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friend i like
okay, im 15, and at my school there's this girl i like A LOT. i see her every day, and she's in all of my classes, and she rides my bus. She lives 2 houses down. I've known her since i was 4, but i REALLY REALLY like her, but im not sure if she likes me, i mean, im not sure if she just wants to stay friends or not, so im not sure if i should ask her or not. anybody wanna help me?
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NEVER TELL A WOMAN YOU LIKE HER!
I'm giving the same advice as I gave another guy.
there are going to be lots of other girls you REALLY like, sadly even while going out with another girl... we are all human beings... though we dont have to always act out on these feelings!
So DONT think of her as the one and only!!!!
You already know her pretty well, so don't "Ask Her Out",
spend time with her, joke around, tease her, play with her.
If she is laughing and enjoying herself around you, she probably likes you, unless she wants something :|.
Then lay in wait for the right moment, (casually&slowly) lean in and kiss her.
I've read somewhere that the hair test is a sure sign, touch-play with her hair, if she doesn't back-off violently, you have the green light... a bit hard with girls shaving all their hair off nowadays.
Best of luck to you :)
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you will never know what could happen unless you tell her. instead, you'll be left with "what if's" never knowing what could have or couldn't have been. I say go for it. Let her know that if she doesn't feel the same way you don't want it to affect your friendship beacuse she means a lot to you. If she does, you can be happy and start the relationship you've been waiting for. Good Luck
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Wow. So I'm thinking yall are really close.
If she says she just only wants to be friends, then she may not be wanting to pursue into being in a relationship with you, or maybe she does like you and may not want to ruin the friendship,Does she like you? The only way for sure to know if she likes you, is simply by asking her. Or if your afraid to ask her straight out, ask her who she likes, or does she like anybody in detail.And if she only thinks of you as a friend, don't fret. It may hurt, but at least you know, and be glad she's your friend, she can look to you for support, if a guy is a jerk to her, you'll be there to beat them up and protect her, and who knows maybe soon she'll look to you later,as someone she'd want to be with. Hope this helps.
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I know you guys are friends already, but I would start hanging out with her A LOT! After maybe a couple weeks of hanging out with her a bunch, maybe just mention that you really like that you guys have started getting so close and then ask her if you guys want to be something more. But I would definitely pursue this if I were you.
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I think you should ask her, I mean, you two have know eachother for a long time, and she might just want to stay friends, so try asking her and see how she reacts. If she wants to be friends, just hangout a lot and then maybe she`ll change her mind.
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