ok, i went throught the same exact thing and i still am! my best friend ditched me for the "in crowd" and i was just there if she was alone... so i learned to stop our friendship by not hangingout and stuff, but now its like were not even friends... i no its hard but just say hey, and walk on by her...
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You should talk to her and ask her what's up? You should also find sum other ppl to hang with, ones that won't ditch yu, but dont sump your friend
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well then shes not really a good friend is she if a friend at all ... be nice to her when u see her but dont let her use you when she has no one else to hang with ...even when shes being mean to try to keep ur cool i think that will prove that you a "bigger" person you kno
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If she doesn't hang out with you unless she doesn't have anyone else to play with then she isn't your friend.
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well,i've been in that situation before.my friend seems to do that alot.just start hangin out with other people therefore when that person that she always ditches you for can't come over or sumthin tell her you've got other things to do and see how she feels being left out.
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People are like that, I know a ton of people who do it and guess what? They don't have many friends in the long run. If she doesn't give you her time don't give her yours. Is she even still a "friend?" If she keeps being mean to you ignore it and go on w/ your life. You will meet a ton of people like that....it is life. Luckly, by that time you will know what to do. So, go make some new friends, and do not ever beg or make her underestimate you. If she hangs around you when she has nobody else be nice...but you know what I mean....what true friend would ever walk away from someone loyal and then when they have noone come back to the loyal friend. That is my advice.
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well in my opinion i think you should talk to your friend about it. if she denys it or keeps doing the same things than i dont think she is a good friend, speaking from experience, i dont think that`ll change. if she continues being mean then she`s just not worth the time, move on there`s better friends that care about you alot more. the more you grieve about it the harder it`ll be to forget and move on.
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Sometimes, friends grow apart. Seems like your friend isn't exactly the greatest thing for you anyways. Just try to make new friends. If she only hangs around you when she has no one else, she is using you. If she is using you, she isn't worth your time anyways. There are millions more people that could be a better friend and I am sure you will meet some. =]goodluckk
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You should talk to her and let her know what she's doing is wrong and that she shouldn't only hang out with you, when there's no one else. She shouldn't use you and she's clearly not a good friend, as she used to be. When she wants to hang out with you, don't and just go out with your other friends. Maybe then she'll understand how it feels to be used?
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omg!! the same exact thing happened to me!! nd i know people say just forget her and everything..but that's hard!! so start hanging out w/ someone new..nd if she wants to come back dont push her away..as tempting as it is..becasue taht makes it so much worse..but hang out w/ new friends nd have fun w/ them! shes a person from the past..and one day your gonna look back and ask why you were even friends w/ her!!
i hope everything ends up okay for you!!
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