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Do you have to use lubricant or lotion while giving a handjob? (link)
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you dont have to but its better that way beacuse it feels better for him and it'll be more fun for you
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I gave my boyfriend a handjob and when he cummed, it got on my hands and on his hands too. Then my boyfriend fingered me. Could I get pregnant from this? (link)
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sperm dies when it hits the air so you are safe.
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i really really like him and i think i even may be in love the thing is even though we clearly love each other it's just that my family on my dad's side is really racist and they found out about the fact that iam dating roosevelt and the thing is he's black and iam white please don't give me any more lectures about only dating people in my own race i don't think i can take another lecture on interracial dating iam on a verge of a nervous breakdown right now so i really need your help.
I've already broken up with him 3 times and i don't think neither of us can take another breakup becouse yesterday i was actually crying on his shoulder at school so we started going back out again but i really don't know what to do please help me.
p.s racist people suck. (link)
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i think that you guys hurt enough over not being accepted. i don't think you should have to suffer anymore. if you're parents really care about you they should love you no matter what. since they don't seem to, you are 18 anyway so you don't need their permission. if you truly love each other than that should be enough. there are always going to be people who will give you a hard time but i think you guys shouldn't break up again beacuse of it. nothing can break up true love unless you let it so don't! ride out the waves together. love can conquer anything. hang in there and having each other will make it better. please don't give up!
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Ok well on friday night i was hangingout with some of my guy friends and my bf wasnt answering his phone because he was at a party and i was really upset. So my one friend called him and left hima nasty voice mail. Well later that night i was texting him and he sed he couldnt talk for some reason. So i got really pissed at him because he should be able to answer his phone and tell me that he cant talk right now. later that night i found out that he was cheating on me and i was really upet i cried all weekend. I called him on saturday to talk to him about it to see if it was true. he didnt pick up his phone. he was supposed to meet me at the movies but never showed. All my friends told me something was up but i didnt think so at first but his friend told me he was with a girl on friday and that hurt me like really bad. I have been in bad relationships before and i dont know wat to do i really love him and i dont want to let him go. please help me!!
I want to tlak to him about it to see if is true but hes not answering his phone because hes mad at me because this kid kissed me but i pushed away and left. What should i do??
thanks
~katelyn~ (link)
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oh hell no! he's mad at you because someone kissed you, who afterwards you pushed off,while
he was intentionally cheating on you wit some girl at a party??? he obviously wants to control you and be able to do whatever he wants with no consequences for his actions. he'll only keep hurting you. you need to get out of this relationship.
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this boy really likes me and is apparentely goign to ask me out. Im not sure what to do, i really really like him but im not sure if i can be in a relationship right now because of other peoples cocky comments like haha hes going out with her! what shall i do, shall i say yes or no? (link)
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if you really like him then you shouldnt let what anyone thinks get to you. people are always gonna talk- don't let that influence your decisions. Go for it or you'll regret missing out because you were worried about what other people would say...
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Okay so...I dont think im Preganent but my mind is like telling me That theres a possibilty i am from masturbation?? Im like uhh ur retarded because you havent had sex with anyone!! Ya know? SO i havent gotten my period and ive only had it for like 2 years and i never kept track then there was the leap year and i cant remember if i got it in early feb or not. I dont feel preganent and theres no signs of it but i need reassurancey.
Thanks. (link)
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you can't get pregnant from masterbating. your period is just late probably from stress...
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I just got this problem i got some great friends and i get to no them and then they all of the sudden get mad at me for the littlest thing cause of me being me and they never talk to me again and it hurts me bad but im not sure what to do...Any ideas (link)
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If they can't accept you for who you are then they aren't so great. Look for a group who will accept you for who you are and that you can count on for being your true friends. If you stick with these ones, they will continue to hurt you. You deserve to be treated better. good luck.
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okay im 13/f and after doing about 2 laps in 2 minutes and 36 seconds i kept on going ( we had to do 4 and a half) it hurt a lot when i was running on my 3rd lap.and when i breathed in and out it was more like gasping . so istarted to walk (it was sooo emberassing i came in dead last ; my coach said its becasue its only my second practice when everyone else has been practicing for 2 weeks) and when i started walking i couldnt breath at all and started to hyperventalate(sp?) i literally felt like i was going to pass out.in a way to describe how i felt it like someone was holding on to my lungs making them not able to get air throught them. can someone please help me by telling me why i feel that way when everyone esle barely breaks a sweat. i mean im not out of shape , im 5"5 and 115 pounds and 13/f . Also can anyone give me tips to not hurt so much (just practice right?) im not that good at spritns so thats why i tried long distance . and now since im pretty bad at that, im starting to tihnk that madybe track isnt my thing. but i CANT quit becasue my dad use to be a verry good runner , and i want to be like him adn make him proud . when he ran the boston maraton he said he kept on going evn though it hurt. i kepth that in mind as iran today and i tried to keep going , but i just couldnt .i really did try my best. (link)
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You sound to me like you have exercise enduced asthma. You should go to your doctor to get it checked out. As for other aches and pains make sure you stretch really good before practicing. Don't give up. Your doctor will probably give you an inhaler to use if you have the asthma and it will make your breathing better and manageable. Also, your coach or other runners can give you some stretching tips and help you find your strength on the team. Whatever you, do don't give up. And your dad should be proud of you that you are trying your best and want to please him as much as you do. Good Luck. hope i helped!
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Ok.Well i have a bf and We've been going out since last year and I LOVE HIM TO DEATH. But we just started talking abt after are graduation of 8th grade. What we should do after? If we should stay together or just leave each other. We are going to different high schools and i dont know wht to do?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Major help needed.................. (link)
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if you guys really care about eachother then distance shouldnt mean you have to break up. You say you love him to death so just make time to spend with him.
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i pierced my own lip and it doesnt hurt but it looks like i got punched in the lips. its not really horribly swollen but its swollen. im not really sure what to do so im not eating or drinking anything except water. is this normal? someone help please! (link)
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not eating or drinking anything but water is NOT helping your lip. start eating and drinking like you would normally do. you definitely should go to the doctor its probably infected.
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okay, im 15, and at my school there's this girl i like A LOT. i see her every day, and she's in all of my classes, and she rides my bus. She lives 2 houses down. I've known her since i was 4, but i REALLY REALLY like her, but im not sure if she likes me, i mean, im not sure if she just wants to stay friends or not, so im not sure if i should ask her or not. anybody wanna help me? (link)
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you will never know what could happen unless you tell her. instead, you'll be left with "what if's" never knowing what could have or couldn't have been. I say go for it. Let her know that if she doesn't feel the same way you don't want it to affect your friendship beacuse she means a lot to you. If she does, you can be happy and start the relationship you've been waiting for. Good Luck
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me(14) and my bf(16) have been going out for a while and a few days ago we walked past this shelf in a store with condoms on it and we started making jokes about buying them. then later that night we were in his room watching a movie, making out, he felt me up, and stuff. then today he told me he bought a condom "just in case". i know im not ready for sex right now cause im too paranoid that i'll get pregnant or get some disease. but i was wondering if both me and my bf are virgins, can we still get an std? and how well do those morning after pills work and where could i get one w/o my parents knowing? thanks in advance! (link)
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this is from:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
planned parenthood is totally confidential and will not tell your parents.
Emergency Contreception (EC/Morning After Pill)
The sooner EC is taken, the better it works to prevent pregnancy!
Before you take emergency contraceptive pills (EC), be sure you understand both the benefits and the possible problems of using ECPs. If you have any questions as you read, we will be happy to talk about them with you.
Emergency contraceptive pills (EC) are hormonal pills (similar to birth control pills) that you take to try to prevent pregnancy after you have unprotected vaginal intercourse. Either your birth control method failed (for example, your condom broke) or you did not use a method.
The pills either keep the ovary from releasing an egg, thicken cervical mucus or change the lining of the uterus in such a way that a fertilized egg may not attach and develop into a pregnancy.
The sooner EC is taken, the better they work to prevent pregnancy. It is best to start the pills within 72 hours (3 days) of unprotected vaginal intercourse. When taken within the first 72 hours after intercourse, emergency contraception pills prevent pregnancy about 75-89% of the time. Studies have shown that even if EC is taken as late as 120 hours (5 days) after unprotected intercourse they may prevent pregnancy. It appears to be less effective the later it is used. The effectiveness of using EC beyond 120 hours has not been proven.
How well the pills work depends on how soon after intercourse they are started and what day in your menstrual cycle unprotected intercourse takes place. This method fails to prevent pregnancy in some cases, because:
a fertilized egg already has implanted in the uterus;
too much time passed since unprotected vaginal intercourse;
failure of the drug itself.
You will get the FDA approved information provided by the pill manufacturer if you get these pills at Planned Parenthood. If you get your pills elsewhere, you should also get a copy of the FDA information. You should read the information and ask questions about anything you do not understand.
A sensitive urine pregnancy test should be done before taking EC if you think there is any chance that you could already be pregnant (last period was late, light, or short, or if you feel pregnant).
You should not use EC if you are (or think you are) already pregnant. However, if you are pregnant, or if the pills fail and pregnancy occurs, there have not been any reports of serious side effects to the woman or to the fetus from taking the pills.
Rare, but serious complications with blood clots can occur with the regular use of birth control pills. It is not known whether blood clotting problems (or other complications) can also occur when birth control pills are used for emergency contraception, but medical experts do not think so because the exposure to the pills is so short.
Some reactions to these pills (for about 24 hours) may include:
nausea and/or vomiting (rarely);
breast tenderness;
irregular bleeding;
headache or dizziness.
After taking EC, your next period could be early or late, or could be lighter or heavier, or could be the same as usual. If you use ECPs more than once in a monthly cycle, the chances of having problems with your next period could be even greater.
If you see a clinician for any reason before you get your next period, tell him/her that you have taken EC.
If you do not want to become pregnant, it is important to think of a more reliable form of ongoing birth control. After using EC, some women continue on birth control pills or use an IUD. Ask about the options at your Planned Parenthood clinic.
Having unprotected sex may have put you at risk for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and a serious infection could cause sterility. If you think you could be at risk for STIs, talk to your clinician about getting tested.
You should come back to the clinic four weeks after taking these pills for a checkup if you have not had a normal period, or if you feel like you could be pregnant, or if you have any early signs of pregnancy (such as feeling sick to your stomach, feeling very tired, breast swelling or tenderness).
about the atd's if you have engaged in oral sex with other partners it is possible to extract one that way but otherwise you should be std free.
DO NOT let your bf make you do it before you are ready or make you feel guilty because you are not.
hope i helped :)
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I think I'm a lesbian. I've read in the Bible that homosexuality is wrong and that if you commit the sin of homosexuality, the you will be sent to hell. But then in other Bible's, they say it is natural and that God will love you no matter what.What should I belive, that homosexuality is wrong, or that it is natural? (link)
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follow your heart. what YOU believe is whats important. Don't let anyone tell you who you are or who you are allowed to be.
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im 13/f and i am in love with this boy i have bn for ages nd ages i cnt give up on him i like him soo soo much i want to tell him how i feel but im 2 shy and i think he wud say no :( (link)
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well you'll never know what could happen unless you tell him. instead, you'll be left with "what if's" never knowing what could have or couldn't have been. I say go for it. if he says no, at least you aren't left with any "what if's" and if he says yes you can celebrate. good luck. hope i could help
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would wearing a high shirt and low pants turn guys on as much as wearing a low cut shirt? (link)
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Don't start dressing open. it will attract other guys and send a wrong message about yourself as in being slutty. you don't want anyone thinking you are a slut when you are not. its really not a good image.
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Wat do I do if my boyfriend wants to have sex and I do too but i am too shy
signed i need help (link)
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let him know you want to but your not ready yet and if he really loves you he'll wait until your more comfortable
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