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I HAVE A STALKER!!!!!!! EWWW!!! STALKER NEEDS TO STOP VIEWING MY PAGE AND STOP TRYING TO BE LIKE ME, YOU'RE NOT!!!!!!!!H0MEWRECKERRRRR!!
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okayy i really like this guy and he knows i liek him but some people say that he does liek me and some people say he doesnt.... and i reaaly want to find out if he doesn or dosent i know everyone thinks that i should just go up to him in person and ask him but i cant do that...... what do i do?
thanks
loveboys
The only way you'd know for sure is if Y0U were to ask him. If you were to ask any of his friends to ask or if you had one of your friends to do it for you then the guy might find it intimidating or annoying that people are asking him a question like this. It's best if you ask him, trust me.
Plus, words may get twisted in the line of fire if you were to get somebody to ask for you. :)
what should i say when a guy ask whats the farest ive gone with a guy
Well if you are uncomfortable with the question, say its "none of your buisness" or "i'd rather not say".
Like others said before me, it depends on how well you know the guy.
BEST FRIEND If it's someone you know like your best guy friend then you could tell him if you like.
CRUSH If it's some guy you like you could give him an answer (but I'd watch out for him, he maybe just out for a piece of a__).
RANDOM If its a random guy, he's a freak and tell him its none of your d___ buisness
Hope I helped.
I need hepl on figuring out what giving head means
Means sucking a guys penis.
The formal way of saying this is Oral Sex.
OTHER NAMES:
BLOWJOB
HEAD
so , when i shave my area
little like dots are still there, like the hairs still there , just not grown in.
I dont like it !
Help?
Like the person below me said, it always happens. You can try putting alot more shaving cream but for even better results, get it waxed. You can either find a place like (tanning salon) where they do that, or you can have an at-home wax kit where you can do it yourself. You can find it at your local store, like (walmart) . :) Hope I helped;
I dont know whats wrong with me but i'm like afraid of people touching me. I'm not like germophobic or anything. Seriously though like even just like if someone is sitting too close or something. Even with my best friend like we'll be sitting next to each other watching a movie and she'll be too close ( which is'nt even that close) and i move a little farther from her. I dont get any of this it's weird. I know alot of you are probably going to say like well if you have a problem with it then stop having a problem with it but i dont think it's that simple. Does anyone know whats wrong with me? Has anyone felt like this before? Help please!
There's nothing wrong with you at all, actually its pretty common on alot of people.
You're Claustrophobic which means that you are uncomfortable being too close to a person or don't like being to crowded like in a room space.
In reality, I think MOST people get like that at some point. Like for me, I don't like sitting to close to my friends either and NO ONE likes the thought of being crammed or caved in where they can't breathe. Like for ex: 4 friends sitting on a bench? Yall are touching each others lap literally, you feel a little crammed in like you can't breath cause you're just too close, so you may move away. It happens all the time.
For some people, they don't like being close to person at all. So don't worry, you don't need to go to the doctor or psychologist or anything like that its just being Claustrophobic; a fear of being crammed or caved in.
Hope I helped;
Ok, so i've liked a lot of guys in my life, but I have done NOTHING with any of them does that make me a slut? If I liked so many guys? ...
I mean alot of them i found out are friends w/the guys i used to like and some of them get mad and call me a slut. When I have done nothing with any guy, I'm just the kind of girl who moves on quickly if it doesn't work out between me and a guy, is that wrong?
Some guys ask me sexual questions and i answer but does that make me a slut, when i still haven't done anything with a guy? I've only made out with guys but i have not yet went past that yet. So does that make me a slut? and how do i deal with these guys?
I am in the same boat as you, and no that doesn't make you a slut at all and just let people assume what they want, only you would know. They're not you, and you know whats true and whats not. So let them talk their shit, they just looking for something to talk about.
And maybe some of the guys are mad that you like their friends but you didn't do anything with them right?Just keep your head up, don't listen to what the guys are saying about you and if they ask you those questions it should be none of their buisness, try not to answer next time cause it'll only make you look promiscuous if you do answer, don't make the same mistake I did. It's none of their buisness and trust me , if you don't make it big and show others it bothers you, it'll die down and they'll bother someone else.
Hope I helped! ;)
whats a good song that describes like, friends splitting apart? or losing friends? or growing up and things changing? or anything along those liness.
Fleetwood Mac-Landslide
Vitamin C-Graduation
Saving Jane- Autumn and Me
Alissa Moreno-Far from here
Maroon 5- Nothing lasts forever
Paramore- Broken
Taylor Swift-Mary's Song
There goes my life- Kenny Chesney
Martina Mcbride-This ones for the girls
Nikki Cleary-I miss you
Green Day-Time of my life
Hope I helped :)
15/f. okay first off im a teenager so body image is something that really matters to me. everybody tells me how skinny i am and it always make me mad. and i guess since im not like everyone else guys dont like me cause if it either. im like 5'4 or '3 and i way like 96 lbs. well are there any ways i can like gain weight? or like any stores or style i could wear to kind of fill out my shape. i wear like to wear tight pants and stuff but it hard to find the right pair, i wear like a 0 or 00 long. oh and everyone make fun of my long legs :/ so yeah . well any store for like smaller people, or any tips i would be really greatful for. thankss
Well really I think you should just be you, and people shouldn't be telling you that stuff, you're just built that way. It's not like you have a eating disorder right? If you did, then I would likely to tell you diffrent BUT since here it doesn't indicate that you have any eating disorder.
You are just built that way, you DON'T have to gain weight UNLESS YOU and I mean YOU (.NOT EVERYONE ELSE.)really want to, don't pressure yourself to literally like stuff your face just because 'everyone' is saying that about you. Not 'everyone' is saying that about you. I know that for a fact, maybe a good majority but not everyone. Trust me, I know this because I've been there and I still am. But you just have to learn to be with happy with who you are, and just work with what you've got and how you're built.
Since your body is slim and you stand at 5'3 then you likely have a 'boyish' figure. You can create 'curves' with clothes. Like for ex (since its spring): where bathing suits that are halter and have ruffled bottoms) or wear jeans that have big pockets in the back. Wearing stripes also creates curves too. In Seventeen magazine for every monthly issue they tell you what kind of clothes you can wear for your shape and height. You can go to any store like Charlotte Russe, Forever 21, Sears, Dillards anywhere really you just have to really look.
And an extra tip don't wear tight pants they are really not cute, I mean you may want to get noticed by guys but you want a fitted jean that is loose at the hip, (not something you can't squeeze out of when you take it off) you want something that accentuates your body not downgrade it.
And if you want to find the perfect pair of jeans get your measurements at a clothing dep., they'll measure your bust, waste, and hips so they can give you the low on what right pair of jains for you.
I'm not to be the one to tell you to gain weight cause I think you should just work with what you got. But if YOU really want to gain weight eat peanut butter sandwiches, they really weigh you in no time. Lean meats,pasta, but don't be unhealthy its better if you lay off the fried foods and stuff that has too much grease,butter and salt. If you must, it healthy and if not I say just work with what you got.
Hope I helped. :)
Okay so I have a boyfriend who recently hit his mom..Okay more like bruised it up.. and he might be heading for boot camp this summer. and he threw a plazma Big screen tv at his 12 yr, brother.
he says his brother was throwing a chair at him though. few months ago he got sent to his dads cause he did somehting wrong then him and his dad got in a fist fight.. he says he "Beat the s*** out of him" which isnt all that good sense he got searched, hand cuffed and taken down to the police station.. should i be worried? hes not abbusive right? just a temper?
That is physical abuse, and he is abusive. You indicated that he threw a PLASMA at his brother? Yeah, he is abusive no doubt.
And just because his brother MAY HAVE did it to him doesn't give him a right to throw such a LARGE object.
It seems that your boyfriend lives in a violent home, all his familty that are in the house can be a threat to you. Just imagine, you might think that he won't do that to you because 'he loves you' and your his g/f. But being violent like that?
JUST THINK and IMAGINE, if you say one 'wrong' thing or if you offend him in any way, he'll take a blow to your face. You don't want to get into a relationship like that, many girls have done that and they feel that they can't leave but you can. LET HIM GO. It's scary but girls/women have died in abusive relationships. It's the truth think about that.
Just let him down easily, say something like 'I think we should just be friends' and if he asks you why say you're busy or something like that.
Just be careful.
You can find someone better than him. SERIOUSLY, you may think that is hard but its really not. If you continue with this relationship it will only get worse and most likely you'll be unhappy and worried to leave. Break it off now.
Ask yourself this question.
You don't want to be with someone who makes you worry and wonder whether he's going to physically hurt you do you? ... or be with someone whos going to jail getting in trouble and make you worry.
Be with someone who isnt going to make you worry; and this guy will make you worry all the time. Be with someone who has a happy lifestyle who HASNT been to jail for drugs or alcohol or abuse. You want someone to make you happy NOT worry; I KNOW THAT FOR A FACT.
Hope I helped.
Hope I helped.
Sooo im going into my freshman year and i was wondering if there is a prom for every year or if its just seniors, and if theres like a homecoming every year.
im really confused can someone explain this to me?!?
:]] thankss.
It depends on your area.
Homecoming is for everyone and is every year.
PROM is for Juniors and Seniors.
But if you get asked by a junior or senior then you can go there is just papers to you have to sign.
which is better for your legs
nair or veet?
For me they both worked the same ways; BUT veet didn't burn as much so VEET. Hope I helped.
Ok this question isnt supposed to be offensive to anybody, im just wondering opinions. Today kids are having sex younger and younger, some kids are like 13 years old. I was wondering what you all think of that. Personally i cant believe this is happening to the world haha. I was just wondering if anybody out there agrees with me or if you dont agree with me, why? This is just out of curiosity. Also, if this is how things are now, imagine in 10 years, whats gonna happen!! haha, ok thanks!
I do agree with you, to me its ridiculous that more and more young girls as young as 12 are having sex and are not considering the consequences of having sex.
Most of them think they are ready, but it has so many consequences like it can emotionaly hurt a person. And for most kids they believe that if they do have sex with a person then, they will like them more or love them more. Which is entirely not true at all.
Thats why so many girls these days are becoming pregnant. It may be due to your location but TRULY its happening EVERYWHERE.
Sex changes a person, and it can change their whole life people are just not thinking about the consequences and it seems like to me it became a "trend"
To me there should be more people that are against it, and there are it is just hard to find. People have crossed the line not even thinking about their religion (if they believe in God) to wait. To me it actually means so much more to wait rather than to give it up before you're even married at all;
heyy!!
ive been flirting with this guy lately
and then i guess we've both mayb run out of stuff to say? or were to tured to talk? idk
anyway, my question is how do i get back into the vibe of it?
our conersation so far has been
hey!
Hi!
watsup?
nmu?
nm
and thats it
Just randomly go up to him and say hey what's going on? "I think maybe we should hang out sometime". That'll really step things up if you're that brave.
Well, really its nothing much to it thats all you have to say and just see what he says likely he'll say sure we oughto hang sometime.
Give him your number,and ask him to call you sometime. OR ask for his AIM screename or whatever.
You really need to make the effort and step things up before its lost I've done that before and I regretted it.
Talk about sports, the weather, Spring Break maybe coming up for you talk about what you're going to do and ask him what he's going to do. Talk about upcoming summer. SOMETHING just make an effort, EVEN IF YOU ARE SHY. But if you're really not that shy if you're already saying hey, lol.
YOU TAKE A STEP, HE TAKES A STEP. Yall both have to make an effort if you want this to work.
Hope I helped.
15/f
so me and my guy wanna fool around in his car. like no sex! but like fooling around. but these are the questions i have
-where should we park the car
-in the front or back seat
-what types of things should we do?
thank you guys!
If anywhere, ask him to park his car in a parking lot (walmart) that have lots of parking spaces so park as far away from the store as you can. And do it in the back seat rather than the front there is a chance people will see you if yall are sitting in the front.
Or park your car at a park (if you have one) or near a fishing peer (lol)
Any kissing touching each other all over your bodies, his body can be on top of yours but with clothes on touching each other is sensual. So that would work without having any sex at all.
Or at walmart yall maybe park in the back near where they fix the cars.
At night would be better than any time of day, but whatever is your preference. Hope I helped.
My boyfriend means alot to me. we're 15 and we've been together for a month. lately i've been worried. he asked me out 3 months after hima nd his ex broke up. and they went out for 17 months. longggg timeee!! well my friend saw them talking in the hall 4 days ago, for a little while. and they're now friends on myspace again. i dont want to get hurt. im not a jealous girlfriend. not one at all. i just dont like ex girlfriends..or at least this one. i just dont like the fact that they can be messaging over myspace and i wont even know about it. my and my bf dont have cell phones. so we only tlak on house phones and myspace occaionally. but we havent talked since our one month which was 4days ago. Am i worrying over nothing. the ex does have a bf. and says shes "happy" but idk. can/will anything happen b/w them again?
Well he is YOUR boyfriend,of course you're gonna get concerned when your guy talks to his ex. ALL girls are concerned with that, but justify it, talk to him about it, it shows your concern and that you really care. And it'll probably turn out harmless, afterall they're just friends, just make sure you stand by your ground, and justify even to his ex that YOU are HIS girlfriend. Have yall met yet? If yall haven't, ask him to introduce her to you. When yall meet stand close, and be polite to her but give her the eye that he is YOURS. If you stand by your man, that won't happen ( just don't get to carried away like getting his password to everything ,etc.) PLUS relationships are BASED on trust. Do you trust him? If you do, don't fret. If you don't, then you'll start questioning the relationship that yall have together. Re-think your values. Hope I helped.
some people tell me if a guy shaves his pubes he must be gay
well my boyfriend shaves down there
and trust me, hes not gay
so is it just a stupid thing people say?
Yep, its just as stupid as saying any guy who wears an earring is considered gay. Personally, I would prefer it, I don't like hairy balls lol; But whatever his or your preference is. Most or maybe all porn stars shave.So it is just stupid that people are saying that. Hope I helped.
okay on the show Paranormal State,
is all that true?
are ghosts really real??
Like the person below me said, people have their diffrent opinions. Some believe, some are skeptics, some come out skeptics then magically become believers. They say if you believe, then you'll see. But if you don't believe you may never see. So its really up to you, whether you believe it or not.
In my opinion, I do believe there are ghosts out there, even though I haven't had an encounter YET I still believe because to me, I believe if a person passes on with an tragic death (shot)or if a person hasn't lived the life they wanted (depression) those feelings go on in the afterlife. And those people can't crossover from heaven or hell and they're just stuck.
It's al up to you and your perception.
Hope I helped.
I am having a party and we want a really scary movie for it. Any ideas? When we say scary we mean ones that will make us jump alot and have to cling onto another person, or ones that are so freaky that your looking around corners and everything when the movie is done. I dont really like alien or monster movies. Please dont say The Ring, The Ring 2, The Grudge, or any of the Saw movies because we've seen them all and Saw is jsut gore anyways. Thanks alot
Gothika
1408
Halloween 1-5
Pyscho
Carrie
The Omen (1976 or 2006) version both good
Amityville Horror (1974 or 2006 version)
The Sixth Sense
The Others
Rosemary's Baby
The Shining
Pet Semetary
"IT"
Sometimes they come back
Christine
Wicked Little Things
Hope I helped.
hey there.
i just want to ask you for advice on your first loves. do you remember them? do you remember exactly what it was like? how did you know you were in love for the first time? how old were you? did it work out, if not what happend? details are important to me so please only answer if your passionate about 'first loves'. thanks.
No one ever forgets their first love, and if they do forget then that certainly wasn't their first love! I knew I was in love with this kid, the day I layed eyes on him. So I believe there is such thing as "Love at first sight" , you get this feeling of over-whelming happiness when they come around and you can't help but smile. Nervousness, butterflies in your stomach when they're close to you. First loves, are full of suprises. Sometimes you can't get words out to say to this person, you're just in complete awe, there can be silence even. First love has so much meaning to a person, you don't even have the exact words to describe it. You really can't describe it. And even if it does come to an end for whatever reason, they're your FIRST (and being FIRST always means something) , you'll still get that certain "feeling" of happiness because they were your FIRST. In due time, so whether your in a current relationship with somebody else or not, you're still going to remember your first love.
My story: I was 14 and in 9th grade. He was a friend of one of my best friends and one day he walked beside my bff, and my best friend commented on how he got a hair cut. I looked at him for the first time and I was "OMG, how cute he is! I still didn't make a comment about his cut but we were both smiling at each other and kept looking at each other. Even if we didn't talk, and he had left I felt that instant connection to him. So I asked who he was and she told me. The next day, my bff wanted to introduce us to each other, and when she did all we did was stare at each other and smiled. We never talked, really (lol) but the next thing, he drew me a pic. with my name in it with roses all around it. My name is Rose (so it went with the pic.) I was really suprised, I kept it. After he drew me that pic. he drew roses everywhere literally, he bought me lunch, outta nowhere. Every thing he gave me I kept, except for a bottle. I bought him a x-mas gift. It didn't work out in the end,sadly, I felt he was pushing farther away from me but then I found out, it was because he was moving and he didn't want it to hurt me. When he told me I didn't believe him because most of the time when a person said that to me, they don't move anyway. It didn't phase me til I came to school the next yr., I didn't see him. I couldn't believe it, it hurt twice as bad to find out that way/ But I will never forget him, compared to all the guys that came after him, no one compared to him. And to this day, I still have that pic. he drew for me ,I laminated it and put it 1st thing in my poem book. Even we haven't seen each other in yrs. I'll never forget him. And I wish him the best and hope he finds a good girl that treats him right.
Your first love, (if it has ended) you could only wish them the best in life and hope they find the right person, because at one point in time indeed you were in love this person and thought they were " officially "the one", but it didn't end that way. REMEMBER, FIRST of ANYTHING ALWAYS means something.
in your opinion, do you think its better to be yourself or to follow others and why?
Well it can quite work both ways for a person but you still maintain you. It is most important for you to be yourself, BUT you can also still follow in another persons footsteps with just being you.
Even though you may maintain to follow in another persons footsteps or follow others, you're still YOU, no matter what, and you're still your own individual. You may some common interests with another person and may think yall are both the same but in truth, you're an individual, and all people are diffrent.
So I think,in no matter what you do, you're still yourself.