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Hi.I have been through alot so you can ask me just about anything.I will help as much as I can.

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my bff has been my bff for as long as i can remember. but since we've been in high school she has really gotten inot the party scene and sexual thing. i do the party thing. so idc. but what has been bothering me is she doesnt care who she hurts, if she wants it she'll do it. my other bff, she is into two guys. both of which are bad guys that arent loyal no matter what. well my 1st bff was at my party last night and she had sex with my 2nd bff's man. one of them. and she told me to not say anything. but i hate this. it happens between the two of htem all the time. what can i do.

well first of all i think you need to just sit down with the both of your friends and have a discussion with them and some things might be different if they haven't been friends with each other as long as you have with them.if your friends really care then they will listen to what you have to say.i mean your first bff can find someone else and show some respect for your second bff.just tell them that you want and need things to be better for you all to be friends.

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is there any ways i can get motivated to write? i don't know.. my boyfriend told me..that my writing would get graded an F. umm yea. that really hurt..and now it's bothering me. i know my grammer sucks...but that really messed me up..now my authors block is lasting longer than usual.

screw him.not literaaly though.

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okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!!

well,i've been in that situation before.my friend seems to do that alot.just start hangin out with other people therefore when that person that she always ditches you for can't come over or sumthin tell her you've got other things to do and see how she feels being left out.

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ok..im the person who was talking about my crush being abused. well he just made out with a girl who just made out with a guy YESTERDAY!!! she has a rep for the BIGGEST SLORE in our school. well me and my friend (one of the girls whos a mutual friend) was like "im not going to give him any sympothy now about his dad because thats SO stupid and its BULL!!!!" i was like "yea good point.. i wont either!!"

is that the right thing to do though? i still kind of like him..a little..

He's gotta have some fun and you should not worry about that.he's getting abused regardless.he has to go on with his life and do other things but you should still worry.

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my best frend is a girl and she is way hot shes 2 years yyounger than me which is ok. not my problem my problem is i am felling lust for her sister which is 6 year years younger than me being like 7 am i sicck or is it ok help email for more info cause there are other facts im not gonna say on this
sammygamy@hotmail.com

how could you be feeling lust for a seven year old.she hardly even knows what n e thing is.that's just wrong in so many ways.You should definatley be with her older sister.

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Well I am finally 19 (the legal age in Canada) and I am going to go clubbing for the first time because I've never wanted to risk using my fake at a club because apparently, they take them away.
So my friends were all talking about VIP lounges and how you pay for people's drinks and clubwear and bartenders and types of drinks.
This make me feel really oblivious.
Is there anything really important I need to know before I go in case I look really stupid?

Ok,there's really not much you need to know.I say just go in there and have fun!!! good luck!!

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hello,iam 23 years old female ,my name is amanda
i met a 3o year old man online, and he lives in another country.i havent seen him before but we talked on the phone. from the way he chats and talks with me he seems to be so honest.and iam saying so honest means u can never have any doubt that he could be a liar.
this relation has been on for4 monthes now but i started to lose confidence in him.
2 monthes ago he said is going to travel to canada for his urgent eye operation but after 25 days when he came back and talked on the phone i asked him how did ur operation go?he answered i didnt do it, i was in(our origin country)cus his uncle died and his mother entered to the hospital.i was shocked that if he were in (our origin country)why didnt he call me?
next after one month he said he is comming to (our country)and he will see me but when he came he called as a wrong number just to hear my voice(i guess), and no respond till now, he keeps his mobile off. although iam sure he is still here and didnt travel yet.
what makes him far away from me although he said he is in love with me?
If he is having fun,what he expects to get from me though idont talk love with him and i dont even say that i love him.
how could i know that he really wants me?is he honest.plz i need your advice

OK.so me and my friend can't even trust the people who live down the street from us and I'm not saying that internet people are bad I'm just saying that you don't know what you're getting yourself into.He could be a murderer for all you know but good luck!

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Hi quick question does anyone have some good ecersises good for me (male 13) i am not overweight at all i just want to start exercising or any websites that will help me thanks

Sit-ups,push-ups,jumping jacks,running in place.You might want to do these once or twice a day.You can't give up or it'll just get you no where.

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I basically just want to know what people think about this and whether I'm the one with the problem! Last night my male housemate asked me if i wanted to watch a film so i agreed even though it was about 11.30pm as i couldn't think of anything else to do. I started falling asleep in front of it and then waking up and not understanding what was going on so i decided to go to bed and i told him that. So he started saying how the evening had started off really well and now it had been spoilt and how i had agreed to watch it with him and i was breaking my promise. He kept sighing and just acting really unreasonably and going really quiet and pissed off. So i just went upstairs and told my other female housemate that i was not going to be made to feel guilty about not watching a film because its ridiculous. So he came upstairs and started yelling at me so i yelled back and it got totally out of control especially as all this is over a film!! So then he said that no one had ever upset him to this extent before and how he used to feel comfortable living in the house and now he won't anymore. Then i decided to go and talk to him because i dont like going to bed in the middle of an argument. He was just like don't worry i forgive you. So now its my fault!! WTF?? then he went and stayed at his friends house because he didnt want to sleep in the house cos of what happened. Does anyone else think this is strange? Or is it all my fault as he seems to think? I know maybe i shouldnt have yelled back but it really upset me! Thanks guys.

If you were sleepy then you were sleepy.I mean my goodness.He seems way too uptight.You can always watch the movie later.Just don't let him get to your head.

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can anyone name a REALLY good pair of headphones?? preferrably not like the earbud type and not too expensive? thanks in advance♥

You could try Logitech.

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Hi,

My name is Todd, I'm an only child, and I am 15 and in High School. I have a really good friendship with this girl who has some problems. We're not really dating, but she's a really nice person and she's very kind, however she's depressed quite a lot.

I found out that she cuts herself since I saw cuts on her arms, and when some people asked she said it was nothing. I knew something wasn't right since she's never usually been cut like that. I didn't want to tell her that I think she's cutting herself, since I don't want to make her feel worse, but I just wish I could do something to make her feel better.

I always listen to what she has to say (although it's not much [as she says]), and I always try to do great things for her like get her gifts and make her feel better.

I know, from what she told me, her family has issues since she isn't really given much attention. It's not that her parents are mean, it's just that they don't really care about her. She also has two older sisters (who have children also) and one younger sister, so things get hectic over there, from what I know. Her two older sisters occasionally come up once a week or so, and she is left to babysit her nephews and niece.

I always try to let her know that I care about her 24/7. I'm going to invite her over to my house this weekend since she's been to my place before and my parents are happy to see her. Plus, it's a lot quieter. :-)

I know I can't "give" her my family, but I want to do as much as I possibly can to make her feel better and less depressed.

I'm concerned because I don't want her to commit suicide, since that would kill me. ;-(

If you have any advice or solutions you can give me, PLEASE TELL ME.

One of my ideas was that if her family doesn't do anything for Thanksgiving, I was thinking of having her over for Thanksgiving, since my parents won't really be doing anything since my immediate family moved away.

Thank you very much! :-)

Just keep doing what your doing.For her family there's not really much you can do.Comfort her as much as you can.Cutting can lead to much worse things.She could accidently cut too deep.Don't give her too many chances to cut.

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Do you think its wrong to be bisexual?

No.You like what you like and there's really nothing you can do about it.You have certain needs that need to be filled by certain people.Do what your heart tells you to do and don't worry about what anyone says.

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theres a guy that I really like. We havent slept together yet but I was hoping that one day we could be more than friends. Anyways I just found out from one of his friends that he spent a year in jail when he was 18, but wouldnt tell me what for. Anyways, that was a long time ago, he is in his 40's now.
He is a really nice guy and I know he would never hurt me. But I'm really curious as to why he was in jail.
Should I ask him or wait for him to tell me?

Sometimes when you get locked up it takes awhile to get over it.I've been down that road.You should wait for him to tell you.If he doesn't then he just might not want to hurt you so you should accept it.If you trust him then don't worry about it.

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My friend and I like the same guy and she made out with him in front of em so I was kind of mad but I got over it because I went and talked to her ex boyfriend.He got all mad at her because he said that was wrong of her to do that to me.But I told him I was over it and he is still mad and now she cant figure out why.Any advice on how she can talk to him with out getting him even madder.Ill rate high

Well since he IS her ex then he shouldn't be that mad but she shouldn't have done that to you.But you can't win them all.Maybe you should look for someone else.

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Yesterday we had basketball tryouts at our school and as a sophmore i made jv again and 5 of my friends moved up to varsity. Mainly because one of the varsity didnt want me to make the team..soo she tried to do nething in her power to make me look bad. I am torn up about this..my heart feels like its in my throat. That was my goal this year.and i failed at it. I feel like theres no positives. Do you think there is ne positives about this?

Everyone has their bad points.If this other person is also on the varsity then at least you won't be with her.Play the best you can and maybe you'll make your way up.

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My computer's acting really retarded, when I go to internet websites it usually says internet explorer has caused a ______ error. It's making me mad, I don't have virus protection because I would have to pay for it if I got it and I'm only 13. Do you know what's wrong? I tried restarting my computer but it continues. Where can I get free virus protection?

You could go to www.stopsign.com to have your computer scanned and you can go to www.pop-upblocker.com to stop whatever it is.

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Hey, I'm a fourteen year old female, and I have been smoking for around eight months. I'm sure that there are a huge quantity of smokers here, or people who know about smoking, and I have a few questions I would like answered, please.

1. Which is worse for you, cigars or cigarrettes?
2. [for the smokers] How old were you when you started?
3. Does smoking have a major impact on your voice, or is it only slight?
4. Recently, I tried to stop, and I threw a bitch fit at my friends.. I just went crazy! Was that an impact of the cigs? Am I addicted?

thanks... I'll rate, I promise!

1.Cigars are probably worse because they have more tobacco in them.
2.My friend was 7 when she started.
3.Well it could depending on how much you smoke.
4.You probably went crazy because you desperately wanted a cigar/cigarette.That doesn't really mean that you're addicted.If you want to stop then you could always buy a patch or some type of gum.

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What are some good songs about relationships...like sweet ones and then the kind were the guy leaves you sorta stuff Thanks

There is I Pray by Amanda Perez.Truth is by Fantasia and if I'm not much of a help then you can go to www.ask.com.
Good Luck ~Helper14~

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today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s

thanks for helping
kriddle06 :)

I would wait for the weekend to get there.It's not worth getting in trouble and you would still get to see him.Plus,the weekend is always more fun!!!

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Okay I have Limewire, and all of a sudden, It wont let me download songs. Everything else works as it should, I mean I can access my library and search for music, but when I double click on a song, nothing happens. Nothing pops up or anything, it just acts like I never did anything. I have tried pressing the download button and right clicking and downloading, but nothing happens. I have also tried redownloading limewire like 3 times. Nothing works. Does anyone know whats causing this or have any solutions?

Thanks in advance. Any help is appriciated

Well that happened to me 2.The reason is because it is illegal but who cares.You can download bearshare or morpheus by going to www.ask.com and typing those in and you can get it for free.You can download just about anything.I recommend Morpheus.

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