I have a bad feeling that I am going to be hurt really bad in a car acciden
Question Posted Monday December 29 2008, 11:26 pm
A few years ago I had a dream that I was in a car accident with my oldest child, and about a year later in 2006 I was. Several months ago I had three dreams in a row that I got hit by a train, instead a lady ran a stoplight flying down the road like an idiot and totalled my car. Well a few days ago I started having this really bad feeling that I was going to be in a car accident. I can feel the pain. I am scared to drive. This time I didn't have a dream but I can feel something bad is going to happen. I was telling a close friend the other day and the scary thing is she had a dream about it.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Activism? SilentOne answered Thursday January 1 2009, 9:27 am: Hi,
I know what it's like to have dreams, and then see something from them come real. I hardly ever dream, so when I do have dreams, and then I see people I haven't seen in three years a few days after they turn up in my dreams, it is unusual to say the least. For that reason, it could be pretty scary to have a nightmare.
Dreams tell us things about what we are thinking, but we don't even know we're thinking about, and perhaps (and I don't have to slightest clue how) sometimes what will happen around us in the future.
That being said, "about a year later" is quite a long time to wait for the event foretold in a dream. Being hit by a train is quite different from having your car totaled, and from the tone of your question, it doesn't sound like you personally came to harm, just the car, is that right?
The point is that bad things happen in everyone's life. Some people seem to attract them like magnets, while others walk off scot free. Being cautious in your every day life will stop you from being run over at pedestrian crossings by maniacs running red-lights. Double checking before you make a turn will stop you being side-swiped. I know that I could have been dead a few months ago if I hadn't noticed someone overtaking me on my bike while I was signaling to turn. But worrying about bad things that might happen is what stops people from living.
If you worry about a car accident, and take the bus or a train, you don't know that it won't change like your totalled car.
I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm trying to make you more worried about everything. It's not my intention. I'd just like you to realise that even if you are worried, things aren't certain, and worrying will simply make you less attentive, more accident prone, and less happy.
Accidents happen to the best of people, what matters is how we live between them. If it makes you feel safe, don't drive. Our ancestors didn't. But please be happy.
A note for next time: after stating your situation, please ask a direct question or two. It would give answerers a handle on what you want guidance on! [ SilentOne's advice column | Ask SilentOne A Question ]
ryang580 answered Thursday January 1 2009, 6:48 am: It May be coincidental, but it may be a range of psychic or spiritual event in your life that are reacuring.
I understand that you may be scared or paranoid about being around cars or traffic. But, when you go to drive again, you being convinced of this fear may lead to the felling transpiring. [ ryang580's advice column | Ask ryang580 A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday January 1 2009, 12:44 am: You can always change what is going to happen. Driving more careful, looking around more, seat belts, drive speed limit, before taking off when the light turns green make sure all other traffic has stopped. Those things may have happened, because you got scared while driving. you need to stay calm. i hate driving trust me. i got in a accident and lost my baby (i was pregnant) and i was so scared about driving. you have to over come your fear by going out. drive but be careful. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
asknava answered Thursday January 1 2009, 12:36 am: The fact of the matter is that nothing is set in stone. You always have the opportunity to change your fate, but as the girl said earlier, you cannot live your life in fear. Even though sometimes that is definately easier said than done, you have to do your thing. Like she said, if you believe in destiny, and it is to be that you are supposed to experience car accidents, then this is what will be and all you can do is learn from it. What I believe in though, is finding out what path you are on that may put you in harms way and then ask your guides, angels, God or whom ever what you should do to change this path, and then do that. This is the perfect time. You have to be open though, and make sure that you are making your decisions based on your trust and from your heart and not out of fear. If you believe in keeping spiritual charms around you, then I would suggest that you go to a priest and get a rosarie or a statue of one of the saints of protection or something of the sort and pray over it or have a priest bless it for you and bless you and your child as well. The most important thing is to trust life. Speak positive things, I am always safe, I am always protected, my child is always safe and our steps are always guided in the right direction. Things like this. Say what you want. If you believe in prayer, there is a phone number that I like to call that was given to me called Silent Unity. They will pray for you in the most positive way for 30 days straight and you can call as many times as you want. Let them know how you feel and they will pray for your safety: 1800.669.7729
xkatiex answered Wednesday December 31 2008, 11:45 pm: I really dont know what to say. You cant live your life being controlled by your dreams and your fears. I believe in fate and things happening for a reason. If you are destined to be in a car accident it will happen regardless of if your driving or not. You could even be a pedestrian??? My only advice would be not to let your fears control your life. [ xkatiex's advice column | Ask xkatiex A Question ]
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