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mixed signals
okayy i really like this guy and he knows i liek him but some people say that he does liek me and some people say he doesnt.... and i reaaly want to find out if he doesn or dosent i know everyone thinks that i should just go up to him in person and ask him but i cant do that...... what do i do?
thanks
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ok so last year when i liked my boyfriend i wanted to know if he liked me or not and i wasnt totally sure becuase well people would be like he likes you but then they would say he didnt now just to let you know when a guy hears over and over and over again if you like this certain girl they could get very frusterated and just flip out in a way. so i know you dont want to go up to him but the only way to find out if he likes you or not is to ask him yourself either if its over texting or IMing which could be easier but what does show that you have more confidence is if you ask him in person yourself but dont just go out and ask if he does or not cuz remember that he could be frusterated with people just asking so hearing it one more time is annoying so be like talking about something else like the funny times you heard in class or just a casul talk.
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I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
--Jack
(17/m)
Happy New Year! =]
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The only way you'd know for sure is if Y0U were to ask him. If you were to ask any of his friends to ask or if you had one of your friends to do it for you then the guy might find it intimidating or annoying that people are asking him a question like this. It's best if you ask him, trust me.
Plus, words may get twisted in the line of fire if you were to get somebody to ask for you. :)
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ahh stay calm about it. you should write him a note. asking him how he feels. or look for clues. how he looks at you etc.
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Its okay dont stress it . Just go up to his friemd and be like hey , can you do me a favor ? Ive been hereing around the school that your friemd so & so likes me and well i wanted to know if its true id apreciate it if you asked him for me . And then he'll tell you if he said yes or no but dont be upset if he said no im sure they are many more fellas out there (; hope ive helped - torii babiiee *
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